Lord of the Advice: Return of the King of Relationships

[Dreadstar]

SO she is teasing me saying I MIGHT want something with someone in the future but I dont know when??? AGAIN, SHe just screwed herself!!!!!!

 

[Dreadstar]

BYE BYE comic chick!!!!!!!!!!!! But how is this teasing? She never said anything about me in that sentence.

I have to say I HATE being teased!!!! TIME for me to fight back AND get her back!!!!

ANd HOW can a girl THAT unattractive tease me?????? She has nothing going for her!!!

 

[Schlosser85]

Okay, I'll acknowledge the elephant in the room.

Maybe the chick wants to sleep with guys around her own age?

I'll acknowledge the bigger elephant in the room and express my belief that Dreadstar is around 12 years old if his posts are any indication.

 

[Anita18]

I'll acknowledge the bigger elephant in the room and express my belief that Dreadstar is around 12 years old if his posts are any indication.

I've been saying this from the very beginning...

 

[Anita18]

BYE BYE comic chick!!!!!!!!!!!! But how is this teasing? She never said anything about me in that sentence.

I have to say I HATE being teased!!!! TIME for me to fight back AND get her back!!!!

...are you referring to fling girl or comic girl? I hope it's the former....

 

[Dreadstar]

I AM ALL OVER FLING girl. In fact, I am texting her now.

COmic chick is going to NOTICE a BIG change in my attitude towards her. NO MORE attention, texting, or getting together unless she goes beyond friends!! THIS friends thing is so stupid, look what it does!!!!! It should be illegal!!!!

ITS THATS SIMPLE!!!! ANd PLEASE PLEASE EXPLAIN in detail how this is teasing? No I dont understand 20 somethings nor should I as I do not hang around them….

 

[Schlosser85]

...are you referring to fling girl or comic girl? I hope it's the former....

I have my doubts that either of them exists.

 

[Schlosser85]

No I dont understand 20 somethings nor should I as I do not hang around them….

Maybe when you reach your 20s in a decade or so, you'll understand them better.

 

[Dreadstar]

WHY OH WHy cant you help me to understand??? JESUS!!! Its not that hard!!!!!!

 

[Schlosser85]

Dem wimmen are confusin', son.

When yer a growed up man, you'll understand.

 

[Dreadstar]

THANK GOD I have fling girl, who is NOT fling girl but relationship girl!!!

 

[Anita18]

WHY OH WHy cant you help me to understand??? JESUS!!! Its not that hard!!!!!!

She wants attention, and thinks playing hard to get will get more attention from you.

Judging from your reaction here, it's working.

And seriously, how the hell are you giving 100% to fling girl if you are saying you'd schtup comic girl if she was willing? WTF sort of devotion is that?! It's all too clear why you've never had a long serious relationship pushing 50...

 

[Schlosser85]

If Dreadstar is actually pushing 50...that is terrifying.

 

[Anita18]

If Dreadstar is actually pushing 50...that is terrifying.

I want to know where he works now.

 

[Dreadstar]

She wants attention, and thinks playing hard to get will get more attention from you.

Judging from your reaction here, it's working.

And seriously, how the hell are you giving 100% to fling girl if you are saying you'd schtup comic girl if she was willing? WTF sort of devotion is that?! It's all too clear why you've never had a long serious relationship pushing 50...

OK, I get what your saying, but she is not playing hard to get. I could be wrong, but she is the one texting me. I dont start this texting stuff. True, I do respond but AGAIN, WHY TEXT me and want my attention if she dislikes me or does not want a relationship or want something more! YOu never explained this part to me and thats what makes no sense. ALL the woman MY age dont do any of this stuff! If they are not interested, they ignore you and YOUR out of the picture. ITS CRYSTAL CLEAR!!!!!

 

[Anita18]

OK, I get what your saying, but she is not playing hard to get. I could be wrong, but she is the one texting me. I dont start this texting stuff. True, I do respond but AGAIN, WHY TEXT me and want my attention if she dislikes me or does not want a relationship or want something more! YOu never explained this part to me and thats what makes no sense. ALL the woman MY age dont do any of this stuff! If they are not interested, they ignore you and YOUR out of the picture. ITS CRYSTAL CLEAR!!!!!

She never gets attention. You're giving her attention. It's not you she wants, it's the attention. You give her the time of day.

How hard is THAT for you to understand?

 

[Anubis]

Much like he's doing right now.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

OK, I get what your saying, but she is not playing hard to get. I could be wrong, but she is the one texting me. I dont start this texting stuff. True, I do respond but AGAIN, WHY TEXT me and want my attention if she dislikes me or does not want a relationship or want something more! YOu never explained this part to me and thats what makes no sense. ALL the woman MY age dont do any of this stuff! If they are not interested, they ignore you and YOUR out of the picture. ITS CRYSTAL CLEAR!!!!!

