Gymrats & Stalkers: "I Was Assaulted In A Public Restroom"

[Sloth7d]

And he thinks Lifetime>>>>Hallmark.

 

[Darthphere]

And his name is PHERE!

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

It's been a couple of days but I'm back...with more interesting news. Give me a moment to type this up.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

I had typed out a long-azz essay only to lose it when the Hype crashed.

 

[TheZink]

I had typed out a long-azz essay only to lose it when the Hype crashed.

I hate it when that happens.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Edit

 

[Gilpesh]

Heh. They did it.

 

[Marx]

I'm glad to hear that everything worked out for you man.

 

[-Arya-]

Heh. They did it.

 

[AndThePickles]

So...did he win top after all?

 

[knowsbleed]

LS... is he stronger than you? Because if he is... you need to work out more.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

So...did he win top after all?

I explained to him that in order to work his way to the top...he has to start out somewhere...towards the bottom. And considering that I am the veteran in this lifestyle, he'd have to bow to my expertise. And I do mean bow.

It took some coaxing, but he uh...took the news rather well.

LS... is he stronger than you? Because if he is... you need to work out more.

Are you referring to physical strength? If so, I think if you'd ask him that he'd tell you that I'm by far the stronger of the two.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

I'm glad to hear that everything worked out for you man.

Thank you. It's not totally worked out. But we made some great progress. He did indeed recognize David. I had a picture still up in the bathroom on this little stand next to the jacuzzi that I failed to take down. We were taking a shower together and when he stepped out he pointed it out. Obviously this was not the first time he had probably seen it because it was the same bathroom he had *********ed in earlier. He said, "Is that your ex?" I was caught off guard like, "S***! I thought I took all the pics down". So of course, I said yes. I was a little nervous at that point because Jason said, "he looks familiar for some reason. What does he do?" I played it cool and simply said that he was also in "law enforcement." Technically, that was a white lie...but in away David does enforce the law--in the courtroom...even though I led Jason to believe that David's another cop.



It was the best I could do.

 

[enterthemadness]

I explained to him that in order to work his way to the top...he has to start out somewhere...towards the bottom. And considering that I am the veteran in this lifestyle, he'd have to bow to my expertise. And I do mean bow.

It took some coaxing, but he uh...took the news rather well.





Are you referring to physical strength? If so, I think if you'd ask him that he'd tell you that I'm by far the stronger of the two.

but didn't he pin you earlier in wrestling?

 

[enterthemadness]

Thank you. It's not totally worked out. But we made some great progress. He did indeed recognize David. I had a picture still up in the bathroom on this little stand next to the jacuzzi that I failed to take down. We were taking a shower together and when he stepped out he pointed it out. Obviously this was not the first time he had probably seen it because it was the same bathroom he had *********ed in earlier. He said, "Is that your ex?" I was caught off guard like, "S***! I thought I took all the pics down". So of course, I said yes. I was a little nervous at that point because Jason said, "he looks familiar for some reason. What does he do?" I played it cool and simply said that he was also in "law enforcement." Technically, that was a white lie...but in away David does enforce the law--in the courtroom...even though I led Jason to believe that David's another cop.



It was the best I could do.

Smooth, I'm taking notes here.

 

[mrvlknight21]

Thank you. It's not totally worked out. But we made some great progress. He did indeed recognize David. I had a picture still up in the bathroom on this little stand next to the jacuzzi that I failed to take down. We were taking a shower together and when he stepped out he pointed it out. Obviously this was not the first time he had probably seen it because it was the same bathroom he had *********ed in earlier. He said, "Is that your ex?" I was caught off guard like, "S***! I thought I took all the pics down". So of course, I said yes. I was a little nervous at that point because Jason said, "he looks familiar for some reason. What does he do?" I played it cool and simply said that he was also in "law enforcement." Technically, that was a white lie...but in away David does enforce the law--in the courtroom...even though I led Jason to believe that David's another cop.



It was the best I could do.

I dont understand why you didnt tell him the truth...

You seem really honest, why lie about this?

Im confused.

 

[mrvlknight21]

I dont know if its the New York thing, the gay thing or what...but your life is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO much different than mine! LOL!

I didnt understand why you were so upset about him jacking in the bathroom anyways. It was clear he was worked up and didnt know what to do about it because of the newness of the situation and all.

Ive never heard that song you linked....

I dont know what scat is either.....

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

I dont understand why you didnt tell him the truth...

You seem really honest, why lie about this?

Im confused.

Technically I didn't lie. I just didn't tell him the entire truth. I will in time. I still have to figure out how to tell David what's going on. He actually text messaged me early this morning asking if I had my Christmas shopping done. See, every once in a while I still hear from him...it's almost like he's trying to stay visible in my life just long enough for me not to cut him off completely.

