I hate that my girlfriends parents think I'm a do-nothing **** up. I can count on one hand the number of times I've interacted with them. They don't know me. I don't know them. But they are repeatedly saying over and over again that she'll be the breadwinner (despite both of us currently living solely on my income) and that I'll never be a success because they somehow think I'm not a people person and can't handle change (neither of which are actually true, my life has changed dramatically in the last two years, multiple times, without incident). And it makes her mad that I won't be around them, but why the **** would I? Not interested in being browbeaten and insulted every time they're around.