The Temple of Doomed Relationships

[amazingfantasy15]

No, I never seek permission.

The whole thing is about doing something without permission, breaking the rules of good conduct.

Its about passionately crushing the modern social rules that constrict us in our soft cushioned existence, and making the act instinctive aggressive and carnal.

She is doing something against the rules herself by taking that seemingly innocent body of hers into the dimly lit lair of a man who does not abide by all of our modern social "rules".

Throwing aside all of the inhibitions as he consumes her, as if all the confines of her proper life are being torn asunder by the forces of nature and lust.

In this place she is allowed to fully revel in a violent and erotic act.

Permission does not exist into that domain.

Fear does not exist on SuperMike's couch,
Pain does not exist on SuperMike's couch,
Defeat does not exist on SuperMike's couch!

 

[Erzengel]

 

[THE MR. TERRIFIC]

Sweep the Leg!

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

Don't go white knight on me here with "abuse" talk.

LOL! I'm hardly a 'White Knight', I just have a problem with unintentionally hurting someone. I have a serious problem with hitting women (I don't consider playfully spanking to be hitting) or hurting women. As I say I'm a lot stronger than they are.

Obviously I start by excalating and gauging what level of roughness she can handle. Things like how she responds to the roughness and firmness of grip on her, how she responds when her arms held down firmly to her sides. There are plenty more details I could mention, but you get the idea.

I have a high threshhold for pain. I was circumcised in my late 20s and I've been through a couple of other fun moments. In the heat of the moment you can certainly get away with a lot. Just because someone can handle it doesn't mean they like it. For me, there is an acceptable level of roughness but what you've brought up, in my opinion, takes some discussion beforehand.

You don't honestly think I'm suggesting to just pull out choking like a trick from magicians hat do you?

How do you think I know weather she appreciates it?

You don't think there is any chance that after what I do, the appreciation is mentioned by her later?

If for some reason women did not want to have sex with me again, or they mentioned that I was too rough or what not, don't you think I would adjust for that and stop doing those things?

Perhaps if I am continuing to do something it is because it is being rewarded.

As far as her really not being so innocent, that IS my point. She isn't that innocent and does not really want to be treated as an innocent and delicate thing.

Your posts sure make it sound like you wantonly do these things. Perhaps my interpretation is a little more extreme than the reality.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

Sweep the Leg!

Always. Then they can't run away.

 

[Thebumwhowalks]

This guy...he talks some amount of sh** as well, and expects me to take it in.
I can't wait to meet him up close and personal, it's going to be better than flying.

 

[WillardNation]

I love Archer so much.

Yeah, breath play (choking) is something that needs to be discussed. I've been asked to do it, and yes it can be a bit of a turn on.

I, personally, probably wouldn't go in for the choke without them asking for it. I mean, it doesn't necessarily turn ME on to choke them but if they want me, I will definitely do that for them.

LOL! I'm hardly a 'White Knight', I just have a problem with unintentionally hurting someone. I have a serious problem with hitting women (I don't consider playfully spanking to be hitting) or hurting women. As I say I'm a lot stronger than they are.

I have a high threshhold for pain. I was circumcised in my late 20s and I've been through a couple of other fun moments. In the heat of the moment you can certainly get away with a lot. Just because someone can handle it doesn't mean they like it. For me, there is an acceptable level of roughness but what you've brought up, in my opinion, takes some discussion beforehand.

Fortunately, I have a few years of jiu jitsu under my belt so I have plenty of experience choking people (just not usually in a sexual way ) so I'm more than confident in my ability to know when it's safe and when it's going a little too far.

 

[DBryan]

Mike, are you at least establishing safe words first?

 

[amazingfantasy15]

Mike, are you at least establishing safe words first?

Safe words are for beta males, it lowers your position. If you establish a safe word you are just leading her into the arms of another man.

 

[DBryan]

Hahaha!

 

[Anubis]

I picture him saying that with a giant fuzzy hat. Peacocking like a mofo.

I almost got talked into some coprophilia once.....I think that trumps choking.

 

[WillardNation]

I picture him saying that with a giant fuzzy hat. Peacocking like a mofo.

I almost got talked into some coprophilia once.....I think that trumps choking.

 

[Anubis]

I'd like to say that the only reason I can't say that I took a dump on somebody is because I'm just not that freaky, but the truth is, I just didn't have to go at the time.

 

[SuperMike335!!]

I picture him saying that with a giant fuzzy hat. Peacocking like a mofo.

I almost got talked into some coprophilia once.....I think that trumps choking.

I'd like to say that the only reason I can't say that I took a dump on somebody is because I'm just not that freaky, but the truth is, I just didn't have to go at the time.

Ahhh, DUDE!!? , N-A-S-T-WHY the hell would you do that?

What kind of chick wants you to **** on her?

