shouldnt have sex and use a condom?but that doesn't make it right... Kal-El was brought up with high moral standards, so he shouldn't of done that.
with that i agree 100%.
different times.
but that doesn't make it right... Kal-El was brought up with high moral standards, so he shouldn't of done that.
Even christ was tempted by the flesh, it's a nice parrallel, he was brought up AS A PERSON, so therefore he would give in to their desires at least once.
I think WB and Singer are not thinking twice about giving Superman a sort of unwanted child,marrying off Lois and the excuse for Superman being gone in the first place.This is not what fans,or movie watchers wanted...the numbers show this is fact for the most part.
Sorry Mega Joe, but i dont believe i am, sex was more taboo in the 70's than it is today, today, when people are in a relationship, they tend to have sex a lot earlier than couples developing a relationship in the 70's did.
IMO Singer just updated the same relationship from the 70's with a more modern sensibility to it. I dont see how thats wrong.
shouldnt have sex and use a condom?
i mena were there details in SR? we dont know exactly how it happened. or did we?
Singer's Superman has some faults -- which I welcome. Part of the problem with keeping up the Man of Steel's relevance is coming up with ways to make him interesting to a more sophisticated audience.
Think of anyone you know well. You can list what's great about them and you could, if you had to, list what they could improve on. Superman's a person. Yes, he was raised by a kindly couple in the Midwest who instilled good values in their boy, but there's no reason for Superman to be perfectly saintly. That's so boring. He's a young man in Superman Returns...he's still learning his way.
I like that Singer chose a personality for his Superman and went with it. His Superman is unsure of himself and his place in the world...he's lonely with an undercurrent of sadness, but he's as friendly as ever to people. He took his girl's love for granted (maybe because he knows he's a tough act to follow, as Lois once said) and expects her to come running back when he's ready. He's got to grow up in this movie, and in the end, they made a bold move by not letting him get the girl back.
HEy, if you like Superman being out of character that's fine, but don't think that it's the same SUperman from any previous incarnation.
Many wrongs don't make a right.
Just to clarify for me are you saying by this that insensitivity exhibited by Superman, is in character?
I think that it's about his motivation in that scene. He is peeping into her life for purely selfish reasons that is what makes it 'stalking.' He's not checking on her to see if she's OK. As far as the scene from the T.V. series, it may just be a borderline incident, but when taken with the rest of Singer's version it just comes off as another example of Singer not getting it.
Mega Joe, I think you are missing the point I'm making. The bottom line is, Superman has used his powers to spy on people prior to Singer's involvement.
What you say is true. There was no clear context for the relationship. But wouldn’t it be worse behavior and even more out of character if it was a one-night-stand, or just a casual sexual relationship instead of a committed sexual relationship?
This is probably my biggest gripe with your point of view. You accuse me of "complete guesswork" later in the post and yet to me that seems like exactly what you've done with the backstory to SR. You seem so ready to embrace all the worst possibilities about him. We're debating the sexual ethics of a movie that didn't even have sex in it. How do you know that Superman had a casual attitude about any of this? Everything he demonstrates in the film itself, seems to indicate that he cares deeply about Lois.
Don’t be too sure. The situation in the animated movie could be completely innocent. Without seeing the details of the situation you don’t known if they got doused with mud and had to shower off at the fortress. The details will give a context for the scene.
Also, I doubt that this situation will be the driving factor for all the conflict in the film. Remember, in SR it is Superman acting like an irresponsible jerk that creates ALL the conflict in the story. It is central to every plot line. It really depends on how integral to the story it is as to whether people call for Bruce Timm’s head. However, knowing what I know now, I will be wary of the animated film. I will now rent before immediately buying and probably check out spoilers before renting.
I'm not just guessing in terms of the situation in the animated movie. I'm going off a review from someone who saw it. He seems to indicate a sexual relationship is alluded too. You're right however, in that, I'll reserve final judgement for when I see it for myself.
