Official discussion on why "Nice Guys" have a hard time getting the girl.

[Hobgoblin]

I too have to say that the good guys dont always have it so bad. (Not so good always, of course, but not terrible.) In high school, yes, I was ignored. Oddly, even now that I graduated ten years ago, female former classmates still give me the "Dont talk to me" look when we run into each other. Whatever.

In college, it was the opposite. I was amazed at how many women flirted with me and I had done absolutely nothing to "earn" it. Nothing more than polite chit chat. It blew my mind. Of course, now I'm in the real world and all the women my age are married and I dont even know any women. Sucks.

The moral of the story is "Never try."

 

[I'm Old Greg]

on the discovery channel right now 9pm "the science of sex appeal" is on its interesting...

women prefer men with lower voices...that's what there talking about now. and men prefer women with higher voices...they actually have higher estrogen and are younger.

next there gonna show cars? wonder what that means, making up for something i bet.

 

[Eggyman]

on the discovery channel right now 9pm "the science of sex appeal" is on its interesting...

women prefer men with lower voices...that's what there talking about now. and men prefer women with higher voices...they actually have higher estrogen and are younger.

next there gonna show cars? wonder what that means, making up for something i bet.

Maybe the men buy fast cars so they can get away from the women trying to destroy them

 

[AndThePickles]

I too have to say that the good guys dont always have it so bad. (Not so good always, of course, but not terrible.) In high school, yes, I was ignored. Oddly, even now that I graduated ten years ago, female former classmates still give me the "Dont talk to me" look when we run into each other. Whatever.

In college, it was the opposite. I was amazed at how many women flirted with me and I had done absolutely nothing to "earn" it. Nothing more than polite chit chat. It blew my mind. Of course, now I'm in the real world and all the women my age are married and I dont even know any women. Sucks.

The moral of the story is "Never try."

High school is the worst place to judge how people will flirt with you/want to be with you. I swear, it felt like the second I graduated, I had swarms of men interested in me while in high school I was gloomy about not being able to "get a boyfriend". Oddly, some of the interested guys had even attended the same school as I did

I agree with the "never try" thing in a way, haha. Once I gave up wondering where the "perfect guy" was, I had lots to choose from.

 

[Lobo]

I had so many **** experiences with girls from junior high to the beginning of college that it ****ed my head up big time. Now though, i just have the attitude if you like me, great, if not, i don't give a barrel of monkey piss.

 

[I'm Old Greg]

the men who were voted most attractive were given low salaries

the men voted the least attractive were given higher salaries

then they showed a photo with there income....

the scores radically changed...the attractive men dropped considerably and the unattractive men were ranked higher.

 

[Eggyman]

Money makes you handsome*

 

[Ace of Knaves]

As said already, there is a difference between being a nice guy and a *****. Same way there is a difference between being a bad boy and a complete wanker. You gotta get that balance right. I've never really had problems with the ladies, well, not yet anyway! I think that's because I have got that balance. I'm always polite and gentlemen like, but if I need to be (protecting my girlfriend for example) I can be a nasty bastard.

 

[I'm Old Greg]

now there talking about dopamean....

they had a guy that women voted unattractive...

than they had women who had there dopamine levels raised (they bungy jumped) they rated him attractive...

that could go towards bad boy, they get excited and the dopeamine level rises...

 

[Ace of Knaves]

Yea that's like most of the girls I know. Bad boy doesn't necessarily mean tough or hard or whatever. But someone who doesn't really care about rules and is able to have a laugh and not worry about consequences and what not.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

It's "dopamine" dopey.

 

[AndThePickles]

I've come to believe that the type of girl who goes for the "bad boy" after being burned more than once really is a glutton for punishment. I think there's also the types who dream about being the one to "change" the bad boy into someone who only has eyes for them. It makes me so frustrated when I see girls who go after known cheaters and then get mad when the guy sleeps around while dating them.

