The thing it has those other DCEU films lack badly? Heart!
Without spoilers, what do you mean by "heart"?
Yes, it is interesting. Diana was someone basically groomed to be a hero, once past her mother's initial reluctance. She came into the larger world full of heroic determination and good will to find these tested by the harsh realities she found. Meanwhile, Clark was raised by someone who never overcame a much similar reluctance, and he lived from the start in the larger world of gray uncertainty, and slowly discovered the hero inside himself.
It is great that both have different but no lesser paths.
Jonathan's attitude was complex:
There's more at stake here than just our lives, Clark, or the lives of those around us. When the world finds out what you can do it's gonna change everything. Our beliefs, our notions of what it means to be human. Everything. You saw how Pete's mom reacted, right? She was scared, Clark. People are afraid of what they don't understand.
You just have to decide what kind of a man you want to grow up to be, Clark; because whoever that man is, good character or bad, he's... He's gonna change the world.
You are my son. But somewhere out there you have another father too, who gave you another name. And he sent you here for a reason, Clark. And even if it takes you the rest of your life you owe it to yourself to find out what that reason is.
It'd be a huge burden for anyone to bear; but you're not just anyone, Clark, and I have to believe that you were... that you were sent here for a reason. All these changes that you're going through, one day... one day you're gonna think of them as a blessing; and when that day comes, you're gonna have to make a choice... a choice of whether to stand proud in front of the human race or not.
He always believed you were meant for greater things, and that when the day came, your shoulders would be able to bear the weight.
Clark didn't slowly discover the hero inside himself. He always acted heroically (saving Pete, being a guardian angel), and to Jonathan keeping Clark a secret was altruistic; Hippolyta and the Amazons don't have a similar excuse for their absence in the affairs of men nor does Diana considering she remains a hero in hiding to this day.
Ultimately, for Jonathan, keeping Clark's secret was about protecting the world and therefore the greater good. Imagine the kind of responsibility it is to be President of the United States who has tremendous power to affect the lives of others, but then add to that the impact of something as major as the Protestant Reformation of the Christian church or the theory of evolution on culture and society.
Jonathan wasn't telling Clark that he should never be a public hero or savior, but that he had to be ready to take on the burden of what being that would entail. Picture BvS, but instead of Superman being a mature adult, he's a teenager. Can you imagine a 14 or a 17-year old boy being able to take on that kind of responsibility? Do you think that it would be in the best interests of the boy or the world?