The Lord of the Advice: The Two Towering Relationships thread

[hopefuldreamer]

But it's so nice with a partner!

I'm sure it is

And i'm sure that when i'm actually in a loving, long term relationship, it's something that'll come with time and a bit of experimentation.

I think it's a psychological thing anyway... not too sure.

 

[twylight]

We're going on the second week of no visits. We had a serious talk last night and things seemed fine. And he said he was going to visit today. But now he isn't coming...again...and claims he will tomorrow. I've just about had it. I've straight out told him several times I'm lonely, I miss him, and I want him to come and visit me, but nothing is seeming to change. I may need surgery for God's sake! This is serious and I've told him so!

He's just not that into you. I'd suggest moving on from him before any surgery because the stress isn't going to make a surgical procedure any better.

 

[Anubis]

I think he probably is more into his friend Brian.

 

[Angel_Faerie]

He's just not that into you. I'd suggest moving on from him before any surgery because the stress isn't going to make a surgical procedure any better.

We've been together for half a year. I think he must be somewhat "into me", otherwise why would we be together still?

I think he probably is more into his friend Brian.

Real cute.

 

[twylight]

We've been together for half a year. I think he must be somewhat "into me", otherwise why would we be together still?

...6 months isn't that long.

Who does the most work in the relationship?

 

[Angel_Faerie]

...6 months isn't that long.

Who does the most work in the relationship?

I'd say it's equal.

 

[Anubis]

We've been together for half a year. I think he must be somewhat "into me", otherwise why would we be together still?



Real cute.

I'm sorry for putting in that post. I do it almost unconsciously at this point.

I mean, seriously, he might be gay.

 

[Hound55]

If he's "real cute", maybe you and Brian might hit it off... eh?

 

[twylight]

I'd say it's equal.

From some of the posts you've made, it just seems like you're putting more thought into this relationship while he's just riding along. He might be doing 'equal' work, but in only 6 months it's pretty easy to glide along with minimal effort. The fact that he's not making an effort now that you're homebound is telling.

 

[Anubis]

From some of the posts you've made, it just seems like you're putting more thought into this relationship while he's just riding along. He might be doing 'equal' work, but in only 6 months it's pretty easy to glide along with minimal effort. The fact that he's not making an effort now that you're homebound is telling.

I know right? It ain't like you been messing around for a few weeks. This is a boyfriend of 6 months, you're bed ridden and he wont even drop by to f**kin' see you? I mean, wtf? Now he's movin' in with f**kin' Brian? Brain is a *****e! All Brian's are *****es. I know cuz, I'm a Brian.

 

[twylight]

I know right? It ain't like you been messing around for a few weeks. This is a boyfriend of 6 months, you're bed ridden and he wont even drop by to f**kin' see you? I mean, wtf? Now he's movin' in with f**kin' Brian? Brain is a *****e! All Brian's are *****es. I know cuz, I'm a Brian.

I like how you mix truth with absurdity in your posts.

It's like digging through **** for a diamond.

 

[Hound55]

I like how you mix truth with absurdity in your posts.

It's like digging through **** for a diamond.

You're diamond mining wrong...

 

[WillardNation]

 

[twylight]

You're diamond mining wrong...

You're right. I should go straight to the source.

Let me get my speculum.

 

[Anubis]

Alright, just remember to take off your shoes.

 

[Anita18]

I'm sure it is

And i'm sure that when i'm actually in a loving, long term relationship, it's something that'll come with time and a bit of experimentation.

I think it's a psychological thing anyway... not too sure.

Can definitely be.

We've been together for half a year. I think he must be somewhat "into me", otherwise why would we be together still?

As I said, he's a fair weather partner. Perfectly glad to share happy times with you and is perfectly "into you" during those times, but disappears when things get difficult. Doesn't have to do with you at all, he's just immature.

He's not ready for the responsibility of a real relationship, where you go through good AND bad. You don't have to be married for that.

It's up to you to decide whether you're okay with a fair weather relationship too, in which you repay the favor by only being around him when things are good. Giving him more than he's giving you will only build resentment in no time. Or whether you want a real relationship. And whether you want to wait for him to grow up.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

In fact, I'd argue most hot girls enjoy going back and fourth on that line.

For example last night I was handcuffed. I got out. Quickly. But she got crazy. I had to calm her down because I'm not going to be handcuffed in someone else's house.

 

[Anita18]

In fact, I'd argue most hot girls enjoy going back and fourth on that line.

For example last night I was handcuffed. I got out. Quickly. But she got crazy. I had to calm her down because I'm not going to be handcuffed in someone else's house.

I wonder at which point (ie, age) at which men decide uberhot is not worth the potential level of crazy.

Or maybe it's personality...

 

[Schlosser85]

I let myself be tied to the bed a couple times.

But something about the thought of handcuffs kind of creeps me out.

 

[Anubis]

I wonder at which point (ie, age) at which men decide uberhot is not worth the potential level of crazy.

Or maybe it's personality...

30 to 35, depending on the guy in question. Then again at 45 to 65......cuz Midlife Crisis' causes judgement loss.

 

[twylight]

30 to 35, depending on the guy in question. Then again at 45 to 65......cuz Midlife Crisis' causes judgement loss.

Dang it, I've still got 5-10 years to go before I'm marketable.

 

[JStorm]

Short and skinny.
I was out of town for a week. Came home and found a bruise, the size of a bite mark, on my girls ass.

She says she has no clue where it came from. I told her any rational person would remember a bruise that size.

I feel like I got cheated on.

Thoughts?

 

[The Guard]

A bruise the size of a bite mark, or an actual bite mark?

Do you have any other reason to believe you were cheated on?

 

[Schlosser85]

Does it look like a bite mark, or is it just the size of a bite mark?

This is a very important distinction.

Sometimes a seemingly minor bump against something that the person doesn't even remember can form a surprisingly big bruise.

 

[twylight]

I get bruises that I don't even know about...

I'd wait/look for something a bit more conclusive than a bruise.