Don't Hate The Hater, Hate The Hate! - - - Part 15

[Piper Maru]

I hate Mondays. I am absolutely dreadful of them.

 

[Kelly]

YES, I really wish my school would go to a 4 day week, and make Monday the new Sunday.... : )

 

[3rdstone]

I hate that its freaking snowing...in march. I'm tired of the cold weather.

^

You and me both.

Although it's been a bit warmer and even with slowly melting snow in last recent days over here, I agree wholeheartly with both of you.

This winter contained way too much snow and coldness, and people have had some really weird colds and flus compared to earlier years. I'm sooo frakking tired of this winter now..

 

[Piper Maru]

YES, I really wish my school would go to a 4 day week, and make Monday the new Sunday.... : )

Agreed 100%.

Although it's been a bit warmer and even with slowly melting snow in last recent days over here, I agree wholeheartly with both of you.

This winter contained way too much snow and coldness, and people have had some really weird colds and flus compared to earlier years. I'm sooo frakking tired of this winter now..

When winter first arrives, it's a nice change. But hangs on for way too long and I can't wait for it to go away.

 

[Duke]

I hate that I've been to 5 different stores searching for a special edition 3ds & they've all run out.

 

[craigdbfan]

I hate that I have to go to work at 8:00 p.m and leave at 4:00 a.m. FML

 

[Schlosser85]

^ Ew.

 

[Duke]

I hate that I have to go to work at 8:00 p.m and leave at 4:00 a.m. FML

Dang!! Graveyard shift sucks. Where do you work at?

 

[wiegeabo]

YES, I really wish my school would go to a 4 day week, and make Monday the new Sunday.... : )

Then you'd just be posting "I hate Tuesdays!"

 

[Duke]

I hate whenever stuff I order online arrives damaged.

 

[Kelly]

Then you'd just be posting "I hate Tuesdays!"

Nah.....during Summer School our week is M - Th.....I like that schedule. But, it would be even nicer if Monday was the day off, not Friday....I absolutely hate Mondays.

 

[Matt Mortem]

I hate my sisters exclamation point abuse. She ends every sentence she texts on her phone or on facebook with a minimum of two exclamation points. It's exhausting.

 

[Piper Maru]

I've said it before, but I really hate depression. I hate that I can't get rid of it. I've had it for years. I've lived with it throughout my school years, and it continues in my adult years. I've tried counseling, I've tried medication and nothing is helping. Not to sound melodramatic, but some days I feel like I can't even function. And the last two years have been really bad due to a series of unfortunate things that happened one after another in such a short span. Is there anyone that can give some advice, maybe even talk about their own experiences with depression? Even words of wisdom would be welcome.

 

[Matt Mortem]

I've said it before, but I really hate depression. I hate that I can't get rid of it. I've had it for years. I've lived with in throughout my school years, and it continues in my adult years. I've tried counseling, I've tried medication and nothing is helping. Not to sound melodramatic, but some days I feel like I can't even function. And the last two years have been really bad due to a series of unfortunate things that happened one after another in such a short span. Is there anyone that can give some advice, maybe even talk about their own experiences with depression? Even words of wisdom would be welcome.

I've struggled with it for most of my life. Haven't figured out a trick to cope with it. Mostly I just find temporary distractions. I completely understand what you're going through because it sounds like exactly what I'm dealing with too.

 

[jaqua99]

I've said it before, but I really hate depression. I hate that I can't get rid of it. I've had it for years. I've lived with it throughout my school years, and it continues in my adult years. I've tried counseling, I've tried medication and nothing is helping. Not to sound melodramatic, but some days I feel like I can't even function. And the last two years have been really bad due to a series of unfortunate things that happened one after another in such a short span. Is there anyone that can give some advice, maybe even talk about their own experiences with depression? Even words of wisdom would be welcome.

Meditate. Learn to meditate. Find the source. It helps me with my disorders.

I know you are a man of science, as am I, I study psychology. (tohugh I want to get into sleep disorders) But I don't believe in medication, as it just masks the issues. therapy can help, with the right therapist.

But i've delt with mild depression, and worstly, anxiety. A lot of anxiety attaacks out of the blue. I can proudly say that with meditation, I have completely gotten rid of my anxiety, and the (mild) spell of depression I had for a few months.

I know you may not want to hear that, but I know psychological disorders suck, they really do, I have found my anecdote, and you know what, it helped me, so I am offeriing some words of wisdom, if you will.


But if you can, think of it this way. I went to school last semester with a girl. Early twenties, she was beautiful, bubbly, had a great personality. It was in a speech class, and she has A LOT of issues, I don't want to get into it, for her privacy, but she has it A LOT worse then you or I do. yet she stayed strong and made it, and has managed to deal with her issues.