I mean I push the limits sometimes, but I draw the line when it gets unsanitary.

 

[SuperMike335!!]

double post

 

[DV8]

Wow... that's just ridiculous...

IMO you don't tell your girl who she can and can't be friends with, or treat her like you control her at all.

I'm not a controlling person at all; this is just kind of a rule though; there is not any reason to have male friends that you hang out with in person when you are in a committed relationship

a girl can have acquaintances or business associates, but I am a MAN and understand that other MEN are not trying to hang out with my girl for just platonic reasons . . . you should also be forewarned that a female with more guy friends than chicks is most likely a **** or reformed **** (there are some exceptions to tomboys)

*waits for my reply to be taken out of context and put into stark black and white*

Of course I don't agree with this, I don't care how many male friends she has. But, this guy works with her anyway, so contact with him is unavoidable.

Hey, maybe she is bs-ing me about getting a watch off him, but imo, that is a bs too far, she should know that is going tear me up and there's gonna be a massive reaction of the negative...and it's going too far to accept one as well, even if it is like he is saying 'Oh, you have done a great job, here is a nice watch for you.' , y'know, because people do that in work situations, but with this guy, again, this would be just another way of sneaking in something meant to woo her and start up arguments between us.

so you haven't seen the watch? and yes, I would agree that making up something like that (or anything, really) is childish and disrepectful

Um, I'm a prude and I have a bunch of guy friends that I talk to. Most of them are SHHers and we actually get hilariously dirty chatting on Facebook.

But it's all in good fun. It never gets personal.


Ask him if he wants to continue leading this girl on by accepting her gifts. Obviously she wants something from him, and continuing to accept them knowing that he'll do nothing for her in return makes him a *****e, IMO.

If he chooses her over me, good riddance. And if he continues to accept them, I'd still break up with him too, because I don't date *****ebags.

Fighting over someone is just really really stupid. I'm better than that. People aren't possessions to be fought over. They can make their own decisions.

Facebook friends are different though . . . I don't care how many FB friends my girl has; as long as she's not hanging out with them in person

 

[Anubis]

Ahhh, DUDE!!? , N-A-S-T-WHY the hell would you do that?

What kind of chick wants you to **** on her?

I mean I push the limits sometimes, but I draw the line when it gets unsanitary.

Actually it was a guy, well, somewhere inbetween really.

 

[LOBO3315a]

Yeah, there are some things which cross the line. That's one of them. Crap is not sexy, in any way, shape or form.

 

[Anubis]

This is true.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

I'm not a controlling person at all; this is just kind of a rule though; there is not any reason to have male friends that you hang out with in person when you are in a committed relationship

a girl can have acquaintances or business associates, but I am a MAN and understand that other MEN are not trying to hang out with my girl for just platonic reasons . . . you should also be forewarned that a female with more guy friends than chicks is most likely a **** or reformed **** (there are some exceptions to tomboys)

*waits for my reply to be taken out of context and put into stark black and white*

Right well maybe you can tell me how to take that in a non offensive way.

Since I have already stated that I have more male friends than female...

You can think what you like tho. Good luck finding a good girl who will put up with that kind of ******* behaviour.

FYI, I am telling you now that I have a **** tonne of male friends who have no interest in sleeping with me. They are like my family. We all grew up together. Some of them have girlfriends, some of them don't. Some of them I've even slept with, as I've already stated when I admitted my magic number.

That does NOT make me a ****.

Nor does it make any girl who has male friends they see in person a bad girlfriend.

You need to get over your issues, or your options will be very few. And tbh, any girl who would allow a guy to tell her she CAN'T hang out with ANY men whatsoever in her social life, is doing herself an injustice.

 

[SuperMike335!!]

Actually it was a guy, well, somewhere inbetween really.

Hmmmm...

MtF or FtM? Pre-Op?

One of my close friends is a FtM transman, I was the one who taught him how to safely inject testosterone, even hooked him up with Andractim which is hard to come by here in the USA.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

Yeah, there are some things which cross the line. That's one of them. Crap is not sexy, in any way, shape or form.

Don't ASK to crap on them! Only beta males do that!!!

 

[Anubis]

Hmmmm...

MtF or FtM? Pre-Op?

One of my close friends is a FtM transman, I was the one who taught him how to safely inject testosterone, even hooked him up with Andractim which is hard to come by here in the USA.

Really he was just a CD at the time. MtF I guess he would fall under.

Not sure what he's up to these days.......I had a wild time in my early 20's to say the least.

 

[SuperMike335!!]

Really he was just a CD at the time. MtF I guess he would fall under.

Not sure what he's up to these days.......I had a wild time in my early 20's to say the least.

For all you know he is a she these days.

Then again, some guys just like dressing like girls too, and never take it any further.

 

[Anubis]

Yeah, I know a few.