I'm tryin to find her in Northeast Ohio? like Clevelandish..
and I'm trying to find her sometime in the near future..
I expect her to be somewhere.. Maybe on the Hype.. Around me..
I don't know, never really thought about where I wanted to find her at..
You don't
find a woman like that. This is not a "Where's Waldina" where you're looking for that
one girl in a sea of women. And if you do find her, I'll break the news to you now...she is going to have a Boyfriend and your going to turn into Kainedamo trying to convert her.
Your best bet is to talk to a wide variety of women. Don't concern yourself with their "interests", concern yourself with how you feel when you talk to them...try to create a rapport and find a connection and then if she wants to see you again go on a date with her. If this attraction it turns into some form of love then continue on that path until those feelings are gone...break up and go again.
Finding Miss Perfect, if there is such a thing, is a process of trial and error. You'll go through periods where you want good girls, one night stands, f*** buddies, trophy girls, freaky girls...hell some guys even get hard ons for the crazies for a time. And gradually you'll narrow down which traits you like and which you don't until you're finally ready to committe to something more.
While you shouldn't settle for a girl you just don't like, you shouldn't let opportunities pass you by either. If you see a girl in a "Death Metal" section of a music store and find her attractive, strike up a conversation...you might find a common ground on something far more important than Dr Who and Star Wars.