I can't remember which comic it was in (either Turning Points or Robin: Year One), where Batman and Gordon argue about Batman taking on Robin and exposing him to danger. Batman argues back that he is helping the kid, giving him a chance that he never had, something to that effect.
That's it. That's the way it could work on screen.In turning points Batman says that he had to give the boy an outlet, lest he 'self-destruct" (Batman's words).
But it's still lame the way it was handled in ALL STAR.
What, you didn't like how Bruce told his date that he's had an eye on that young boy for some time now?
great, now that "lame-before-it-even-airs" series "The Graysons" will assure that no one ever, ever does a good robin.