You say that Superman acting like an irresponsible jerk creates all the conflict in the story and I think that is completely off base. We can't fully say that Superman is an irresponsible jerk if we don't have the complete context of his leaving. Also a huge portion of the conflict in this story came from Lex's evil scheme. It isn't like Superman just left the crystals sitting in his backyard in Metropolis. The fact that they were so well hidden was the defense. They were so well hidden that the governments of the world were absolutely clueless to where they were or even that they existed. It took the "greatest criminal mind of our time" (who was supposed to be in prison) to find them. Lex stole them. Lex chose to misuse them. I won't hold Superman responsible for Lex's evil ways.
It’s all about context. Before Superman left he said goodbye to Ma, Pa, Lana and Matrix who were the 4 most important people in his life at the time. Superman and Lois were not dating on any level. Lois was dating Jose Delgado. Check out this page from Action Comics #644.
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It is clear that Superman has explained himself to Ma, Pa, Lana and Matirx.
The context of SR shows that they at some point had sex. This is clearly a different situation than Superman: Exile. You have to look at the story in context. In the comics at the time after he Byrne reboot, Superman and Lois had yet to become anything more than celebrity/ media acquaintances. Clark certainly had developed a working relationship with Lois, but she was not close with Superman, and while she may have been infatuated with him, she certainly was not in any sort of dating relationship with him.
In the context of SR one would expect that the person Superman was having sex with would be one of the most important people in his life, if not the most important. The question is not “Would Superman leave without saying goodbye to Lois,” the question is “Would Superman leave without saying goodbye to the most important people in his life, including Lois if they were in a relationship, especially one of a sexual nature.”
And it is clear in SR, that Superman informed his mother that he was leaving. Unless you can say with conviction what the exact nature of Lois and Superman's relationship was at the moment he left, you are just wasting your time. There are plenty of reasons I could list from the movie as to why I don't think they were in a commited relationship at the moment he left. If you want me to elaborate just ask.
I think it is clear that the opposite is true. The specific details of the situations in SR make it very different contextually from all the examples you present. In comics, Superman has never ‘stalked’ Lois and peered into her private life because of selfish reasons, especially in the context of Lois having a family.
Despite what you say about Superman and Lois’s dating relationship in the pre-Crisis comics they have never had sex without Lois first knowing that Clark and Superman were the same person. Your evidence from the forthcoming “Doomsday” animated film is complete guesswork on your part without actually knowing the details of those scenes.
And no, Superman has never left Earth for an indefinite or extended period of time without informing those closest to him. Your example in Exile does not apply because he does say goodbye to those most important to him, it’s just that Lois is not one of the most important people in his life and more importantly, he was not in a sexual relationship with Lois at the time.
I just want Superman to be interesting. If he's morally perfect, that leaves out any emotional drama beause he'll always do the right thing and that's bad story-telling. There's no arc for the character.
Physically, he can do just about anything, so that means the only way to challange him is with over-the-top action (which is awesome because its Superman, but it leaves his character one-dimensional).
James Bond is misogynistic and an egostical bastard. Batman is obsessive-compulsive. Spider-Man is neurotic. I get that Superman's the last Son of Krypton and his powers will only falter if the sun goes out or he's exposed to kryptonite, but there's no reason for him never to make the occasional selfish decision, especially if he's in love.
He's dedicated his life to helping the world, yet everyone here cannot accept that he used his x-ray vision and super-hearing to see where he stands with Lois. Yet even after he "snoops" on her, he flies away in tears, and then he waits for distress calls so he can go help people while he's falling apart.
true 316 said:Mega Joe, I think you are missing the point I'm making. The bottom line is, Superman has used his powers to spy on people prior to Singer's involvement.
This is probably my biggest gripe with your point of view. You accuse me of "complete guesswork" later in the post and yet to me that seems like exactly what you've done with the backstory to SR. You seem so ready to embrace all the worst possibilities about him. We're debating the sexual ethics of a movie that didn't even have sex in it. How do you know that Superman had a casual attitude about any of this? Everything he demonstrates in the film itself, seems to indicate that he cares deeply about Lois.
