What Women Want.....girls wanna help?

We've done the gender roll call to death and there's a relationship thread.

 

why do you post nervously .. is that for effect.

 

I can tell you with the up most confidence that what women want is me.

They just don't know it yet.

 

Confidence, charm, and a good sense of humor.

Looks are important but if you have those three things you don't need looks (as long as you're not hideous of course).

If you're ugly and lack those three things, then either work on them, or stock up on chloroform....

 

don't ever give a woman what she wants ..... it's too dangerous.

 

Watch a movie called "What Women Want"

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0207201/



Great ideas there....

 

They don't want a guy who's asking for help on a Superhero message board rather than going out there and being social, I can tell you that. Put yourself out there.

 

like, love and caring, and good looks and stuff. srsly. ftw.

 

We have a winner.

Honestly Google, I get what you're asking, but better just to find out through trial and error and from what you glean from conversations with close female friends.

Even then you'll never know, because no woman (or man for that matter) knows exactly what they want in a date/mate, thing is they instinctively know it when they see it. They may claim to love only blond guys, or brown eyed guys, or whatnot, but often the man they end up marrying is not those things they list off at all. He's just known to them as 'the one', and the only way they can tell you what 'the one' is, is by seeing it.

 

Money.

 

I think we have the real winner.

 

Then she really doesn't like you for you...

 

They also like candy.



And ponies.

 

Merry Christmas Mee!

 

Yes, lots and lots of it.

And not just ponies...... but unicorns.

 

i want a guy who can love me like this:

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click the spoilers and read along with him if you like
there may be a swear word in there

Spoiler

Love Like
by Shihan

I want a love like me
thinking of you
thinking of me
thinking of you type love,
or me telling my friends more than I've ever admitted to
myself about how I feel about you type love,
or hating how jealous you are, but loving how much you
want me all to your self type love,
or seeing how your first name just sounds so good next to
my last name,
and *****, I wanted to see how far I could get without
calling you, and I barely made it out of my garage.

See, I want a love that makes me wait until she falls
asleep then wonder if she dreaming about us being in love
type love,
or who loves the other more,
or what she's doing at this exact moment,
or slow dancing in the middle of our apartment to the
music of our hearts, closing my eyes and imagining how a
love so good could just hurt so much when she not there.
*****, I love not knowing where this love is headed type
love.

And check this, I want to place those little post-it notes
all around the house so she never forgets how much I love
her type love then not have enough ink in my pen to write
all there is to love about her type love.
Hope that I make her feel as good as she makes me feel,
and I want to deal with my friends making fun of me the
way I made fun of them when they went through the same kind of love type love.


Only difference is this is one of those real love type
loves.
and just like in high school, I want to spend hours on the
phone with her not saying ****,
and then fall asleep and then wake up with HER right next
to me,
and smell her all up in my covers type love

I want to try to counting the ways I love her, and then
lose count in the middle just so that I have to start all
over again.
I want to celebrate one of those month anniversaries even
though they ain't really anniversaries, but doin' it just
cause it makes her happy type love.

And check this, I want fall in love with the melody the
phone plays when her number is dialed in to her type loves
and then talk to you til I lose my breathe, she leaves me
breathless, so with the expanding of my lungs I inhale all
of her back into me

I want a love that makes me need to change my cell phone
calling plan to something that allows me to talk to her longer
because, in all honesty, I want to avoid one of them high
cell phone bill type loves.

I want a love that makes me regret how small my hands are
I mean the lines on my palms don't give me enough time to
love as long as I'd like to type loves,
and I want a love that makes me st-st-st-st-stutter just thinking
about how strong this love is type love.

I want a love that makes me want to cut off all my hair
Well, maybe not all of the hair
maybe just cut the split ends and trim my mustache, but
it will still be a symbol of how strong my love is for her.

And check this, I kinda feel comfortable now, so I can tell y'all this

I even be fantasizing about walking out on a green light just dying
to get hit by a car just so I could lose my memory
get transported to some third world country

just to get treated

then somehow meet up again with you so that I
could fall in love with you in a different language just
to see if it still feels the same type love.

I want a love that's as unexplainable as she is, but I'm
married, so she is going to be the one that I share this
love with. (

but that's only in the movies

 

What a fat azz!

 

they want a black guy.(we all know why)

 

The answers to your question are as diverse as the number of women on the planet who could answer it. Each woman is an individual with individual wants, needs, desires and dreams. Searching for generic, generalized blanket statements about what an entire gender "wants" on a superhero to film oriented message board isn't going to buy you a damn thing. How about you start learning to pay attention and listen to the women in your life, even the ones you hardly know at all, and seeing if you can learn what it is they are looking for? Treating them as individual humans instead of a group of "things" might also be a good start.

jag

 

the best advice you will probably find

take notes boys

 

DOCK! Merry Late Christmas!

 

Merry Christmas to you. I know I replied late but I went to NYC last night and well.........we'll just say I had a ball. Or busted some.

 

they don't know what they want