When he finds out I'm dating another cat, the s*** is going to hit the fan. David is a very jealous and insecure person--especially since the accident. I believe he expected me to always just "be there" on the side and that whenever he was ready to pick me up off the shelf and dust me off I'd be ready for him again.

I'm not an ornament. Caliph is moving on.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

I dont know if its the New York thing, the gay thing or what...but your life is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO much different than mine! LOL!

In what way? I mean, beyond the obvious?

I didnt understand why you were so upset about him jacking in the bathroom anyways. It was clear he was worked up and didnt know what to do about it because of the newness of the situation and all.

If you were doing your wife and got your nut first and just rolled over and went to sleep while she was still hot and bothered, how would she feel? Or better yet, if you were horny and not getting any and then learned that the reason you were in the "Deny Zone" is because she was using a damn vibrator, how would you feel?

Jason's actions were selfish. But I forgive him.

I dont know what scat is either.....

Scat is a synonym for uh...poo. There are some gay men (and probably straight couples too who are into that darker s***) that love to crap or pee on their partner during sex.

Which is udderly disgussing.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

but didn't he pin you earlier in wrestling?

For the most part, it was a tie.

 

[mrvlknight21]

Technically I didn't lie. I just didn't tell him the entire truth. I will in time. I still have to figure out how to tell David what's going on. He actually text messaged me early this morning asking if I had my Christmas shopping done. See, every once in a while I still hear from him...it's almost like he's trying to stay visible in my life just long enough for me not to cut him off completely.

When he finds out I'm dating another cat, the s*** is going to hit the fan. David is a very jealous and insecure person--especially since the accident. I believe he expected me to always just "be there" on the side and that whenever he was ready to pick me up off the shelf and dust me off I'd be ready for him again.

I'm not an ornament. Caliph is moving on.

Im sorry man, telling half truths is lying. I had a friend who "withheld" part of the truth, claiming that he didnt lie and it bit him in the ass. Same thing with someone VERY VERY close to me, they gave me part of the story, even the essential truth, but not the entire truth and it HURT when I found out everything. I had even asked for something more specific and was told "that was all."
I felt like they must feel that they could not trust me with the whole truth for whatever reason and it still burns at me. Seriously, tell him asap, it will help avoid any confusion/issues/pain later. TRUST ME. (just my 2 cents).

I dont understand why you didnt simply tell him that david is a lawyer...that part I am still confused about.

Yeah, I remember you mentioning David...you even said you spent Thanksgiving with him and his family, since you all are still close.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Im sorry man, telling half truths is lying. I had a friend who "withheld" part of the truth, claiming that he didnt lie and it bit him in the ass. Same thing with someone VERY VERY close to me, they gave me part of the story, even the essential truth, but not the entire truth and it HURT when I found out everything. I felt like they must feel that they could not trust me with the whole truth for whatever reason and it still burns at me. Seriously, tell him asap, it will help avoid any confusion/issues/pain later. TRUST ME.

Yeah, I remember you mentioning David...you even said you spent Thanksgiving with him and his family, since you all are still close.

I will. Eventually. But right now I want to keep the relationships separate. There's simply no benefit right now in merging the two.

 

[mrvlknight21]

In what way? I mean, beyond the obvious?

I dont know man...just different all around.


If you were doing your wife and got your nut first and just rolled over and went to sleep while she was still hot and bothered, how would she feel? Or better yet, if you were horny and not getting any and then learned that the reason you were in the "Deny Zone" is because she was using a damn vibrator, how would you feel?

Jason's actions were selfish. But I forgive him.

Yes, but that is my wife. You were in bed with essentially a new guy friend who was clearly trying to figure out what he wanted in this new and somewhat scary situation. It is a bit different...very different in fact.

Scat is a synonym for uh...poo. There are some gay men (and probably straight couples too who are into that darker s***) that love to crap or pee on their partner during sex.

Which is udderly disgussing.

ok, gotcha...

 

[TheZink]

I'm not an ornament. Caliph is moving on.

Awesome.

Glad to see things are improved and Jason opened up to you.

 

[mrvlknight21]

I will. Eventually. But right now I want to keep the relationships separate. There's simply no benefit right now in merging the two.

I clearly am not getting it. I dont understand how telling Jason that David is a lawyer is "merging the two." Did I miss something?

Also, (again this is just me and my 2 cents)-if the person finds out you will lie about something small (pointless?) like this, then what else will you hide or lie about. As I said, I believe you are an honest person, so dont take what I am saying as me condemning you. I think it is just better to be completely honest, up front, from the beginning. It really helps avoid confusion and heartache later.