I'm not just guessing in terms of the situation in the animated movie. I'm going off a review from someone who saw it. He seems to indicate a sexual relationship is alluded too. You're right however, in that, I'll reserve final judgement for when I see it for myself.
You say that Superman acting like an irresponsible jerk creates all the conflict in the story and I think that is completely off base. We can't fully say that Superman is an irresponsible jerk if we don't have the complete context of his leaving. Also a huge portion of the conflict in this story came from Lex's evil scheme. It isn't like Superman just left the crystals sitting in his backyard in Metropolis. The fact that they were so well hidden was the defense. They were so well hidden that the governments of the world were absolutely clueless to where they were or even that they existed. It took the "greatest criminal mind of our time" (who was supposed to be in prison) to find them. Lex stole them. Lex chose to misuse them. I won't hold Superman responsible for Lex's evil ways.
And it is clear in SR, that Superman informed his mother that he was leaving. Unless you can say with conviction what the exact nature of Lois and Superman's relationship was at the moment he left, you are just wasting your time. There are plenty of reasons I could list from the movie as to why I don't think they were in a commited relationship at the moment he left. If you want me to elaborate just ask.
You keep talking about "the sexual relationship at the time." But you also mentioned earler in your post that we don't know what the exact nature of their relationship is. Unless we know the exact specifics of what their relationship was when he left I'm not going to sit here condemning the character. It's just "complete guesswork" because we didn't see the part of the story where he left.
Mega Joe, I've read many of you're posts and I've seen you mention many of the same points again and again. But what I don't think I've ever seen you talk about are those moments in SR that are so quintessentially in character for Superman. Let me just ask you point blank, when Superman is ready to give his life to save billions of lives is that selfish or selfless? Is it out of character for Superman or is it in character?
I loook forward to hearing from you.
Those who like Superman Returns were they Superman fans before the film or after they saw this film? The quote above is who Superman really is, to billions of fans all around the world! Now to change such a depiction is wrong and irresponsible to many gnerations of writers and fans, who understood and admired this great character, and believe him to be a character that is a beacon of hope! A depiction of who we hope to be and strive to be! Now Superman Returns has given a new generation a depiction of the character that is out of character, now it may be to late to restore him * my heart breaks to think of such a thing*. Those who wouldn't watch or read his stories/movie/television shows before, but now like Superman Returns, if those that fit in this catagory because he's not acting like Superman, he's not Superman! To dislike him in the past but to like him now because he's not as admireable, he's not Superman. Donner didn't get the character 100% perfect, and there are past wrters that didn't get him right, but there are so many that have gotten him right, the positive depictions have out weighed the negative. Why so many love him to this day? He's the hero that will never give up, they ray of light when there is no more hope! He fights for Truth and Justice and the American way, and yes he'd have to fight every politician in America...Superman is just like everyone else when it comes to his morality and ethics. That is also incongruent with the character. He is an example of the best that we can be as humans. .
Sorry Mega Joe, but i dont believe i am, sex was more taboo in the 70's than it is today, today, when people are in a relationship, they tend to have sex a lot earlier than couples developing a relationship in the 70's did.
IMO Singer just updated the same relationship from the 70's with a more modern sensibility to it. I dont see how thats wrong.
with that i agree 100%.
different times.
true316 said:I agree that many wrongs don't make a right, but that it isn't the point I've been trying to make. Although Superman's overall nature is extremely sensitive (imo) he has also demonstrated the capacity to be insensitive throughout his history. Just because it happens on rare occasion, it doesn't invalidate his basic nature. All I've shown is that similar stuff has happened before in the mythology.
