A quote from Cavill...
What is really going to matter, I believe, is what the audience says, the Brit explains, Because theyre the ones who are buying tickets, theyre the ones who want to see more of this kind of story or not and so the audiences voice is loudest and after this weekend the audience, at least partly, will have spoken.
I don't know if this is necessarily true for audiences as a whole, I think these are the kinds of stories that SOME people want to see. They want that "real world", gritty, darker version of Superman that you get in comic books at times. I can understand that as a desire. If you are a dedicated, hardcore fan of that work, then why wouldn't you want it?
The thing I have a problem with is the version they like is that it's a "take" on the Superman character and not the definitive version of Superman. This is just my opinion (and perhaps the opinion of many others based on the feedback), but major feature films in wide release based on one of the most iconic and popular fictional characters in American history should probably give us something closer to the definitive version, not some "take" on the character. A "take" probably belongs to the smaller scale, such as television shows and cartoons.
One thing most people are not expecting when taking your children to see a Superman movie is a dark and brooding hero within a bleak, depressing landscape. That's not the way the character has been portrayed to the general public over the last almost 80 years. Maybe this is the version most hardcore fans want, but most people want a heroic version closer to Reeve. Is that fair? Maybe not, but that's what people expect and I think rule #1 to all storytelling (Snyder, are you listening?) is you must meet your audience's expectations or otherwise you've failed.