Thank you for proving my point.
Also...
^ I was thinking about it, and this was waaaaay under the belt. I'm sorry.
I didn't prove your point at all.
Unless you are trying to imply that it is impossible for someone to exploit someone's emotions for personal gains?
How about this example:
Guy and girl are friends. Guy doesn't have romantic feelings for girl, he just appreciates her friendship. Girl calls guy for favors - giving rides to job interviews, moving, etc... Guy helps girl without any expectation of anything, simply because he is her friend.
As friendship goes on, it turns out that girl only calls guy when she needs something, because she knows he'll help her out. She never calls him for hanging out or anything else. It turns out that all along, girl was talking **** about guy behind his back, and was never a friend to him. She only
used him because she knew he would.
Is that not using someone? What's the difference in this situation and Black Vulcan's? Other than Vulcan had romantic feelings for the woman.
Hoping for something (I.E.: having romantic feelings for someone) does not equal expectation nor entitlement.
Finding out that person you were helping out was only exploiting your feelings - whether feelings of friendship or romance - to get what they wanted, is
USING someone.
And I appreciate the apology, but it's not necessary. I was playing along with it, there was no offense taken. But I appreciate it.
No, the friend zone does not exist.
It's just something that was probably invented by insecure frat boys who want to blame women for not wanting to have sex with them because think that if they pay any attention to or be kind to a woman, she must reward them with sex.
I voted no, but I suppose it does exist in the minds of children and misogynists.