Anubis said:
I'm saying that just because someone had a drunken circle jerk with a bunch of his frat brothers doesn't all of a sudden mean that he chose to become a homosexual.
We were even referencing prison rape, earlier, something that has nothing to do with sexuality and all to do with power and domination...unless we're saying that every man who's ever sexually abused another man, in prison or out, was secretly homosexual.
SuperFerret was right that a lot of people are probably capable of performing sexually with the same gender whether they know it or not; something stimulates your genitals, your genitals are gonna be stimulated. But what does that have to do with anyone's sexual orientation?
the burden of proof goes both ways....I don't think any reasonably intelligent person can say with 100 percent certainty that everyone who is gay or straight chooses or is born with their orientation
No, the burden of proof only goes one way. You might need science or diagnostics or research to tell you this because it isn't your lives, but we, homosexuals, have been telling straight people for years,
decades, the plain and simple truth that we had no choice in the matter. No out gay man, woman, or child is going to tell you it's a choice. Demanding
burden of proof is flat-out accusing us of lying in the first place, or that we simply don't know our own bodies as well as you apparently do --
-- Case in point.
It's incredibly offensive.