 

[The Original Bamfer]

"Dopamean" because it meanly keeps Greg from gettin' the ladies.

 

[I'm Old Greg]

they just discussed infidelity...

women who dressed with clothing that showed more skin and moved more had boyfriends had home, and set out the most signals.

soooo ****s? but i guess its saying ask the girl who isn't dancing overly sexy and is wearing clothes that show the least skin = single.

"Dopamean" because it meanly keeps Greg from gettin' the ladies.

thats really funny coming from the guy who disses me and gives me an infraction...Jealous much? You must pine over the ladies iv dated to have such a Vendetta..

 

[Ace of Knaves]

I've come to believe that the type of girl who goes for the "bad boy" after being burned more than once really is a glutton for punishment. I think there's also the types who dream about being the one to "change" the bad boy into someone who only has eyes for them. It makes me so frustrated when I see girls who go after known cheaters and then get mad when the guy sleeps around while dating them.

Yea but bad boy doesn't necessarily mean a bad person. There is a difference between a bad boy and a complete tosser.

 

[AndThePickles]

Yea but bad boy doesn't necessarily mean a bad person. There is a difference between a bad boy and a complete tosser.

Oh, I'm referring to the complete tosser sort.

 

[Lobo]

I've come to believe that the type of girl who goes for the "bad boy" after being burned more than once really is a glutton for punishment. I think there's also the types who dream about being the one to "change" the bad boy into someone who only has eyes for them. It makes me so frustrated when I see girls who go after known cheaters and then get mad when the guy sleeps around while dating them.

I've known many girls like that, they want to "fix" the *****e in the same way guys want to fix an old beat up car into a thing of beauty.

 

[Ace of Knaves]

Oh, I'm referring to the complete tosser sort.

Oh right. Well I'm in agreement then!

 

[I'm Old Greg]

I think the nice guy bad boy thing is all garbage....

 

[AndThePickles]

I've known many girls like that, they want to "fix" the *****e in the same way guys want to fix an old beat up car into a thing of beauty.

I blame entertainment for a lot of that. Remember when that used to be the plot of practically all the teen romance films? And of course, it magically worked.

 

[Lobo]

I blame entertainment for a lot of that. Remember when that used to be the plot of practically all the teen romance films? And of course, it magically worked.

LOL it's still the plot for most teenage romance films, and movie's NEVER lie.

 

[AndThePickles]

I think the nice guy bad boy thing is all garbage....

I can't speak for him, but I'm assuming he means a person's attitude? For me, that brings to mind guys who put up the "tough guy" front. That doesn't make them a bad person, but I'm certainly not a fan of the "fake macho" attitude.

 

[Ace of Knaves]

I'm not talking about that either. A proper bad boy, IMO anyway is just someone who doesn't give a toss. Who doesn't conform, who is able to have a laugh at both others and themselves you know? I can spot a "fake macho" person a mile off.

 

[I'm Old Greg]

I can't speak for him, but I'm assuming he means a person's attitude? For me, that brings to mind guys who put up the "tough guy" front. That doesn't make them a bad person, but I'm certainly not a fan of the "fake macho" attitude.

no i mean the statement...its to shallow.

girls are easy, get them excited. let them find out you make the money, a good balance of kindness and protection and they will be all over you...

girls are difficult you have to give them so much....

they talked about how a man who is very fatherly is deemed unattractive when a women is ovulating so the woman strays...
its like you need to know this and give the women what she wants the moments she wants it. but women never say what they want the moment they want it.

they even talked about how guys during dating sessions, the women seemed very into it, and the guys when they weren't into the girl it was obvious...but the women would keep the enthusiasm going leading the guys on even when she's not interested at all in him.

 

[The Original Bamfer]

thats really funny coming from the guy who disses me and gives me an infraction...Jealous much? You must pine over the ladies iv dated to have such a Vendetta..

Does anyone know if there's, like, online lessons to learn how to take a joke? If so, please forward the link to Greg. Thanks.