YIKES...I kinda ****ed up...

[Erzengel]

OUCH! You should have never apologized, IMO, by mail, if at all. And to call yourself a dick for a kiss on the cheek? DUDE!

1. Just leave the situation as it is; DON'T bring it up again. And I mean the next time you see her DONT, DON'T, DON'T say: "Hey, I just wanted to reiterate how SO SOOOORRYYYYY I am about..." Just let it die. If she brings it up, then say it was a mistake, and also a misunderstanding and tell her to move on.

2. Let her call/mail you first on your next venture out. DON'T call her. You'll look desperate. Let her come to you...this will give her time to think/cool off. It'll also take away some of the awkwardness.

3. DON'T APOLOGIZE AGAIN. AND for G-D's sakes don't demean yourself by putting yourself down to her.

Solid advice.

jag

Ugh. I feel like Superman coming to save the day after the Flash and Green Lantern just did.

But anyways, yeah what he said.

 

[Mr. Credible]

OUCH! You should have never apologized, IMO, by mail, if at all. And to call yourself a dick for a kiss on the cheek? DUDE!

1. Just leave the situation as it is; DON'T bring it up again. And I mean the next time you see her DONT, DON'T, DON'T say: "Hey, I just wanted to reiterate how SO SOOOORRYYYYY I am about..." Just let it die. If she brings it up, then say it was a mistake, and also a misunderstanding and tell her to move on.

2. Let her call/mail you first on your next venture out. DON'T call her. You'll look desperate. Let her come to you...this will give her time to think/cool off. It'll also take away some of the awkwardness.

3. DON'T APOLOGIZE AGAIN. AND for G-D's sakes don't demean yourself by putting yourself down to her.

yup... especially 2 and 3.

 

[Abaddon]

Making a move was a mistake. Bringing it up again was very very very very very dumb of you.

 

[Movies205]

Lighten up guys, it's not like this **** really matters... (Let me elucidate) It's not like he ****ed up on his job, grades, or stuff that might really f-him over later. In the end, Kudos for having the balls to see if there was somethign there instead of pining like a ***** here about how you like this girl, yada yada... As for stuff afterwards, meh, you were embarrissed, worse things have been committed. To be honest, she sounds like a ***** from the reply, like if she were a decent enough friend she probably would of said, "no problem"... Especially with pouring salt in the wound that she didn't put out any signals, I mean hanging out alone all the time, her not having a boyfriend, it was a logical thing to do would be to see if there were any feelings, plus it was a simple kiss. The reason I go all over this is because if she is a *****, then none of what anyone else is saying is going matter because it's going be awkward no matter what, you took the bait, now she knows you like her... etc, etc... However if she's cool, give it a week or two, and it'll be like nothing ever happened, just don't bring it up again.

 

[Movies205]

Making a move was a mistake. Bringing it up again was very very very very very dumb of you.

How was making a move a mistake? He's been hanging out with her for a while, she doesn't have a boyfriend, it's better he made the move instead of pining over her like some loser from a far. As for him bringing it up again, it was a typical... "z0mg how do I fix this reaction"... Give the poor guy a break...

 

[Abaddon]

How was making a move a mistake? He's been hanging out with her for a while, she doesn't have a boyfriend, it's better he made the move instead of pining over her like some loser from a far. As for him bringing it up again, it was a typical... "z0mg how do I fix this reaction"... Give the poor guy a break...

He said he's been close friends with her for two years. If something was going to happen it would've come up before this.

I feel a little bad for him, but it was still very dumb. Lesson learned.

 

[Erzengel]

Orko is 20, he's bound to make mistakes. In the future, I'm sure he will learn to read signs and what not.

Of course, I wouldn't have expressed my feelings to her after it was abdunantly clear that she wasn't interested.

 

[Movies205]

He said he's been close friends with her for two years. If something was going to happen it would've come up before this.

I feel a little bad for him, but it was still very dumb. Lesson learned.

Eh... I've heard of relationships starting out of friendships and I've heard plenty of stories where they didn't. It simply one of those things that has to be done because it probably would of just nagged at him... However, he probably could of handle it better... Like Erz said, he's only 20 he'll live and learn...

 

[DOG LIPS]

Should have just said you were trying to bite her face, not kiss. Better to be a weirdo than a *****e.

 

[Dew k. Mosi]

I think the girl overreacted in the first place. I have male friends who kiss me on the cheek all the time, and one who insists on a peck on the lips, and I never worry about any of it unless they try and slip me tongue.

 

[jaguarr]

Ugh. I feel like Superman coming to save the day after the Flash and Green Lantern just did.

But anyways, yeah what he said.

Don't be such a late slag next time, Supes.

jag

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

Normally I'm opposed to this sorta thing, but I had to put it in writing somewhere and get it off my chest. So I have this friend. We've been really close friends for nearly 2 years now and we hang out with each other (got o movies, dinner, that sorta thing) fairly often. So, we were at PF Chang's eating dinner and she offers to pay for some of the bill because the IMAX tickets were rediculously expensive. I decline but she insists saying her mom gave her $20 that day. Not being one to argue I take the $ and then pay the difference with my own cash. We leave the restaurant and as we're walking I tell her "Thanks for the donation.", put my arm aroundher, and lean in for the kiss on the cheek. She moves her head down, dodging it just barely. But the rest of the night we act like it didn't happen at all and everything was cool. But I still kinda felt bad so I shot her this message.

