Do You Think The "Friend Zone" Exists?

[DarkSovereignty]

Reading your posts is like going further and further down the rabbit hole.

 

[Doctor Evo]

No. the connotation was the person or persons that i knew.. knew how i felt about them but use that self same feeling to get me to help them out of a jam! which i did because of the friendship and also because as a civilized human being. i think you should regardless of the fact. once the helpful act was accomplished it was then later revealed to me that " i only see you as friend!" i didn't appreciate using my feeling as leverage to help them out and because of that the friendship soured and was destroyed because ultimately i saw what kinda of person they truly were

to think i am "owed" something because of an act of kindness is ludicrous( not the rapper) and insane! and besides i got much better GAME THAN THAT!
HAHAHAHahahahahahahahahahah!

How high are you right now?

Reading your posts is like going further and further down the rabbit hole.

Pretty much. Jesus...

 

[BLACKVULCAN]

i seem to have that effect on alot people dark... maybe because i been around for awhile! or maybe one should never drink any beverage with "drink me" on it!

How high are you right now?

altitude or sea level?
hehe

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Reading your posts is like going further and further down the rabbit hole.

How high are you right now?

Pretty much. Jesus...

I got what he was saying just fine.

What, you think it's just guys who can use people's feelings against them to get what they want?

 

[DarkSovereignty]

I wasn't commenting on the content of what he was saying, just the overall tone and style of it.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

Can this thread go away?

 

[BLACKVULCAN]

just the overall tone and style of it.

i knew where you were coming from dark. i havent lasted this long not knowing whats going on .... but the doc there might need some explaining!
all i did was answer the question poised.

 

[MadVillainy]

Can this thread go away?

you could just ignore it. If you dont like it

 

[Aesop Rocks]

But it'd still be so much better if it's gone!

There is a relationship advice thread, after all. Where Nell2ThaIzzay reigns supreme.

 

[DarkSovereignty]

DJ's various news article threads already proved at people around here are physically incapable of ignoring threads they don't like

 

[MadVillainy]

It's just silly. If you dont like a thread dont go into it. Im not a World Cup fan so I dont go into the World Cup thread. I'm not one to talk about politics so I stay out of the politics thread.

Coming in the thread just to complain that it should go away is pretty childish and pointless. But I guess if it gives someone satisfaction fine

 

[Aesop Rocks]

I'm sorry I just hate the entire concept of the "friend zone" and single desperate people defending the need to discuss it constantly as a means to justify why they were rejected by someone?

 

[DarkSovereignty]

"Childish & pointless" can be found written in Nordic runes beneath the hype family crest.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

"Childish & pointless" can be found written in Nordic runes beneath the hype family crest.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

But it'd still be so much better if it's gone!

There is a relationship advice thread, after all. Where Nell2ThaIzzay reigns supreme.

Damn right, don't you ever threaten my throne.

 

[Doctor Evo]

What, you think it's just guys who can use people's feelings against them to get what they want?

 

[Doctor Evo]

Damn right, don't you ever threaten my throne.

The Throne of the Kingdom of Loneliness?

 

[Doctor Evo]

i knew where you were coming from dark. i havent lasted this long not knowing whats going on .... but the doc there might need some explaining!
all i did was answer the question poised.

The only thing that merits an explanation is how you so spectacularly missed the part where you did those things with the expectation of returned affection - which is exactly what we're talking about.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

The Throne of the Kingdom of Loneliness?

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

The Throne of the Kingdom of Loneliness?

At least it's a throne, guy. Where's yours?

The only thing that merits an explanation is how you so spectacularly missed the part where you did those things with the expectation of returned affection - which is exactly what we're talking about.

He didn't do them with expectation of returned affection. She used his affection to get something out of him, knowing she didn't feel the same way.

 

[Doctor Evo]

At least it's a throne, guy. Where's yours?

Good question. Where does your mother live?

He didn't do them with expectation of returned affection. She used his affection to get something out of him, knowing she didn't feel the same way.

...if he did it knowingly, then what is the problem, exactly? See where this line of reasoning breaks down?

 

[BLACKVULCAN]

The only thing that merits an explanation is how you so spectacularly missed the part where you did those things with the expectation of returned affection - which is exactly what we're talking about.

well i am high so thats to be expected for me to miss those finer points... which begs the further question of if i was would i really be on a message board for comic nerds!?!like wouldnt i be in a bathroom at ceasars palace(in VEGAS) or some other seedy type places( hehe Vegas has alot)... hmmm just stuff i ponder and oh and your points too Doc! hahahaha

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Good question. Where does your mother live?

She's got her room at this place

...if he did it knowingly, then what is the problem, exactly? See where this line of reasoning breaks down?

Because she used him.

What part of that aren't you getting?

 

[Doctor Evo]

Because she used him.

What part of that aren't you getting?

*Sigh*

I'm going to go through this very slowly. Do try and keep up.

If he knew that he was being used, before he ever did the favor - which is what you implied in your earlier post - and if he did not expect anything in return - stay with me now:

Why would he do the favor and then become upset?

In other words (and here's the IMPORTANT part, Nell): how do you use somebody if that person has no expectation of receiving anything in return?

Come on, Nell. Use that brain of yours. Exercise those synapses, buddy.

 

[Doctor Evo]

well i am high so thats to be expected for me to miss those finer points... which begs the further question of if i was would i really be on a message board for comic nerds!?!like wouldnt i be in a bathroom at ceasars palace(in VEGAS) or some other seedy type places( hehe Vegas has alot)... hmmm just stuff i ponder and oh and your points too Doc! hahahaha

I've gotten high and come to these boards before. *shrugs*

They're more fun that way.