I don't believe it is apples and oranges. It isn't exactly the same by any means but I think the situation that Superman must have faced prior to SR, was quite drastic. If you had spent the first 25-30 years of your life believing that billions of people had died (including your biological parents who saved your life), and then woke up one day to find the possibility that they might still be alive what kind of emotions might it have stirred in you? How would you react knowing that you were the only person on Earth who could find out definitively whether the people of Krypton lived or died. Some might say that Jor-El informed his son that Krypton was destroyed so that should be enough. However, I've read post-crisis comic stories where Superman has encountered his parents from other dimensions. Other realities where Jor-El sent his son away with the information that Krypton was destroyed...only contrary to Jor-El's predictions Krypton didn't blow up. I don't know if the Superman from the SR universe has encountered something like that but I'm sure the possibility has entered his mind. Maybe his father was wrong and Krypton didn't blow up. Would you not feel compelled to find out the truth?
Also you wonder if Superman and Lois were involved in the same level of intimacy in the Exile story. I would say no from everything I know at the time. However what was the exact nature of Superman and Lois's relationship prior to SR? We know that they had sex at least once. But when he left, what was the nature of the relationship? It feels like this is the big question that provides the answer to many people's feelings surrounding the film. If they were still in an ongoing commited sexual relationship then he has definitely acted in the wrong. If they just had sex once and he decided to end the relationship at that point, then it doesn't seem as bad.
Do you feel compelled to inform all of your ex-girlfriends of your future plans? We have to speculate about the backstory because Singer only wanted us to know that they had a past history together. He opted not to go into much more detail than that.
Speculation about the backstory isn't enough of a reason for me to hate a movie the way some people here seem to do. Because within the film itself, as I've said, before Superman seems to act very selfless, particularly toward the end.
I've got no comment regarding the allegorical intercourse thing as I didn't know about it and don't even know if that is what Singer himself had in mind so I'm not going to speculate on that. At the end, Superman acting selfless is of great importance to me because it shows character development. Prior to SR, this was a guy who decided not to say goodbye. In the film, after seeing how much Lois was hurt by his decision, he made a point to say goodbye to her at a pivotal moment when he was expecting that he might die. This is a guy who earlier in the film tried to rekindle his relationship with her because that's what he wanted. But by the end, it was more important to him what she wanted. He knows it is compilcated situation but he is content to let Lois know that he will always be there for both her and Jason. And he gives her space to decide for herself what she wants. In the future she may decide to break up with Richard. She may also decide to stay with him. In any case, Lois's happiness is more important to him than his own. That's selfless.
I hope this helps you see where I'm coming from with this.
1. It's not always about doing the right thing, but rather that his motivation is from the right place, that whatever he's doing he's doing for the right reasons. Leaving Lois like he did was not for the right reason. Having sex w/ Lois without being honest with her about his Clark identity was not for the right reason.
It's all about his motivation which SInger did not touch upon at all in these character moments.
2. How come for every character but Superman you gave personality/ psycological traits and SUperman you gave a physical traits?
If you think about SUperman's personality traits, I think you will find them quite incongruous with the character in SR. In SR he acted selfishly but hurt Lois in the process. How does that fit with being in love with her. He was clearly more concerned with himself than with her. Above all, even his selfish decisions are motivated by the best reasons. The "For Tomorrow" graphic novel is a great example of this. He made a mistake, a big one, but his motivation was for the right reasons. His motivations for his mistakes in SR are not for the right reasons.
1. Well, this is kind of my point. Superman always acts for the right reasons, which often makes him as bland and boring a hero as Captain America. There's a reason I listed those other three characters. Arguably, they're the three most popular cinematical heroes in the world right now and each has their issues to deal with. They struggle with death, money, identity, & love and that's why they smoked the box office and will endure for sequels to come.
2. The reason I didn't list Superman's personality traits with those other is because, aside from being heroic and selfless (which you could say they all are), he's got no defining characteristics or quirks.
With the exception of the animated Tim Daly-voiced Superman, who I will admit was a bit of a smart-assed, silent type.
Singer truly created Singerman from his own experiences