Confession is good for the Hype. - - - - - - Part 15

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  1. Thread Manager Moderator

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    This is a continuation thread, the old thread is [split]483127[/split]
     
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    This is a continuation thread, the old thread is [split]474327[/split]
     
  3. Bran The Man Sumthin', Sumthin' Hero.

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    I have a confession to make.

    I find myself thinking about women a lot. Maybe even a little too much. The thing is I have a problem not thinking of them sexually. I see a beautiful woman and I imagine myself doing things with each of them like kissing and holding hands. Then, those thoughts become sexual and I imagine myself doing things to them. Dominant, aggressive things. It is as if I can only think of women as sex objects. Valuing them only for their bodies. I can't stop picturing them naked. I expect sex from them. I expect them to be like the women you see in porn, or things like Penthouse and Playboy.

    I feel as if my unhealthy view of women may have ruined women for me altogether. I see myself as a monster for feeling this way because this is not how I was raised (which ironically, was mostly by women). It often leaves me feeling embarrased and ashamed.
     
  4. Reek _____

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    I confess that I am in an absolute fit of laughter right now.

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  5. dude stannis Registered

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    My best advice is save up some cash and fly over to Thailand where you can root it out of your system.
     
  6. Warhammer Half Monk, Half Hitman

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    Would you happen to be a sex addict as well? Serious question.
     
  7. Bran The Man Sumthin', Sumthin' Hero.

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    No. I've never done it.
     
  8. KevanG Pragmatic Villain

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    Honestly, just head to a bar or club, hook up with someone and get it out of your system. You'll feel better and think clearer.
     
  9. dude stannis Registered

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    For the record, are you of legal age to be discussing this with us? I don't want anyone here getting in legal issues.
     
  10. Reek _____

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    He brought the war to us.
     
  11. KevanG Pragmatic Villain

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    That's a good point dude. Very good point.

    If legal age then go for my advice should it please you, if not then do not.
     
  12. Bran The Man Sumthin', Sumthin' Hero.

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    I'm 27.
     
  13. dude stannis Registered

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    Ok then. Seriously just do what either Kevan or myself said. Go hook up with someone and get it out of your system.
     
  14. KevanG Pragmatic Villain

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    Well, now that that's answered. Should you hook up with someone and they're willing then try to maintain a connection even if it's just talking on Facebook every now and then. It would help lessen the whole 'use them and lose them' thing and cement more of a connection to emphasize the person than the gender.
     
  15. the last son Registered

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    No don't just go hook up. That'll be your first experience and make you view women even more in that favor. Get a date somehow and get to know a woman. Fall for her. Sex should be down the list about what's best about her. Then you won't view women that way. Trust me on this.
     
  16. Holiday https://joebiden.info/

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    Do you watch a lot of porn?

    I did in the past, and have had similar issues. I'm currently trying to stop all together.
     
  17. Spider-Aziz Flame Roy Returns

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    I confess;
    I miss going to the BvS boards, I used to find that place fun.
     
  18. Bran The Man Sumthin', Sumthin' Hero.

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    I do, but not much lately.
     
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    ^ Are you using it as filler or does affect your life? Do you think you'd still be hardcore into without affection from someone else?

    I find most porn to be boring when you're getting attention from someone else. Don't get me wrong, there's still hot stuff out there, but a lot of it is obviously fake and we deal with the fakeness to get something out of the scene.
     
  20. Bran The Man Sumthin', Sumthin' Hero.

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    It might be a little bit of both. I started out using it as a filler but I feel it's beginning it's affect the way I see women.
     
  21. Erzengel |-o-| (-o-) |-o-|

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    Have you ever had any type of significant relationship with the opposite sex?
     
  22. Rain in Gotham "Im a baaaaaaaaaad man"

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    If confidence is a problem I'd say online dating is the best route and you can chat and get to know each other but don't ruin it by asking for dirty pictures or being to forward.
     
  23. Bran The Man Sumthin', Sumthin' Hero.

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    Some of my close friends are females, but other than that, no.
     
  24. Reek _____

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    We can be honest here, right? Let's be honest.

    You're horny. It happens. Get it out of your system.

    /Reek Therapy
     
  25. PopeAdrian37th BucketBot

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    I have a confession. Everyone I know knows me for head banging to metal and punk rock, but when I'm home alone lately I've been singing to Sia. :woot:
     

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