undomiel said:
Yes, the third story was the completion of the story arc of Wolverine's love for Jean, which was destined to end tragically.
Exactly. It wasn't meant to be and he didn't have a chance.
And I do think that what was happening to Jean was very important to the story, but its impact is much more dramatically displayed as we see how it affects those who care about her. And no, it would not have affected any of the other X-men as much as it affects Wolverine because he's desperately in love with her (and Scott is dead).
Irrelevent. Him crying out to her out of love is nothing compared to the impact her loss would have on her parents, her family, and to people like Ororo and Hank, who were as close as she could have to a brother and sister. Not to mention some of her students.
Also, you keep using the short time frame that Wolvie knew Jean as a proof-text against the depth of his love for her. This is predicated upon the assumption that longevity is the key to caring for someone. Yet we know this is not necessarily the case
Yes, and that is a valid argument. He's been around Jean not longer than 1-2 weeks, tops. Most of that time spent was not in a romantic situation with her, either. And Lengetivity is the key for caring to someone and the best foundation for a relationship, as it gives you the best opportunity to learn all the nuances about that person which help make that relationship work. And as a result, no one was in a better position than Scott. It may not be the case for other couples, but it's clearly the case here and why their relationship worked.
-- think of husbands and wives who've spent years together just tolerating each other.
Irrelevant. This was not the case here. There was plenty of warmth in this relationship. Scott and Jean's bond was hardly for pragmatic or practical reasons.
Time and shared history are not guarantees of true love.
No, but it is in this case, as this is the foundation that their relationship was based on. You can extrapolate all you want from other examples, but none of those examples apply to this specific situation.
You also misunderstand a few things about Wolverine. He relates to people the way animals do -- he's very instinctive and quick and certain in his judgments of people. He knows almost instantly whom he hates and whom he loves.
He's free to love anyone who wants, but that is no guarranty that they will love him back or even be available in the first place.
He's very direct and intense -- it doesn't take him an age to figure out he's in love with Jean, so he doesn't need more than a few weeks/months around her to love her like that.
Again, what you describe is a crush. Logan can yearn all he wants for Jean, but that is no guarranty that she will respond to him in a mutual fashion, or by seeing his yearning she will feel sorry for him and give into his desires. It has never happened in any incarnation of the X-men, and it has no business being here. Wolverine's crush on Jean has never been more than something that passed through, certainly not even close to jeopardizing her feelings towards Scott. To portray it the way it is here is one of the reasons why X3 violates well established and known character traits.
And once again, when it came time to putting his money on the table and offering up the challenge, Jean made it very, very clear. She loves Scott, and Scott is the one she'll be taking home. There is no other interpretation for this, there is no room to turn it into a gray area or to debate about it. She chose Scott. Not Logan. Logan accepted that. His fans should too. That issues should have been settled and buried the way it was by the end of X2. To open it up again like it was in X3 is only beating a dead horse.