Cause that's what they are. Issues. and someone is always living a strong life with issues worse than yours. That helps me. The fact, these issues aren't you. They don't change who you are. I don't know your name, or what you do in your life man, but no matter how depressed you are, you are still piper_maru, who does..whatever it is you do. It's an issue you have to live wit.h and if you believe in yourself and love yourself enough, you can overcome your issues with the desire to do so. Cause that's all it is. an issue. It's not you, it doesn't control you unless you let it. you are who you are.You aren't your disorder, you are you. It's your body, and your mind that is plagued with depression. You can get rid of it. And you can deal with it. goodluck man.

I am good with these type of things, it's why I got into psychology. If you need to talk, please feel free to PM me.

 

[Spider-Aziz]

I hate it when crackers or chips break off in dip.

all the way bro
Same with biscuits dipped in tea

 

[SpideyVille]

I hate how my nephew, who I get along with better than my niece, has gone and said things about how I treat them when I babysit to his mother, which makes her get mad at my brother, who gets mad at my mother, who gets mad at me. The way their mother overreacts at such little things about me makes me wonder if she just has something against me.

 

[Duke]

I hate how my nephew, who I get along with better than my niece, has gone and said things about how I treat them when I babysit to his mother, which makes her get mad at my brother, who gets mad at my mother, who gets mad at me. The way their mother overreacts at such little things about me makes me wonder if she just has something against me.

Solution: Decline to babysit for them, unless they clean up their act.

 

[SpideyVille]

Solution: Decline to babysit for them, unless they clean up their act.

I've told my mom plenty of times that I'm done with them, but I'm sort of stuck with them because the babysitting job is really hers, and I'm only doing it to help her out since my brother pays her for it. But after a recent complaint over the weekend, he threatened to send them to another relative for the week since they don't have school, meaning my mom wouldn't get paid. But as always, he realized its just more convenient to drop them off with us since we live a few blocks away, as opposed to him having to wake up earlier to drive them somewhere else before he goes to work.

And what I really hate is that we finally got a new sofa set a few days ago and I've tried to enforce new rules that would prevent the kids from eating or dropping any toys or pencils inside it, but my nephew complained and now I'm being accused of treating them like strangers instead of family.

 

[Anita18]

My sister's bf doesn't even allow her (let alone anyone else!) to eat in his car. And she's in her mid-20s.

 

[Spider-Aziz]

Boy, Spideyville, maybe it's long past the time you move out on your own

 

[SpideyVille]

My sister's bf doesn't even allow her (let alone anyone else!) to eat in his car. And she's in her mid-20s.

Yeah, my brother just got a new car recently and he's the same way, which is why I can't help but feel like his wife has something against me, and maybe even against my mother. The kids complained about having to do their homework on the floor since we don't have a table yet, but they act like they've never done that before on their own.

Boy, Spideyville, maybe it's long past the time you move out on your own

Yeah, everytime I post something in this thread about my family or babysitting, I realize this more and more. It's just hard to think about moving out when I still don't even have a job yet.

 

[Matt Mortem]

I hate application essays. They bug me. Maybe I'm unnecessarily humble, but writing a school about why I, over anybody else, should attend their school is just annoying.

 

[Anita18]

I hate application essays. They bug me. Maybe I'm unnecessarily humble, but writing a school about why I, over anybody else, should attend their school is just annoying.

Don't think of it as beating your chest proclaiming why you're better than anyone else. Talk about what makes you excited. I mean, the essay is just so they know you have SOME kind of personality beyond standardized test-taking automaton. My sister wrote about how she was deathly afraid of the dentist and how she brought her potty to preschool. She didn't say to Stanford that all that was EXACTLY why she deserved to be at Stanford. She got accepted early, because they liked her personality and chutzpah, in addition to all of her academic stats.



I hate how my old coworker has to be in so much pain. It's like, being stricken with now-untreatable pancreatic cancer isn't enough? He has to be in so much pain he can't lie down? I mean, I know I can't stop death for him, but all I would like is for the cancer to get the pain center in the brain so he doesn't have to suffer so long and hard.

 

[Matt Mortem]

Don't think of it as beating your chest proclaiming why you're better than anyone else. Talk about what makes you excited. I mean, the essay is just so they know you have SOME kind of personality beyond standardized test-taking automaton. My sister wrote about how she was deathly afraid of the dentist and how she brought her potty to preschool. She didn't say to Stanford that all that was EXACTLY why she deserved to be at Stanford. She got accepted early, because they liked her personality and chutzpah, in addition to all of her academic stats.

That's actually pretty good advice. Thanks t: