I think the early and mid 00's was the worst period for Spider-Man as a character ever. The Raimi movies re-imagined him as this total dork and it slowly crawled its way into the comics. Anywhere from the 60s to the 90s, Spider-Man would be the wisecracking outcast in team environments and in a way, to us, the fans, would be too COOL for teams! He'd even occasionally lose his temper and freak out. Then post New Avengers, every time Spider-Man would be on teams, he'd be treated like AND act like "the annoying little brother" as I've called it. I HATE that.
Just imagine Spider-Man as he was before movies and JMS and Bendis etc in the 2000 video game for PS1. Joking, cocky, good at what he does. Then think of the years that went by culminating in "Web Of Shadows" where he sonds like Milhouse, cries about Mary Jane and Luke Cage has to teach "the geek" how to fight.
Blech!