amazingfantasy15
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That's my problem.
Nearly every girl I have ever asked out has SAID yes, but when I try to make those plans official, they either do whatever it takes to get out of it, or just ignore me when I try to call.
The worst is this girl now that I know. When I began working with her like back in August, I asked her if she wanted to go out to grab lunch after work. She said yes. By the time work was over, and we were getting ready to go out, she backed out, but said that she wanted my number so that we could make it up.
Well I never heard from her, and everytime I'd see her at work, she'd make an excuse as to why.
I basically kept giving her attention until, well, I'm not going to lie. I'm still giving her attention. She has me wrapped around her finger, and it's pretty sad on my part. I know what's going on, but I still can't just stop it.
Everytime I try to talk to her, she always says it's not me, that she's interested and wants to hang out, but is always just busy. I've pretty much told her that I know that she isn't interested in me, and if that's the case, that's cool, but everytime I see her she always defends herself saying it's not me that she is still interested and still wants to go out, but she's just "too busy".
*sigh*
Dude you've been letting this happen since August!?!? Time to step up, be a man and start completely ignoring this girl unless you need to work with her on something at work. No more invites, calls, nothing. Worst part is you're probably missing opportunities with girls that will actually go out with you pining after this other girl.