Maybe then you should go for a woman your age... ?

 

[Dreadstar]

Ok, so now another friend is talking to her and she admitted she is a sub! W@W! And other guys have tried to give her attention and she has not responded the same way.

 

[Anita18]

Ok, so now another friend is talking to her and she admitted she is a sub! W@W! And other guys have tried to give her attention and she has not responded the same way.

If you want to be with fling girl and forget comic girl, you have to stop doing this crap. Seriously.

 

[Dreadstar]

comic chick likes to be a sub! It makes sense now. She likes to be told what to do. She likes to take orders. She likes to be taken care of, thats why she is a slacker, she prefers a guy to do everything for her. I notice when I tell her to do something and its a little forceful, she does it. Examples, I told her to go finish her beer, stop wasting it before jumping in the hot tub and she jumped. I told her what beer to drink and she asked for that beer. I told her…. you see the pattern.

Thats why she was with her ex. he was a dominant male. He told her what to do and ordered her around, even in front of everyone. She never use to speak at all. Even when he dumped her on her birthday for another girl, she stayed and continued to live in the same apartment.

She likes attention because she is lonely. She also likes older guys. Why? Because her dad was never in the picture the entire time she grew up. She missed that father figure. Thats why she prefers older guys. She has daddy issues. I wonder what she is going to do tomorrow as it is fathers day. Her relationship with her mom is strained. She talks to her mom now and then.

Again, I was texting fling girl. We are going to get together this friday. I wanted to get together the June 30th weekend, but then she tells me she is going out of town and she accepted this invitation weeks ago. SO YOU see how fling girl detaches herself from me? What the hell????? Thats why comic chick keeps popping into the picture!

 

[lixdexia]

Not all men want to have sex with every female in the vicinity. They can very well be friends with the women they don't find sexually attractive. but are otherwise pleasant to be around. It's not usually that big of a deal.

this is a lie. half the time it doesn't even take sexual attraction to want to have sex with a female. now you can look past it, but it's there.

 

[Anita18]

Again, I was texting fling girl. We are going to get together this friday. I wanted to get together the June 30th weekend, but then she tells me she is going out of town and she accepted this invitation weeks ago. SO YOU see how fling girl detaches herself from me? What the hell????? Thats why comic chick keeps popping into the picture!

This is the trade-off for dating a woman who is older and has her own life. Sometimes she has other stuff to do that doesn't have to do with you. When my sister started dating her bf, she went off on a 9-day trip to Mexico that she'd been planning with another friend for months. He started dating someone else when she was gone, and she was going to dump him until he cried and begged for her to take him back. Yes, he seriously cried and she relented, because he was more upset about his mistake than she was.

You're still being incredibly wishy-washy. If you want to commit to fling girl for a potential relationship, commit already. Don't go looking immediately for other prospects if she goes off and plans things without you. (We were just talking about ahem, people who like attention...don't absolve yourself of that either.) You tell us how special fling girl is, now don't f*** it up. Unless you are willing to do what my sister's bf did to convince her to take you back.

When my fiance and I started dating, I went on several trips without him, because they had been planned without him in the picture. He considered me special enough to commit to and wait for despite these "detachments." Now we plan trips together, but I let him visit friends without me, and he lets me visits friends without him. Doesn't mean we are "detached."

You can't have it both ways. You want a woman mature enough to make her decisions, but that means she'll be independent enough to do things without you. Or else you want a young demure "subordinate" woman who turns to you for everything.

 

[JJJ's Ulcer]

Oh never mind. Not worth it.

 

[Dreadstar]

So she texts me this morning, which is a good sign. (fling girl)
She says she feels she need to be cautious with me! AGAIN WTF?
She is not back in her comfort zone yet that she was! AGAIN WTF? I told her NOT to judge me based on one out burst. That should not negate everything else. THIS FLING GIRL IS VERY WISHY WASHY for a supposed mature woman. And get this, the June 30 weekend when fling girl said she has a out of town weekend thing, she told me to take another girl out for the weekend! WTF? Why does she say stupid things like that? STUPID! STUPID! STUPID! I have never said anything like that. Must be another one of her goofy tests. I told her I only want her. So there you have it!

And with comic chick, now that I KNOW she is a sub, I am going to TELL her directly what to do! Give her orders. She likes that. I have given her little marching orders and she responds. Of course she will sometimes she something that she does not want to, but in the end she always does do what you tell her.

I like how whenever I pick her up she waits for me at the door! LOL I never have to go get her, she is always ready and waiting! "For now, She is kinda digging the single life," YES, but she WANTS a guy to take care of her and be in a relationship. SHE CRAVES ATTENTION and enjoys company more so that being alone!!!!!

if she wass so digging the single life like she said, she would not crave attention. She is lonely even though she will not admit it. Why is she always near her phone at the ready to respond to any text message if she is so busy digging the single life? LOL

How is that for figuring her out!