Sometimes the universe takes care of you in a BIG way!

[CConn]

That's not what I raised issue with.

I raised issue with your insinuation of homosexuality and saying he has a problem.

That's what's uncalled for.

 

[StrainedEyes]

I think I need more support than a pair of panties could give me.

 

[JJJ's Ulcer]

That's not what I raised issue with.

I raised issue with your insinuation of homosexuality and saying he has a problem.

That's what's uncalled for.

I never insinuated anything of the sort. But keep intentionally misconstruing my comments. Whatever. Again, I took issue with his blaming the girls who broke up with him as the problem. And talking about why they would reject him. I don't care or will make a judgement about his sexuality. Sorry I will remember to give only bland, non-offensive words of encouragement in the future.

 

[Dreadstar]

I find it extremely funny how many on here think they are so 21st century open minded, but when I talk about this, they get all victorian century on me. Tells me some of you are NOT as open minded as you claim!

Its ONLY a piece of cloth! How come you cant be as cool my my girl here??????? Some of you are pretty uptight!

 

[Colossal Spoons]

 

[Dreadstar]

OK, if I am gay, how come I am dating a woman and she is very much into me? Would you not think she would get the gay vibe? Would she not leave me? WOuld she NOT BRING UP THAT VERY POINT IF SHE thought that? BUT SHE DID NOT!!! What does that tell you???

W@W! some of you guys are really allow your prejudices to color your perceptions of reality. You cant see things for what they are, only how you THINK they are!

 

[StrainedEyes]

OK, if I am gay, how come I am dating a woman and she is very much into me? Would you not think she would get the gay vibe? Would she not leave me? WOuld she NOT BRING UP THAT VERY POINT IF SHE thought that? BUT SHE DID NOT!!! What does that tell you???

Ever heard of guys who date women, get married, have kids, only to leave their marriage later in life because they are gay?

Gay-dar doesn't actually exist, and I'm pretty sure there is no universal "the gay vibe".

 

[Paladin-Hoss]

I find it extremely funny how many on here think they are so 21st century open minded, but when I talk about this, they get all victorian century on me. Tells me some of you are NOT as open minded as you claim!

Its ONLY a piece of cloth! How come you cant be as cool my my girl here??????? Some of you are pretty uptight!

It's not a question of open minded...

The tone of your first post may it sound that it's the women fault...instead of your...fetish. Which you have to admit, is pretty ...unusual.

Look at it this way, how many times do you think that those women will run across someone who likes to wear female underwear in their lifetime?

 

[Dreadstar]

It's not a question of open minded...

The tone of your first post may it sound that it's the women fault...instead of your...fetish. Which you have to admit, is pretty ...unusual.

Look at it this way, how many times do you think that those women will run across someone who likes to wear female underwear in their lifetime?

Of all the things, drug & alcohol addition, gambling, pornography additions, pedophile, physically abusive towards females, anger issues etc… wearing panties is not a big deal.

Besides, why is it that women can wear mens boxers, but men cannot wear panties? WHO makes up these stupid rules? In fact, that is exactly what this woman said!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/helen-cordes/calling-all-females-wear_b_600048.html

It is YOUR type of thinking that empowers stuff like this:

*Girls and women are beaten, arrested and worse for wearing pants, even loose pants covered by skirts. Just last week, Indonesian women wearing jeans had their pants confiscated and were ordered to don long skirts. Schoolgirls in Sudan were flogged last fall for wearing pants

Did you know, that about 150-120 years ago or more, women wearing "the manly pants" was considered to be a form of mental illness? Sounds just like your line of thinking!

And society does indeed frown on the fact of a man wearing a skirt because society feels it is a sexual perversion or mental disease. A 1930's book on Psychiatry actually states that Crossdressing is a mental disease. A lot of society still believes that rubbish.

And yes, it was not long ago that women were not allowed to wear pants openly in public and men in the early 1800's wore stockings.

 

[The Morningstar]

Maybe it's not prejudices, maybe it's just tastes?

Like some women prefer guys with sculpted abs. Some women don't really care.

Some men prefer women with big ****. Some men prefer women with tight asses and don't care about ****.

And some women find the idea of a man wearing womens underwear as weird. Doesn't mean they are small minded or ignorant, it's just preferences.

 

[ThePowerCosmic]

 

[Paladin-Hoss]

Of all the things, drug & alcohol addition, gambling, pornography additions, pedophile, physically abusive towards females, anger issues etc… wearing panties is not a big deal.

To you..yes. But you cannot expect other people to share the same way of thinking. Different people have different values and whatnot.

And it's not even a question on whether it's harmless...even you have to admit that it's an unusual fetish, and therefore not everyone will react positive to it.

It is YOUR type of thinking that empowers stuff like this:

*Girls and women are beaten, arrested and worse for wearing pants, even loose pants covered by skirts. Just last week, Indonesian women wearing jeans had their pants confiscated and were ordered to don long skirts. Schoolgirls in Sudan were flogged last fall for wearing pants

Did you know, that about 150-120 years ago or more, women wearing "the manly pants" was considered to be a form of mental illness? Sounds just like your line of thinking!

You can't be this naive...

Your problem is that you just cannot comprehend the idea that it might be just you...and not everybody else's fault for not being able to accept your fetish as a normal thing.

 

[Paladin-Hoss]

Maybe it's not prejudices, maybe it's just tastes?

Like some women prefer guys with sculpted abs. Some women don't really care.

Some men prefer women with big ****. Some men prefer women with tight asses and don't care about ****.

And some women find the idea of a man wearing womens underwear as weird. Doesn't mean they are small minded or ignorant, it's just preferences.

