I see, so you don't have siblings, I get it
I have an identical twin sister. The idea that I would fight her rather than find other ways to resolve conflict makes absolutely no sense to me.
The conflict can end in several different ways. You can change your opinion, you can move on, you can forgive etc. You know that friends fight in real life, right? There's no weight to a fight over a conflict that has no easy resolution? It's better with a simple misunderstanding? I don't see how. The conflict has weight because there's no easy resolution. It seems that you only want a conflict with an easy way out. There's no depth or complexity to the conflict in BvS. It's just bad writing. And heroes shouldn't use violence to resolve conflicts? Eeerm, that's kind of what comic book heroes do ...
Not even close to what I'm saying. I'm saying that close friends with a history wouldn't resort to violence to solve conflict at all. There's a stronger basis there for diplomacy. Knowing each other means knowing pressure points, leverage, and all other kinds of ways to reach someone without ever having lashed out in anger or violence. There can be weight to a conflict between friends, but as soon as violence is introduced as a solution, then the weight dissolves. I don't have a problem with heroes using violence to resolve conflicts with villains. Friends? No.
I really don't care about the comics. I felt Superman's death didn't carry any weight simply because he's one of the least interesting protagonists in a superhero movie ever.
But his death isn't about him; it's about us. It doesn't matter if Superman dies or some other wrongly hated "other" dies because the weight in the death is in what it says about us as human beings. There was a heroic man who died for a world that had hated him, fought him, and tried to kill him. And the result of his death is a reckoning among humanity who can see just how much the man it feared and doubted was willing to give for it. Superman is a stand-in for literally any other good person who has given and risked everything even for those who wouldn't do the same for them.
This is straight up nonsense of the highest order. Bitter conflict between two people who love each other doesn't have to "make sense" and it rarely ever does, but it's a very real, very human thing that happens every day.
Sure, it does, and so does PTSD, but I'm more sympathetic to someone dealing with mental illness than I am with "heroes" who are brothers in arms resorting to violence to resolve conflict.
You can be as disingenuous as you'd like to try and make your point, but you're clearly not convincing anyone.
I'm not trying to convince anyone. I'm speaking what is true for me. I cannot imagine good people with a longstanding relationship using violence to resolve conflict. It makes much more sense to me that violence would emerge out of misunderstanding. Conflict between strangers and friends makes sense, but conflict involving violence with a loved one makes less sense. When strangers fight, usually fear is involved. It's not pretty, but it makes sense. When loved ones fight, there is love there. Love and hate coexist, but I have less patience and understanding with those who love each other hurting each other in brutal and violent ways to resolve conflict.
I am in full agreement that TDKR Superman is far from Clark's best look. I gave him a participation medal for having his heart in the right place even though his brain and courage were MIA.
I don't think his heart was in the right place at all.
TDKR Batman is a suicidal, lonely, middle-aged alcoholic obsessing about a tragedy that happened in childhood. I found it super clear.
Again, the problem isn't that the elements to condemn and criticize Bruce aren't there in TDKR. The problem is that Miller doesn't lean into this version of Bruce as particularly problematic. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants Batman to be awful, yet also heroic.
You give Snyder's Bruce a pass due to your head canon of an undiagnosed mental illness that rarely presents in violence.
You're kidding, right? First, I'm not giving him a pass. That's the exact opposite of what I'm doing. I'm suggesting that Snyder's Batman is condemned and must be redeemed for his PTSD-induced violent hysteria. Miller's crooked Batman is crooked, but Miller presents this as part of his charm.
Batman encourages the torture of criminals he apprehends? PTSD!
Batman murders a slew of folks trying to avoid vigilante justice? PTSD!
Batman needs a funky 90s boy band jam for the Batmobile? NKOTB!
It is tied to his PTSD, but that doesn't it make it okay. But it makes him more sympathetic. There's a self-righteousness in Miller's Batman that Miller doesn't do enough to criticize, and indeed seems to celebrate. Snyder doesn't romanticize Bruce's fall or his mental illness at all.
And TDKR Batman doesn't nearly kill anyone. His (nearly) invulnerable friend is no worse for wear after the tussle, which Bruce had planned on losing. In TDKR an attempted murder wasn't prevented because Bruce and Clark's grandparents both picked up the same book of baby names.
Bruce and Clark stopped fighting in BvS because a complex series of events allowed Bruce to gain clarity. "Save Martha" combined with supremacy over Superman, Lois protecting Superman, and Batman in the position of Joe Chill all came together to have the effect psychologists seek to produce through exposure therapy for PTSD. The effect of the resolution of the fight is to begin a path of healing for Bruce.
In TDKR, Batman engages in a fight he intends to lose, so what's the point? It's violence for the sake of violence. And, in my opinion, Batman does kill in TKDR. He shoots someone who is left bleeding out. Miller's Batman never has an epiphany that sets a course for his self-improvement or redemption. There's no moment where he must start climbing out of his dark hole of cynicism and fascism.
Bruce goes from suicidal loner to a leader committed to a cause. That's growth. Clark defies the government that had been controlling him. Well, it's a start.
Not for me. There's nothing in the story itself that provides any thread of hope or redemption for heroes or humanity. It's cynical to its core.
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Thesis - a statement or theory that is put forward as a premise to be maintained or proved.
You're making my point for me. A "statement" can be an opinion. You see that, right?
No, I just felt it wasn't well done and that the movies hadn't done enough to make me care about the character. BVS certainly did not do much to make me care about him.
You don't have to care about him. You only have to care about yourself as a member of humanity. If you can relate to the idea of the cycle of fear, violence, and distrust that allows hate to fester and lash out to destroy what is good in the world, then you can mourn the essential hope from the "other" that Superman represents.