Why am I attracted to this person?!?

[The Original Bamfer]

Don't judge.

 

[dark_b]

There was this woman i had known all my life, that i never really paid much romantic attention to. She had always been with someone close to me over the years and also had been there for me in times of need. She'd sometimes let me crash at her place and make me breakfast and stuff. I'd help her out by cleaning up abit and maybe mowing her grass when her fella was out. It was good times.

Then one day I had this really sexy dream about her and i just couldn't get her out of my mind, I never really what a sexy beast of a lady she was. I didn't even care about her dude anymore. I was seeing someone at the time and i dumped them and started this year long fatuation over this woman. Eventually i told her and she wasn't too happy about it. I tried to kiss her and say something but she eventually kicked me out and Told me never to return or call her again.

That was the last time i saw my mom.

thats one of the best twists that i heard in the last month
bravo

 

[The Original Bamfer]

Yeah, wait until she tells you she's serious.

 

[BRUTAL]

She's something of a ****e, this is not news.

 

[DV8]

heh . . . I remember there was this chubby asian girl in my class when I was in middle school . . . she really wasn't hot . . . at all . . . one day I was watching her, and was thinking to myself:

"She's not really hot, she's chubby . . . I mean, I guess she's kinda cute, but what kind of guy would go for her?"

after that, I started to become EXTREMEMLY infatuated with her . . . I started to get to know her, and then I really started to like her and after all that, it was unreciprocated EGG on my face!

 

[TBadora]

have a weird infatuation with them? The person could have little to zero impact on your life, you're not attracted to them in the slightest and then your mind, for whatever reason, decides to create this weirded out attraction that was never there before. So you spend the next few days wondering why the hell you're attracted to this person and why you had a random dream about them.

Thoughts...experiences?

That is how all serial killers get their start!

 

[Superman79]

Strange question, but have you ever had a dream about some random person in your life and then the next day you have a weird infatuation with them? The person could have little to zero impact on your life, you're not attracted to them in the slightest and then your mind, for whatever reason, decides to create this weirded out attraction that was never there before. So you spend the next few days wondering why the hell you're attracted to this person and why you had a random dream about them.

After a few days or a week or so the dream induced attraction wears off. Then you're back to your usual self and wondering, "What the hell was that all about?"

Thoughts...experiences?

The dream coupled with the chemicals your brain releases during sleep has something to do with it. It would be like the idea of a post-hypnotic suggestion, or the idea that if you say things to people in a deep sleep they are likely to remember/respond upon waking. It happens to me occasionally (the dream thing) it wears off...no biggie.

 

[terry78]

heh . . . I remember there was this chubby asian girl in my class when I was in middle school . . . she really wasn't hot . . . at all . . . one day I was watching her, and was thinking to myself:

"She's not really hot, she's chubby . . . I mean, I guess she's kinda cute, but what kind of guy would go for her?"

after that, I started to become EXTREMEMLY infatuated with her . . . I started to get to know her, and then I really started to like her and after all that, it was unreciprocated EGG on my face!

BURN!

It's always hilarious when someone that's pretty much viewed as unattractive turns you down. It's a WTF moment. I've turned down a few females myself that were shocked in the same manner...but I found them fugly anyways.

From the classic song from the 90's entitled "Funk Dat."

Question: Why is it...that whenever I go to a club..only the UGLY chicks try and step to me? What, I'm ugly or something? Whadda you mean...grrr..."

 

[bullets]

There was this woman i had known all my life, that i never really paid much romantic attention to. She had always been with someone close to me over the years and also had been there for me in times of need. She'd sometimes let me crash at her place and make me breakfast and stuff. I'd help her out by cleaning up abit and maybe mowing her grass when her fella was out. It was good times.

Then one day I had this really sexy dream about her and i just couldn't get her out of my mind, I never really what a sexy beast of a lady she was. I didn't even care about her dude anymore. I was seeing someone at the time and i dumped them and started this year long fatuation over this woman. Eventually i told her and she wasn't too happy about it. I tried to kiss her and say something but she eventually kicked me out and Told me never to return or call her again.

That was the last time i saw my mom.

thats the saddest story i've ever heard

 

[DV8]

BURN!

It's always hilarious when someone that's pretty much viewed as unattractive turns you down. It's a WTF moment. I've turned down a few females myself that were shocked in the same manner...but I found them fugly anyways.

From the classic song from the 90's entitled "Funk Dat."

Question: Why is it...that whenever I go to a club..only the UGLY chicks try and step to me? What, I'm ugly or something? Whadda you mean...grrr..."

I know . . . totally blows; I mean, I was a pretty chubby kid myself, and the girl wasn't hideous or anything . . . just not very hot . . . plus I think she kinda liked me, but she was going out with another asian kid (which she was pry about to marry at that age )

 

[Erzengel]

Dating you would bring great dishonor to her family.

 

[DV8]

^hahaha, you would think I'd have learned my lesson with that first asian girl, but after that I started having a 'thing' for asian poon . . . she gave me that yellow feeevah!

 

[Superman79]

^hahaha, you would think I'd have learned my lesson with that first asian girl, but after that I started having a 'thing' for asian poon . . . she gave me that yellow feeevah!

AHH...she luff you long long time!!! t:

 

[kane9321]

I dont judge anybody

 

[terry78]

^hahaha, you would think I'd have learned my lesson with that first asian girl, but after that I started having a 'thing' for asian poon . . . she gave me that yellow feeevah!

When they're hot, they're like crazy hot. LIKE CGI model hot. But when they're meh...they are MEH.

 

[DV8]

AHH...she luff you long long time!!! t:

When they're hot, they're like crazy hot. LIKE CGI model hot. But when they're meh...they are MEH.

for real . . . MEH as mug . . . lol! anyway, my affinity for asian women eventually paid off when I met one that was more integrated with American culture (i.e., it was cool for her to date non-asian guys), and had pretty big knockers to boot D) . . . I was with her for 3 years until she eventually began to smother me with pressure to move out and or get married

 

[terry78]

^Ah, yes...they do tend to get a little psycho streak now and then. Mine was a constant cryer. Don't ask why.

 

[Holly]

Not necessarily instigated by a dream, but it happens quite often where all of a sudden someone is incredibly attractive/interesting to me for no apparent reason. I'll spend a week or so thinking about them/talking to them a lot and then I'll get bored and move on to another fascination.

likewise. we love the chase, not the catch.

 

[DV8]

^Ah, yes...they do tend to get a little psycho streak now and then. Mine was a constant cryer. Don't ask why.

Yes, I hear you . . . she was also very clingy . . . a cryer, and a screamer

 

[DV8]

likewise. we love the chase, not the catch.

you'll never catch me! *pokes in arm and runs*

 

[Superman79]

for real . . . MEH as mug . . . lol! anyway, my affinity for asian women eventually paid off when I met one that was more integrated with American culture (i.e., it was cool for her to date non-asian guys), and had pretty big knockers to boot D) . . . I was with her for 3 years until she eventually began to smother me with pressure to move out and or get married

for the hotness and the rack
: for the smothering.

Still, had to be fun while it lasted

 

[Holly]

you'll never catch me! *pokes in arm and runs*

*doesnt chase*

 

[Superman79]

^Ah, yes...they do tend to get a little psycho streak now and then. Mine was a constant cryer. Don't ask why.

She's a woman and they do that??

 

[terry78]

She's a woman and they do that??

No, I mean when anything went wrong she cried. Minor ****.

 

[Erzengel]

Crying is such an aphrodisiac.