Return of the *Official* Relationship Advice Thread

[Rhiannon]

Maybe she appreciated that you didn't try to jump her even though you were sleeping next to her. It sounds like you were a gentleman about the situation.

 

[WillardNation]

If she's the same crazy girl you talked about before, bro you gotta run. Sure, the sex will be great but ultimately not worth it.

 

[Casius--J]

So me and this girl hung out again last night, she came over and we kicked it outside for a bit and just talked for a while. Then we came in and watched some Mystery Science Theater 3000. Again, we lost track of the time, and come to find out it was 3:30 AM. I said I'd take her home if she wanted to, but she said she was too tired to move.

We slept together. Not like, sexually, but like, slept together. I woke up at like 7:30 and she was still sleeping. let her sleep until about 10:30, because I had to run and do stuff. We were sitting there talking for a bit, just talking. She thanked me for letting her stay here and said she had to go home. She hugged me and gave me this kind of stare when she left.

So, I have to ask you guys.

WTF happened?

You should've beat it!

lol j/k I agree with the others she was waiting for you to make a move, like a good bye kiss or something. From my own experience those awkward/weird stares are the "you not going to kiss me?" look

But hey you already said you're not sure if you want a relationship with her so probably best that you didn't do anything.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

really it didn't look like one of those stares. it look like she kind of felt something or something. idk.

 

[Erzengel]

Maybe she felt like a smooch. Maybe she's use to getting kissed on a first date.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

lol i wouldn't consider that a date.

 

[LOBO3315a]

She was hoping you'd kiss her. Since you didn't, she's probably wondering if she's too fat, or if her hair is the wrong color, or if she should have kissed you, etc, etc, etc.

 

[Anubis]

Yeah, dick move man. Now she's all self conscious and s**t. You're a monster.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

Oh no, this girl KNOWs she's beautiful. lol

 

[Anubis]

Not anymore.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

Haha, you're silly. Maybe I should text her and see if everything is cool?

 

[LOBO3315a]

Even the ones that know they are beautiful are insecure. I wouldn't text her about it specifically. Just go about as normal.

 

[Anubis]

And next time, grab her ass.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

I'll do it for you, Anubis.

 

[AndThePickles]

Do not say anything to her about it. However, you've landed yourself in the friend zone by not making a move on her in bed. Not saying you should have tried to have sex with her, but usually if a guy is attracted to you and you're in his bed, he's gonna try SOMETHING. Even if you try and get turned down, at least she knows you're attracted to her.

 

[amazingfantasy15]

So me and this girl hung out again last night, she came over and we kicked it outside for a bit and just talked for a while. Then we came in and watched some Mystery Science Theater 3000. Again, we lost track of the time, and come to find out it was 3:30 AM. I said I'd take her home if she wanted to, but she said she was too tired to move.

We slept together. Not like, sexually, but like, slept together. I woke up at like 7:30 and she was still sleeping. let her sleep until about 10:30, because I had to run and do stuff. We were sitting there talking for a bit, just talking. She thanked me for letting her stay here and said she had to go home. She hugged me and gave me this kind of stare when she left.

So, I have to ask you guys.

WTF happened?

She wanted you to kiss her, you didn't now you are very close to friendzone status. Guys always whine about being in the friendzone, but doing crap like this is what puts you into that zone. You been out together twice, she spent the night at your house, but you haven't made a move. It sounds like she's been making all the moves so far. If you really want to date her, you maybe have one more chance, go out with her again and make a move, go for a walk and try holding her hand, if she doesn't pull her hand away that's a good sign. You've gotta go in for the kiss next time as well or you'ew never going to have another chance, you'll be her shoulder to cry on and quite possibly a good candidate to set her other gay friend up with because she will think you're gay.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

So, taking it slow was a bad idea?

 

[AndThePickles]

So, taking it slow was a bad idea?

There's a difference between taking it slow and making no move at all

 

[Aesop Rocks]

When I woke up she was like, wrapped around me. Does that count for anything?

 

[Anubis]

Well, there's slow and then there's standing still.

How long have you been messing with her? I seem to recall you've been playing this game for like a month.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

We literally really only started all this closeness like last week.

 

[AndThePickles]

When I woke up she was like, wrapped around me. Does that count for anything?

Um, yeah, it means the fact that you made zero move SUPER puts you in the friend/gay friend zone

 

[Anubis]

We literally really only started all this closeness like last week.

Yeah, but how long have you known her?

 

[Aesop Rocks]

Well, ****. I just figured since we agreed neither of us were interested in a relationship that I wouldn't try anything.

 

[AndThePickles]

Well, ****. I just figured since we agreed neither of us were interested in a relationship that I wouldn't try anything.

Sweetness, there's a difference between wanting a relationship and wanting to fool around If this girl was wrapping herself around you in your bed, it means she's probably embarrassed for throwing herself on you and you not responding to her physically.