DarkSovereignty
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Oh dear...
I voted no, but I suppose it does exist in the minds of children and misogynists.
My definition of "friend zone" is when you become friends with someone, and after developing a nice friendship with them, you also develop feelings for them, while they just see you as nothing more than what you already were. So you're now in the "friend zone".
I don't see it as "being rejected, and just using the term as an excuse", as it's not the same thing. If you're asking someone out that you don't really know, and get rejected, but happen to become friends later, that wouldn't be considered the "friend zone", that's just automatic rejection, with being an adult. If you were dating someone and you broke it off, and decided to stay friends, that too wouldn't be considered being put in the "friend zone". That would just be breaking up amicably.
hahahah sorry this was fun and all but i had to go work out!(THATS TRES IMPORTANT!) Wow i didnt know i was going to be a hit as Misogynistic Neanderthal!lWell... the woman Black Vulcan pursued certainly used him, but I think its Vulcan's responsibility to lay down terms before doing any type of favors for her
Like so many other fashionable terms, it's been coopted to mean something depending on the group who has coopted it which is why asking an opinion on it results in an endless debate.
Might as well ask the definition of "is" for all that it will help.![]()
Yeah, I had no idea people could see it any other way?This is what I always thought it was and what anyone who has heard the term understood it to be. It's interesting to see all these different interpretations of the concept.
Facepalm all you want. You're always going to run into people who think that term is most commonly used by people who want to blame the object of their affection for rejecting them. You'll probably find a lot of folks who find it misogynistic as well, considering it's most often used by men against women.
It reminds me of that episode of Seinfeld where Kramer goes to a lawyer to give rights for someone to pull the plug on him if he's in a coma. Later he finds out that you can actually wake up from a coma. He turns to Jerry and says, "I didn't know it was possible to come out of a coma", and then Jerry says, "I didn't know it was possible not to know that".people do realize that the friend zone" or at least the concept of it can happen between men and women right
And those people who think that would be wrong.
lol, alrighty then.
I don't say it about anybody because I think it has very negative connotations. There's not even a need for a term like that when people can just say "That person just wants to be friends with me," which has zero connotations.
Anyways, I won't bother fighting you about this term because it seems to mean a lot to you for some reason. Agree to disagree, I guess.
lol, alrighty then.
I don't say it about anybody because I think it has very negative connotations. There's not even a need for a term like that when people can just say "That person just wants to be friends with me," which has zero connotations.
Anyways, I won't bother fighting you about this term because it seems to mean a lot to you for some reason. Agree to disagree, I guess.
Why does "friend zone" have connotations?
It doesn't. Until social warriors put a connotation on it.
Why have that term? Because it's a slang term. We have it for the same reason we have any slang term.
Why does it mean a lot to me? Because I'm tired of those same social warriors twisting words to vilify people for no reason other than to vilify them.
Men and women can definitely be friends. I'm not sure who's saying otherwise, but I too feel sorry for them.
I will say however, any friendship with one person having feelings for the other, be it romantic or physical, is doomed to fail and isn't a true friendship to begin with.
Why does "friend zone" have connotations?
It doesn't. Until social warriors put a connotation on it.
Why have that term? Because it's a slang term. We have it for the same reason we have any slang term.
Why does it mean a lot to me? Because I'm tired of those same social warriors twisting words to vilify people for no reason other than to vilify them.
In contemporary society (unless you are over 50, then I can understand your point), "friend zone" has a negative connotation. Who ever uses that term in a positive or neutral way? "Oh, that's my friend Jessica. I friend zoned her."
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It ISN'T "negative" in the way it is accused of being, in terms of vilifying women for not wanting to have sex or pursue a romantic relationship with a guy.
I have never used the term in that way myself, nor have I ever heard a single person on the face of the planet use the term in that way.
Until I started seeing the social warriors of the internet start coming out and putting that connotation on it.
I can definitely see some men use it that way. Misogynists or just ******** dudes with huge egos. I'm not saying men use it that way. I've never used it that way. But it's easy to see how another dude could.
"That b**** friend zoned me. Who does she think she is? She's ugly anyway."
Of course it's "negative" - it basically means the person was rejected.
It ISN'T "negative" in the way it is accused of being, in terms of vilifying women for not wanting to have sex or pursue a romantic relationship with a guy.
I have never used the term in that way myself, nor have I ever heard a single person on the face of the planet use the term in that way.
Until I started seeing the social warriors of the internet start coming out and putting that connotation on it.
That's how I've seen it used. Hence, my dislike for it.
I can definitely see some men use it that way. Misogynists or just ******** dudes with huge egos. I'm not saying men use it that way. I've never used it that way. But it's easy to see how another dude could.
"That b**** friend zoned me. Who does she think she is? She's ugly anyway."