I ****ed up. Again.

[kainedamo]

Oh man. Oh man I hate my life.

SO!! I went to this thing. I don't think I should explain what it is... except Daisy knows what it is... a "munch" and it was my first. I met this girl who I had been talking to online previously. And earlier today I was all dramatic and sent her a message saying "I don't think I'm going to go I don't feel comfortable" but then I ended up going. So I went, and the people there were nice, I was talking away to everyone. And I was talking to the girl, and all was well. I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime, go to the pub or the cinema, and she said "yeah, maybe". And seriously, thats the most positive indication that I was gonna get a date in maybe 2 years. Thats how much things suck for me.

So later, when we were all heading home, I was outside with her. I was kinda drunk, and was talking to her. And I put my arm around her, which I definately think was a move too far. She gave this other guy a look which definately said "I want this guy to go away now". So I guess I came on too strong. ARGH!! Women are so difficult. Between that, and her eventually reading my stupid message where I said I wasn't gonna go at all, yeah. She's never gonna talk to me again. I suck.

P.S. I'm drunk.

 

[black_dust]

Haha never talk to you again cause you put an arm round her? if she thinks that she aint worth the hastle

 

[kainedamo]

Well, thats the impression I got from her

 

[Immortalfire]

What

 

[GunBlade]

You already screwed up getting drunk.

An arm is going a little too far, especially on the first date. Keep to your space first, and if the girl is more comfortable and relaxed, then it's ok.

Men..

 

[Sloth7d]

Maybe once you sober up, you'll realise your overreacting.

 

[Flexo]

Maybe once you sober up, you'll realise your overreacting.

Or that things are worse than he expects.

 

[hippie_hunter]

Oh man I hate my life.

You should.

I suck.

Yes, yes you do.

P.S. I'm drunk.

This proves that kainedamo is not an ethnic stereotype.

 

[passerby]

I think Kainedamo is just trying to get attention. First by telling the girl he might not show up and then going and now this thread. He was probably hoping the girl would read the message and then beg for him to come. Oh, and if you think the girl isn't ever going to talk to you again then she probably didn't like you in the first place.

 

[Iceman]

You ****ed up. Again.




Wait you can still use your legs, right?

 

[Sloth7d]

Or that things are worse than he expects.

Well, it could have been worse. The other guy could have attacked him.

 

[Flexo]

Well, it could have been worse. The other guy could have attacked him.

Hey, it could still happen.

 

[jaguarr]

I know what a Munch is, KD. The big mistake you made was getting drunk at a scene function, to be honest. It's highly frowned upon in most kink circles. As far as the girl is concerned, next time you see her just nonchalantly tell her that you think you probably overstepped your bounds putting your arm around her when you didn't know her like that, and that it will never happen again as you will not be drinking alcohol at future scene functions. Open, honest and straight forward will get you far in this world. Now keep your stupid ass sober the next time you're at a scene social event.

jag

 

[jaguarr]

Double post!

jag

 

[Mee]

Did kaine get cooties from the arm touch?

Will his e-buddy ever talk to him again?

Was the random guy she looked at Chris Hanson?


Tune in next time!

 

[Mr. Smash'n Bash]

**** up more kaine, it amuses me.

 

[Erzengel]

Uh it sounds like once the girl met you she wasn't interested.

Biggest indication was the "yeah maybe" when you asked her out.

Move on.

 

[kainedamo]

Uh it sounds like once the girl met you she wasn't interested.

Biggest indication was the "yeah maybe" when you asked her out.

Move on.

Yeah, see, I'd just tell a person a straight no if I weren't interested.

 

[Mr. Smash'n Bash]

Women don't say no, they say "yeah maybe" or "I'll think about it"

 

[Erzengel]

Some people rather like to spare feelings. I know you rather like things straight forward but you really have to learn how to read between the lines. If you ask out somebody, and they say anything besides, "yes I'd love that", then dollars to donuts says she ain't interested.

 

[Showtime]

I don't really think this is the end of the world, but yeah you're probably beat with this girl.

 

[passerby]

She could also say that she is very busy with work for the next couple weeks.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

I think I wanna go buy some liquor now.

 

[kainedamo]

Some people rather like to spare feelings. I know you rather like things straight forward but you really have to learn how to read between the lines. If you ask out somebody, and they say anything besides, "yes I'd love that", then dollars to donuts says she ain't interested.

I know that some girls think they like to spare feelings. But the best way to do that is to be honest. If you're not honest, you're just gonna give the guy false hope.


Plus, it's just kinda frustrating because I don't meet many girls.

I think I'll leave it a few days. Then I'll message her and say "yeah, I was drunk. I overstepped my bounds. Very sorry". But thats another thing about girls - they'd rather ignore ya than explain they don't want to talk.

 

[Mr. Smash'n Bash]

Liquor, mans only friend.