I just want to say that I’m sorry for trying to kiss you after dinner. I really don’t know what I was thinking and it’s entirely possible that I wasn’t thinking at all. I dunno, I’m such a social ****** I suppose. I just had to see if there was anything there and I now know that there isn’t. I just thought I’d give it a shot and if nothing happened, then oh well. I’ve always felt that the best relationships were built on a solid friendship first. But, in all honesty I think I was just being an idiotic dick. I think I owed you this apology because you’re like family to me and you deserve to be respected. I hope things won’t be awkward from now and we can just put all this **** in the past.

To which she replies...

yeah. just don't do it again because it makes hanging out with you awkward. I just want to be your friend and that's it. I don't think I've given you any signs that I wanted anything more than that, but if you think i had, i'm sorry.

Oy vey...

I'm just....trying to figure out how you were a dick. See, if you went the normal course of going for a grope, or doing the whole "bog you down with axe" or rufies, or something like that, THEN you'd be a dick (and a rapist with that last part).

A kiss on the cheek? Hardly.

 

[Orko Is King]

Lighten up guys, it's not like this **** really matters... (Let me elucidate) It's not like he ****ed up on his job, grades, or stuff that might really f-him over later. In the end, Kudos for having the balls to see if there was somethign there instead of pining like a ***** here about how you like this girl, yada yada... As for stuff afterwards, meh, you were embarrissed, worse things have been committed. To be honest, she sounds like a ***** from the reply, like if she were a decent enough friend she probably would of said, "no problem"... Especially with pouring salt in the wound that she didn't put out any signals, I mean hanging out alone all the time, her not having a boyfriend, it was a logical thing to do would be to see if there were any feelings, plus it was a simple kiss. The reason I go all over this is because if she is a *****, then none of what anyone else is saying is going matter because it's going be awkward no matter what, you took the bait, now she knows you like her... etc, etc... However if she's cool, give it a week or two, and it'll be like nothing ever happened, just don't bring it up again.

See that's the thing, for as long as I've known her, she's had an incredibly bubbly personality. In all honesty, looks wis she's like a 7 or 8 but personailty is a 10 fo sho. But now it's all in Ice Queen mode and ****. Oh well, I guess I'll just give the gal some breathing room and evetything should be OK.

 

[Harlekin]

Yeah, you really weren't a dick. A kiss on the cheek? Come on! She overreacted first and foremost, and then you did too. Stuff like that happens. I'd say cut her loose right now, but that really depends on how you feel about this girl. If it was just a "see if there's something there"-thing, no biggie. If you're actually in love with her something like that, let her go.

 

[CConn]

If it was me, I probably would've apologized as well. But would've just made it a simple "Yeah, sorry about last night. It won't happen again." But that's me.

That said, she seems more of a dick than you do. I mean, if you've been friends for 2 years, she should be more understanding and kind to you. That letter she sent you is something you say to someone you just met, not a close friend.

 

[swifty]

well!! I'm no expert but you need to tell her how you feel so that way she knows where you stand. If you want a relationship with her then you need to get yourself out of the friendship zone.

 

[The Kid]

Knock her out and touch her boob i say

wise words

 

[The Amazing Lee]

She does really love you..She;s just playing REAL hard to get.

Just act like an ******** around her...she'll love it.

You DIRTY bad boy, you.

Show her who is KING.

 

[black_dust]

wise words

Man of experience

 

[Mee]

yeah. just don't do it again because it makes hanging out with you awkward. I just want to be your friend and that's it. I don't think I've given you any signs that I wanted anything more than that, but if you think i had, i'm sorry.

How rude.

 

[chamber-music]

Knock her out and touch her boob i say

t: Awesome I love it.

 

[ghost_x]

Next time you see her, ask for more money for the bill....
















































and than touch her boob

 

[Erzengel]

Don't be such a late slag next time, Supes.

jag

Sometimes there's a f'ing volcano blowing up!!!

 

[Superman4ever]

Sometimes there's a f'ing volcano blowing up!!!

By "volcano" don't you mean "Lois". Looks like our brother in arms is not to keen on the ladies either!

Orko where the hell are ya...give us an update!

 

[Superman4ever]

See that's the thing, for as long as I've known her, she's had an incredibly bubbly personality. In all honesty, looks wis she's like a 7 or 8 but personailty is a 10 fo sho. But now it's all in Ice Queen mode and ****. Oh well, I guess I'll just give the gal some breathing room and evetything should be OK.

Ah, there ya are! Don't be surprised if she doesn't contact you for a while (weeks, months even!), but hang in there. DON'T contact her first. I cannot stress this enough...

But, have you heard from her besides the email she sent? Does she have a boyfriend? What's her romantic past like? You guys hang out so much surely you should know!