I don't see why people feel the need to attack The Avengers to defend MOS. BOTH movies were fantastic, but in very different ways, and that's fine.
I don't see why people have to bring up Avengers or Iron Man in order to tell Snyder how to 'fix' the MOS verse.
The first Iron Man movie was so bad. So, so, so bad. People loved it, I'll grant you that, but then again, people also like Gangnam Style and leggings with cropped tops.
I haven't even seen Avengers, and I can tell you how it went: Big threat. The superheros all get together, then there's a falling out. There's a couple of big battle scenes, the superheros realize they need to work together to get the job done, so they reunite, beat the bad guy, and win. Add in a few funny quips, a healthy dose of fifth-grade humor, and maybe some sort of ridiculous romance, and there's the film. Right? Am I close?
I know people like that kind of stuff, but I love it when a film or tv show surprises me by breaking the mold. MOS did that for me, and I don't want WB, the writers, or directors to change this interesting and very different Superman.
A little levity in the next MOS film wouldn't be bad, but I don't want it to turn into a two-hour comedy action film. We get those all the time. I loved the dignity and beauty of MOS, and I don't want that to be lost.