That there is his problem. He just seems to not be able to accept the fact that most people WILL find the idea of men wearing pants as weird..

He viewed it as harmless and no big deal. And he expects everybody else to have the same attitude.

To him and his closest frinds...that might work. But to someone he asks to have a relationship with him, it IS a big deal.

 

[Erzengel]

I'm going to be so pissed off, if the reason why I didn't win the lottery the other night was because the Universe was too busy finding him a girl who's okay with him wearing women's panties.

 

[Paladin-Hoss]

^^ priorities man...priorities...

 

[StrainedEyes]

How am I so lucky????? PS: I am not bragging as I have been rejected (SEVERAL TIMES!) by supposedly non judgemental, open minded woman in the past over this issue So what I am saying is that there are woman out there that not only accept but will encourage and share in your life. KEEP THE FAITH! Believe in yourself and all the past pain and rejection is 100% worth it! I NEVER felt more LOVED than I do at this very moment! I LOVE this woman, LOVE my girl clothes, LOVE COMICS, and LOVE this forum for all the guidance and support and good vibes it has given me over the years!

Last night seemed like a dream. After dinner (which SHE paid for) we went back to her place to get to "know" each other better. Talked and stuff for 9 hours! It was one of the best nights of my life! I have no secrets, I am an open book to this woman! And I get to see her tomorrow! WOOHOO Then she is coming over to my place and I am cooking for her!

Also, you have had two dates... slow your roll a bit.

 

[Pfeiffer-Pfan]

First thing I thought of...

 

[The Guard]

Homer Simpson occassionally wears Marge's underwear. Which, as they discussed, is strictly a comfort thing.

 

[Bat-Mite]

I find it extremely funny how many on here think they are so 21st century open minded, but when I talk about this, they get all victorian century on me. Tells me some of you are NOT as open minded as you claim!

Its ONLY a piece of cloth! How come you cant be as cool my my girl here??????? Some of you are pretty uptight!

Yes... you'd think the Rocky Horror Picture Show came out for the first time yesterday instead of almost 40 years ago... this hasn't been shocking for a loooong time. And as I've pointed out before in topics like this, what we call "masculine" or "feminine" in regards to clothing styles is only dependent upon the culture/time that we're born into. Centuries ago, this was considered masculine:

Anyway, congratulations, dude. I'm glad that you found somebody who accepts you for you, and I hope everything works out for you guys.

 

[CapedCrusader14]

Maybe it's not prejudices, maybe it's just tastes?

Like some women prefer guys with sculpted abs. Some women don't really care.

Some men prefer women with big ****. Some men prefer women with tight asses and don't care about ****.

And some women find the idea of a man wearing womens underwear as weird. Doesn't mean they are small minded or ignorant, it's just preferences.

Spot on Morningstar.

 

[Spider-Who?]

Of all the things, drug & alcohol addition, gambling, pornography additions, pedophile, physically abusive towards females, anger issues etc… wearing panties is not a big deal.

Besides, why is it that women can wear mens boxers, but men cannot wear panties? WHO makes up these stupid rules? In fact, that is exactly what this woman said!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/helen-cordes/calling-all-females-wear_b_600048.html

It is YOUR type of thinking that empowers stuff like this:

*Girls and women are beaten, arrested and worse for wearing pants, even loose pants covered by skirts. Just last week, Indonesian women wearing jeans had their pants confiscated and were ordered to don long skirts. Schoolgirls in Sudan were flogged last fall for wearing pants

Did you know, that about 150-120 years ago or more, women wearing "the manly pants" was considered to be a form of mental illness? Sounds just like your line of thinking!

And society does indeed frown on the fact of a man wearing a skirt because society feels it is a sexual perversion or mental disease. A 1930's book on Psychiatry actually states that Crossdressing is a mental disease. A lot of society still believes that rubbish.

And yes, it was not long ago that women were not allowed to wear pants openly in public and men in the early 1800's wore stockings.

I can't believe you just compared people's surprise with your fetish to mysogony and violence against women.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Part of it is the forbidden fruit thing. Part of it is the nylon/satin/silk material, it really turns me on. Part of it is when I was a young lad (before kindergarden), my mom allowed me to play dress up in her lingerie. This must have made a strong impression on me. I was hooked! It is a HUGE turn on for me!!!!

And why do you like being turned on all the time?

I mean, guys underwear is designed to cater for men's genitals. It's not just some weird 'rule' that men and women should wear different underwear, but a practicality that since our downstairs parts are completely different, it's logical that the coverings reflect that.

But I would have no issue lending my boyfriend a plain pair of knickers if he'd run out of clean boxers and was staying at mine.

What I'd have issue with, is a guy who says he wears women's panties and shops for women panties because it turns him on.

And not even specifically because he found them arousing. I can dig that. People have weird fetishes.

But why would you wanna be turned on at work? Or when your visiting your grandma? Or sitting in the dentist chair?

Personally I think you should wear panties when being aroused is the aim. And just wear regular underwear the doesn't turn you on the rest of the time.

 

[Dreadstar]

I am not turned on all the time. That would not be possible. For work or whatever, I wear cotton panties that are very plain.

And you are correct, I have 3 dates now, so really thats all there is so far. It is just so refreshing to find a woman that is as she says, open minded and non judgemental. We can strip and make out and I can lounge around the house with her in her undies and me in my panties and not give a hoot about what she thinks. Its all good! She is very kool with it, which makes me feel extremely trusting…… I can be myself and enjoy life damnit!

 

[Maximum Carnage]

Congrats on finding yourself a cool chick.

To everyone else, to each his own. People have their own interests.

 

[RetrogradeOrbit]

I need something far greater than ladies underwear to hold all that I have in!