Confession is good for the Hype. - - Part 11

[SpideyVille]

Yeah there's always two sides to every story....

It just really gets me upset with him because I already knew some stuff that he did, but this just sort of opened up a new can of worms about him, but I can't say anything about it because it could ruin things for a lot of other people like his wife and kids.

And it also upsets me to see that she's not who they made her out to be because I felt like getting this job with my SIL was going to bring me closer to the family, but now I see how they really are with people that don't change to fit in to their group. It's almost like we're bonding over how much we hate the family because we don't fit in.

 

[AxlsAppetite]

I find Superman incredibly boring. Same goes for Captain America.

 

[Doctor Evo]

Now, the real question is, after spending 10 years with this person, why the f**k would you up and get married? If you guys broke up a year ago half your s**t wouldn't soon be gone.

I'm not giving her anything I wouldn't willingly part with anyways. Well, she's getting our dog, which sucks (a lot), but that would have happened if we broke up, too. Financially I'm no worse off. She keeps her stuff, I keep mine. In fact, this is working out exactly as if we had never gotten married at all.

*Shrugs*

Well to be fair, he's only 26. Getting married might have been the "grown-up" thing to do.

I mean, it's quite another thing if you're 40-something, been in a relationship for more than 10 years and aren't married. (I know very happy couples like this.) Clearly, marriage means crap all to you in that case.

But a 10-year relationship from 15 to 25 is a very different thing.

Yeah, but that's long enough to have seen the writing on the wall. That spot between 18 and 25 is where some of the biggest change comes in a person's life. You start becoming the person you're gonna be for a good chunk of the rest of your life. Time enough to realize that maybe it wasn't gonna work out. 10 years then lets get hitched is almost always gonna end badly. Just like getting married at 18 or marrying somebody after 5 months. Don't do it.

I liked the people we had become. I liked her more at 25 than I did at 16. She became a better, more stable person. Someone I could have spent the rest of my life with.

The problem was that I moved away for a year to school. The plan was to have her move out with me this August. We got married right before I left - which was a complicated situation. I guess we figured that it would make us feel more secure about our relationship, which we knew was going to be difficult with the separation. In fact, I think it did help me stay the course. Otherwise, the marriage didn't change anything. We were happy.

There are other factors here I'm not going into in any level of detail, but while I was gone, she suffered a traumatic event (about which she didn't tell me until much, much later). This other person was there to comfort her, etc.

Anyway, long story short: the marriage didn't hurt anything. In fact, it helped. But things fell apart anyway.

 

[Anita18]

I liked the people we had become. I liked her more at 25 than I did at 16. She became a better, more stable person. Someone I could have spent the rest of my life with.

The problem was that I moved away for a year to school. The plan was to have her move out with me this August. We got married right before I left - which was a complicated situation. I guess we figured that it would make us feel more secure about our relationship, which we knew was going to be difficult with the separation. In fact, I think it did help me stay the course. Otherwise, the marriage didn't change anything. We were happy.

There are other factors here I'm not going into in any level of detail, but while I was gone, she suffered a traumatic event (about which she didn't tell me until much, much later). This other person was there to comfort her, etc.

Anyway, long story short: the marriage didn't hurt anything. In fact, it helped. But things fell apart anyway.

Yeah, this happens in many, many marriages.

Marriages don't fall apart because of money issues or boredom. They fall apart from lack of communication about money issues or boredom.

I'm glad the process won't be too painful. And again, there's no right or wrong time to start dating again. It's all up to you.

 

[E-Man]

She just ran up to me on the playground, picked me up and slammed me to the ground... Didn't even know the girl. I think she may have liked me.

She was just auditioning for Vince McMahon.

 

[Warhammer]

I confess that some of these girls that I know who love to gossip secretly have self-esteem issues. There is this one girl in particular who was my ex-roommate. I understand that she likes to vent to people, but she just has the compulsion to tell our MUTUAL friends about our issues, etc. Why the f*** do you have to talk s*** about me to our mutual friends? Then later on, I find out from a mutual friend that she's been talking about me. Not only do I not get to defend myself and tell my side, but they shouldn't even know in the first place. It pisses me off to the point where I just want to break her damn jaw. And I know that if I were to do that and she found out I was talking s***, she'd throw a little hissy fit.

And she wonders why I still harbor a grudge and that whenever we are in the same room, I treat her as if she doesn't exist. She even invited me to her house for a get together and I treated her like a ghost. And to think, I used to consider her as close as a sister no more than three months ago. F***ing b****.

