YIKES...I kinda ****ed up...

[Orko Is King]

Normally I'm opposed to this sorta thing, but I had to put it in writing somewhere and get it off my chest. So I have this friend. We've been really close friends for nearly 2 years now and we hang out with each other (got o movies, dinner, that sorta thing) fairly often. So, we were at PF Chang's eating dinner and she offers to pay for some of the bill because the IMAX tickets were rediculously expensive. I decline but she insists saying her mom gave her $20 that day. Not being one to argue I take the $ and then pay the difference with my own cash. We leave the restaurant and as we're walking I tell her "Thanks for the donation.", put my arm aroundher, and lean in for the kiss on the cheek. She moves her head down, dodging it just barely. But the rest of the night we act like it didn't happen at all and everything was cool. But I still kinda felt bad so I shot her this message.

I just want to say that I’m sorry for trying to kiss you after dinner. I really don’t know what I was thinking and it’s entirely possible that I wasn’t thinking at all. I dunno, I’m such a social ****** I suppose. I just had to see if there was anything there and I now know that there isn’t. I just thought I’d give it a shot and if nothing happened, then oh well. I’ve always felt that the best relationships were built on a solid friendship first. But, in all honesty I think I was just being an idiotic dick. I think I owed you this apology because you’re like family to me and you deserve to be respected. I hope things won’t be awkward from now and we can just put all this **** in the past.

To which she replies...

yeah. just don't do it again because it makes hanging out with you awkward. I just want to be your friend and that's it. I don't think I've given you any signs that I wanted anything more than that, but if you think i had, i'm sorry.

Oy vey...

 

[Superman4ever]

OUCH! You should have never apologized, IMO, by mail, if at all. And to call yourself a dick for a kiss on the cheek? DUDE!

1. Just leave the situation as it is; DON'T bring it up again. And I mean the next time you see her DONT, DON'T, DON'T say: "Hey, I just wanted to reiterate how SO SOOOORRYYYYY I am about..." Just let it die. If she brings it up, then say it was a mistake, and also a misunderstanding and tell her to move on.

2. Let her call/mail you first on your next venture out. DON'T call her. You'll look desperate. Let her come to you...this will give her time to think/cool off. It'll also take away some of the awkwardness.

3. DON'T APOLOGIZE AGAIN. AND for G-D's sakes don't demean yourself by putting yourself down to her.

 

[Motown Marvel]

ha ha, thats what you get for eating at PF Changs! SUCKA!

 

[Orko Is King]

ha ha, thats what you get for eating at PF Changs! SUCKA!

But it was soooo derishus!

 

[Kable24]

I feel for you Orko. I know what it's like to have female friends and not know if something is there or not. I probably would have apologized too, but just said that I just wanted to thank you by giving you a kiss on the cheek and leave it at that. I wouldn't have mentioned about wanting to see if something was happening between you. Hopefully you can work it all out and remain great friends.

 

[black_dust]

Knock her out and touch her boob i say

 

[DOG LIPS]

"This is why you should only have female friends that are hookers. Then that kiss on the cheek will ALWAYS be available.


For $10."

 

[Super Kal]

this is why I rarely ever have female friends

 

[The Kid]

Just call her and say "you're good woman, I'm good man."

 

[DOG LIPS]

this is why I rarely ever have female friends

Yeah, that's why.






I keed, I keed.

 

[Super Kal]

lol, I'm serious though... I don't know a damn thing when it comes to the opposite sex, let alone talk to them...

 

[The Kid]

Oh dear oh dear...

*walks away whistling*

 

[the_ultimate_evil]

mattnotis??

 

[nosebleed.]

Smooth move. Next time just give her a good game and call it a night.

 

[Mr. Smash'n Bash]

Wait, women don't like it when you smack them in that ass and say "Good game." ?

 

[nosebleed.]

Wait, women don't like it when you smack them in that ass and say "Good game." ?

Works for me.

 

[jaguarr]

OUCH! You should have never apologized, IMO, by mail, if at all. And to call yourself a dick for a kiss on the cheek? DUDE!

1. Just leave the situation as it is; DON'T bring it up again. And I mean the next time you see her DONT, DON'T, DON'T say: "Hey, I just wanted to reiterate how SO SOOOORRYYYYY I am about..." Just let it die. If she brings it up, then say it was a mistake, and also a misunderstanding and tell her to move on.

2. Let her call/mail you first on your next venture out. DON'T call her. You'll look desperate. Let her come to you...this will give her time to think/cool off. It'll also take away some of the awkwardness.

3. DON'T APOLOGIZE AGAIN. AND for G-D's sakes don't demean yourself by putting yourself down to her.

Solid advice.

jag

 

[BatMatt]

ahh the "friend zone", sorry to hear that man.

 

[Lunar_Wolf]

Man it's not like you went for the lips, it was only the cheek, oh well. Girls are odd ones.

 

[Spidey-Bat]

You shouldn't have apologized. I'm even more of a social ****** and I would have known not to do that.

 

[UltimateJustin]

She kind of handled that one like a bxtch. Girls usually are like "oh dont worry about it! were still bffs in the house!". I mean not to me, but to my loser friends one of whom is a halfie. They usually respong friendly because they probably know you're hurt from being rejected.

Does it upset you to know that she doesnt think you are good enough for her, yet probably throws her gaunch out to guys with goatees who listen to Hoobastank still? ****.

 

[Orko Is King]

She kind of handled that one like a bxtch. Girls usually are like "oh dont worry about it! were still bffs in the house!". I mean not to me, but to my loser friends one of whom is a halfie. They usually respong friendly because they probably know you're hurt from being rejected.

Does it upset you to know that she doesnt think you are good enough for her, yet probably throws her gaunch out to guys with goatees who listen to Hoobastank still? ****.

It stings a little. But I was talking to her sister a few months back and she told me she hasn't had a BF since freshman year of highschool and we both just finished our sophomore year of college.

 

[tzarinna]

Post #2 FTW.


Girls are weird.

 

[nosebleed.]

Post #2 FTW.


Girls are weird.

yes you are.

 

[The Kid]

I wish I was a girl so I could screw with guy's heads. I don't get why women love to do that signal sending bull crap. Just say what you want.