Gymrats & Stalkers: "I Was Assaulted In A Public Restroom"

[LouFerignoDemon]

He's shy. It's adorable. :heart:

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Sounds like another J.D. and Turk....Does he call you chocolate bear

Thankfully not. LOL

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

He's shy. It's adorable. :heart:

LOL Whatever.

All I know is sleeping with a cop would mean that there would always be a state-issued gun and badge on the bedside table. Sleeping in fear of getting my brains blown.

Waitaminute, that's actually kinda hot.

 

[AndThePickles]

Well, he's gonna have to actually admit his intentions before I say anything about my orientation. It's pretty obvious that as Andrea said he's never been with a guy before and he's in denial. However, I am not into the whole "Cat-N-Mouse" thing. He's used to pulling people over and telling them about themselves right? So he needs to use that same courage and be up front with me.

Dressing Room Hard-Ons are not gonna get it.

Aw, come on, give the guy a little bit of a break. He's scared I'm sure it was difficult for you to come out to others that you may have been attracted to, at first (? or maybe not, but that just seems natural). You don't have to make out with him, but you could help the guy out a little bit lol. It sounds like he can barely admit his orientation to himself, much less you, without some sort of encouragement to do so. He all but blatantly screamed, "I'm turned on by you" in the dressing room, and he got no positive response from you. He's probably nervous as hell now, and embarrassed.

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

LOL Whatever.

All I know is if we got together it would be that there would always be a state-issued gun and badge on the bedside table.

Waitaminute, that's actually kinda hot.

Very.

Aw, come on, give the guy a little bit of a break. He's scared I'm sure it was difficult for you to come out to others that you may have been attracted to, at first (? or maybe not, but that just seems natural). You don't have to make out with him, but you could help the guy out a little bit lol. It sounds like he can barely admit his orientation to himself, much less you, without some sort of encouragement to do so. He all but blatantly screamed, "I'm turned on by you" in the dressing room, and he got no positive response from you. He's probably nervous as hell now, and embarrassed.

Pfft, I could only imagine what my first gf would've had to go through to get me to even hold hands. x.x

 

[AndThePickles]

LOL Whatever.

All I know is if we got together it would be that there would always be a state-issued gun and badge on the bedside table.

Waitaminute, that's actually kinda hot.

Seriously, you KNOW you think that the cop thing has all kinds of potential hotness involved. You're not foolin' anyone Weirdness aside, it can still involve plenty of fantasy activities.

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

Think of that uniform.

Dude, this is almost like a romance novel.

Attractive buff firefighter meets attractive buff cop...

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Aw, come on, give the guy a little bit of a break. He's scared I'm sure it was difficult for you to come out to others that you may have been attracted to, at first (? or maybe not, but that just seems natural). You don't have to make out with him, but you could help the guy out a little bit lol. It sounds like he can barely admit his orientation to himself, much less you, without some sort of encouragement to do so. He all but blatantly screamed, "I'm turned on by you" in the dressing room, and he got no positive response from you. He's probably nervous as hell now, and embarrassed.

I see your point. And I agree he's probably really embarrassed because I didn't exactly make it easy for him at all today. What do you suggest I do? He text messaged me a little while ago wanting to know if I could come over tommorrow evening to "watch Star Trek and talk."

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Think of that uniform.

Dude, this is almost like a romance novel.

Attractive buff firefighter meets attractive buff cop...

LOL It's a bromance novel!

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

You go watch it and talk. T.T

Honestly? I'd just tell him about your orientation.

Cause the guy is probably doing his best to let you know his intentions, but probably can't exactly bring himself to say it.

If it's anything like being a soldier, admitting as a cop he's interested in guys is probably one of the things he's most afraid of.

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

LOL It's a bromance novel!

Dammit I want a slash novel!

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

If it's anything like being a soldier, admitting as a cop he's interested in guys is probably one of the things he's most afraid of.

Perhaps.

However, I'm no longer a firefighter. So we're not in the same industry any more...not in the same circles. No one's gonna "out him" except himself.

He'd have nothing to fear from me.

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

Perhaps.

However, I'm no longer a firefighter. So we're not in the same industry any more...not in the same circles. No one's gonna "out him" except himself.

He'd have nothing to fear from me.

It's not JUST to the individual. He's probably worried what his coworkers might think and stuff.

He's probably afraid.

It's actually pretty cute.

 

[WompuM]

Alright gang, I just got here. Gimme a quick recap perhaps?

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

The cop in question is gay.

There.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Correction: The cop in question is curious.

We don't know for sure if he's gay. Even though all signs are indicating that he's attracted to men (or at least to me), we are not sure if he's a practicing homosexual or just curious about me. He's not exactly waving a rainbow flag from the back of his police car bumper.

 

[Hound55]

Correction: The cop in question is curious.

We don't know for sure if he's gay. Even though all signs are indicating that he's attracted to men (or at least to me), we are not sure if he's a practicing homosexual or just curious about me. He's not exactly waving a rainbow flag from the back of his police car bumper.

Likely because he's terrified of what other cops he has to work with would say... or so it seems from what we've read.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Likely because he's terrified of what other cops he has to work with would say... or so it seems from what we've read.

Exactly Hound.

At the most, dude is very closeted. In my opinion, a guy isn't classified "gay" or "homosexual" until he has actually had a sexual experience with someone of the same sex. Up until that point, he's simply curious and closeted.

 

[Hound55]

Exactly Hound.

At the most, dude is very closeted. In my opinion, a guy isn't classified "gay" or "homosexual" until he has actually had a sexual experience with someone of the same sex. Up until that point, he's simply curious and closeted.

At the same time I haven't seen any evidence that he hasn't either...

If he has, from what I've read about him, I'd assume he's likely to keep that very internalised unless he's sure he could trust someone with that kind of information.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

At the same time I haven't seen any evidence that he hasn't either...

If he has, from what I've read about him, I'd assume he's likely to keep that very internalised unless he's sure he could trust someone with that kind of information.

Perhaps he's testing me out to see if he can trust me with that information.

And let's say that's the case: it could be that he's not even really interested in having sex with me at all, but rather just looking for a friend to confide in/be himself around with fear of being judged.

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

He's definitely testing the waters with you.

But he DID ask you to go along to shop for clothes.

Refine it.

He took you along to see what clothes you liked seeing him in.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

He just sent me two text messages just now. It's 2 frigging am in the morning and we should both be sleeping. Anyway, he said that something has been bothering him since this afternoon and he wants to clear something up for me. Also, he wants to cook for us at his place because the things he wants to say are pretty personal and he doesn't want to say it in a public restaurant.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

He took you along to see what clothes you liked seeing him in.

That's an angle I hadn't considered.

 

[Hound55]

How many people who you DON'T think of as potentially being more than friends have you felt inclined to text at 2AM (unless drunk off your arse - in which case most messages are utterly indecipherable anyway)?

If something's bothering me in the afternoon with someone like that I'll generally either leave it to morning or do it at the time.

That's right ladies... only the lucky girls gets the curious text message from Hound at absurd hours of the early morn...

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

How many people who you DON'T think of as potentially being more than friends have you felt inclined to text at 2AM (unless drunk off your arse - in which case most messages are utterly indecipherable anyway)?

If something's bothering me in the afternoon with someone like that I'll generally either leave it to morning or do it at the time.

That's right ladies... only the lucky girls gets the curious text message from Hound at absurd hours of the early morn...

Exactly.

I think I know what he's going to say. Which means the ball is in my court.