 

[Anita18]

I confess that some of these girls that I know who love to gossip secretly have self-esteem issues. There is this one girl in particular who was my ex-roommate. I understand that she likes to vent to people, but she just has the compulsion to tell our MUTUAL friends about our issues, etc. Why the f*** do you have to talk s*** about me to our mutual friends? Then later on, I find out from a mutual friend that she's been talking about me. Not only do I not get to defend myself and tell my side, but they shouldn't even know in the first place. It pisses me off to the point where I just want to break her damn jaw. And I know that if I were to do that and she found out I was talking s***, she'd throw a little hissy fit.

And she wonders why I still harbor a grudge and that whenever we are in the same room, I treat her as if she doesn't exist. She even invited me to her house for a get together and I treated her like a ghost. And to think, I used to consider her as close as a sister no more than three months ago. F***ing b****.

I think everyone who loves to gossip has self-esteem issues.

 

[zeroapoc]

I confess my daughter started High School yesterday and I'm terrified for her.

 

[GENERAL RAAM582]

I confess that I'd be terrified too if school started at the beginning of August.

 

[Manic]

School seems to start earlier and earlier every year. Back when I was in elementary school (in the glorious early 90's), school started in mid-September. By the time I finished high school, school was starting in mid-August.

 

[jonathancrane]

Barely over a week ago, I had a utility pole fall on me at work. We were installing a joint light pole/support for the volleyball net - 6x6x20-when it slipped and struck me on the head. I fell to the ground, but did not lose my vision or hearing. Got back up and resumed work. However, the symptoms kicked in at a weird rate: while I was doing branch removal, I suffered from dizziness, so I took a migraine pill from one of my co-workers and was back to business. However, that night, dizziness, nausea, headaches, and everything kicked in.

Through the battery of appointments, I learned I acquired another concussion and damage to my neck. Currently, I am not allowed to rotate my neck or bend it any other direction than its natural position, so my life is a nightmare, when considering:

a) I cannot exercise like I used to
b) I cannot bend over or manipulate my neck
c) I have recurrent dizziness
d) I am not allowed to do any work
e) And also have episodes of nausea/vomiting that spring from the dizziness.

Currently am in therapy and seeing all of the recommended specialists, but, I am finding it somewhat difficult to be optimistic, especially since all of my friends are busy, and I have almost no one to talk with.

 

[Brain Damage]

Physical therapy can be a hell of a tough thing, man. But take it one day at a time, and slowly but surely you will see progress. Just don't lose hope, the Hype's got your back

 

[sabetoonth]

I confess it feels good to be back in force[at least to be back with a working sound card and image drivers]. BTW, when images are stretched out and a bit bigger in safety mode. You notice stuff you didnt before.

 

[ComicChick]

i confess that i think i self sabotage myself sometimes because i'm afraid of having success

 

[Piper Maru]

I confess that I did absolutely nothing today. It was everything that I thought it would be!

 

[jonathancrane]

Physical therapy can be a hell of a tough thing, man. But take it one day at a time, and slowly but surely you will see progress. Just don't lose hope, the Hype's got your back

Thanks!

it means a lot.

 

[Warhammer]

I confess that I feel depressed too often.

 

[Brain Damage]

I think I've been suffering from anxiety lately.

God, this thread is turning into Hype therapy.

 

[Piper Maru]

I think I've been suffering from anxiety lately.

God, this thread is turning into Hype therapy.

If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to visit The Cthulhu Appreciation and Worship Thread. Were here for you!

 

[Brain Damage]

If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to visit The Cthulhu Appreciation and Worship Thread. Were here for you!

That means a hell of a lot, dude.

Where are you now, Jesus? Where are you now?

 

[jonathancrane]

@Piper Maru

Is your avvy from Lost Highway, by any chance? It is one of my favorite films.

 

[Piper Maru]

That means a hell of a lot, dude.

Where are you now, Jesus? Where are you now?

You're most welcome. We're all here for you, Brain Damage.

@Piper Maru

Is your avvy from Lost Highway, by any chance? It is one of my favorite films.

Yup, it's from Lost Highway. It's one of my favorite films as well, David Lynch rules!

 

[Warhammer]

Robert Blake gives me the creeps in that movie.

 

[Piper Maru]

Robert Blake gives me the creeps in that movie.

I confess that he gives me the creeps as well. For anyone who hasn't seen this movie, put it at the top of your to-do list!

Lost Highway - Mystery Man
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Amazing scene from David Lynch's Lost Highway

 

[GENERAL RAAM582]

I confess that a woman calling me cute today gave me more confidence than it really should have. I'm just not use to it at all, so it took me by great surprise.