You being british I can't tell if that's a cry for help or just trademark sardonic.
Chin up dude; I know it's all relative, but a lot of people don't have half of the comforts in life that you do.I hate everything about everything and want out. Every aspect of my life is **** and I just ****ing hate everything about everything.
Chin up dude; I know it's all relative, but a lot of people don't have half of the comforts in life that you do.
What's the reason behind this outburst (if I might ask?)
I don't know what health issues you face, though I do recall you being unhappy with work (correct me if I'm wrong), and that you lack a social life? I can very much relate to that, although I do have friends and a social life, it's infrequent and it's usually left to me to organise anything.Every aspect of my life is utter s**t at the moment, at any one time, we all have 5-6 things to balance in life and at any one time, one of those things won't be as we'd want them or be 'spinning' as well as we'd like, well, just at the moment every single area is down the pan and I've lost a great deal in the last few years and it's a question of re-build, re-evaluation and re-configuration of what is achievable, what isn't and what perhaps I have to say goodbye too permanently and face the sadness & loneliness that I currently feel in every area of my life, along with my failing health, which governs many of the reasons why the other areas are not functioning or 'spinning'.
I don't know what health issues you face, though I do recall you being unhappy with work (correct me if I'm wrong), and that you lack a social life? I can very much relate to that, although I do have friends and a social life, it's infrequent and it's usually left to me to organise anything.
In any case, the reason (I) have a small social circle is because I don't put myself out there, and I think, as dull as my employment is, it's further dulled by the fact I don't do much (in the week) when I'm not at work. The answer; volunteer work. I've signed on for two of the local conservation trust, the local Cats & Dogs home, and the local sea cadets and I plan to spend at least one day each, or every other weekend involved in some project or other. This'll allow me to expand my skills, meet people, build friendships and further develop a sense of purpose, all whilst getting me out there and doing something productive.
I'd encourage you to look at doing the same. It may be of further benefit (if you don't already) to join a sports club or gym; exercise is good for the soul, be that cardio, weights, or even something more simple such as Yoga.
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I always assumed you wereHow dare you think I cannot be apart of a collective.
If I hear "Girls Like You" one more time, I'm driving right into the divide. I'm ****ing done.
I've been happily married for 25 years. If I were to be suddenly widowed the idea of dating again terrifies me. I think I'd rather just go it alone.That sounds annoying. Just sayin though... as a dude, I feel like girls often assume that we're all the same. Lots of girls think that all dudes are purely about the physical. So I meet someone new, and it doesn't take long for her to try to pressure me to fly out to see her using sexual favors. She sends me sexy pics of her and sexy comments, as if that will get me running to her. And while that's nice.... you've got the wrong guy, lady... I really am not willing to abandon all reason for a pretty face. In fact, all this silly, "look at me" nonsense just makes me feel like she's shallow and that she doesn't really know me.
I hate dating.
I've been happily married for 25 years. If I were to be suddenly widowed the idea of dating again terrifies me. I think I'd rather just go it alone.![]()