I ****ed up. Again.

[kainedamo]

Liquor would give you a straight answer. Liquor wouldn't make you feel all awkward and weird if ya put your arm around it.

 

[Erzengel]

I know that some girls think they like to spare feelings. But the best way to do that is to be honest. If you're not honest, you're just gonna give the guy false hope.

Plus, it's just kinda frustrating because I don't meet many girls.

I think I'll leave it a few days. Then I'll message her and say "yeah, I was drunk. I overstepped my bounds. Very sorry". But thats another thing about girls - they'd rather ignore ya than explain they don't want to talk.

Honesty is the best policy doesn't really apply to when you need to let someone down.

And if you do leave her the message, that's it. The ball's in her court. Do not try and pursue it afterwards.

Like I said, I don't think she's interested, whether it's just her own personal preference or you didn't put your best foot forward.

 

[Sloth7d]

After taking that one posters lead and looking up munch in wikipedia, I have to say you're a very brave soul Kain.

 

[Showtime]

What's a munch?

 

[kainedamo]

After taking that one posters lead and looking up munch in wikipedia, I have to say you're a very brave soul Kain.

Doesn't seem to count for anything though.

 

[Sloth7d]

Doesn't seem to count for anything though.

Meh, plenty fish in the sea. And would you really want to go through that type of relationship if things went off anyway? Pain should never be arousing.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

Really you ought to get numbers before you start asking people out, even if you have been talking with them for a while. Asking them out right away like you did just puts a world of pressure on them.

The number is the okay to take things one step further...but only one step. This dating thing is a process.

 

[Mister J]

What's a munch?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Munch_(BDSM)

 

[hippy fascist]

A munch (short for burger munch) is a low-pressure social gathering for people involved in or interested in BDSM, usually at a restaurant. When available, munches often use a private room. In the UK, the venue is usually a pub, and people are free to arrive and leave within the specified hours. The primary purpose is socializing, though some munches also have announcements from local organizations. Munches often help those who are curious about the lifestyle meet others who may be able to help them become more comfortable and better informed. Munches can also be a place to get advice about or pass on anecdotes about BDSM experiences.

Unlike a play party, most munches are casual affairs that exclude fetish attire or BDSM play, though a rare few include covert Master/slave interactions or other play. Some munches may have a specific focus, such as spirituality or whips. Others may be restricted to a specific group, such as women or submissives

Leather and whips?

 

[hippy fascist]

I love the concept of annecdotes..."well this one time the water she was pumping into my butt was just a little too hot and..."

 

[K.B.]

Dude relax.

I really don't see wha tthe problem is....it's a girl. They aren't that big a deal and it's really not hard to meet them at all.

 

[Darthphere]

I almost can see a thread on here a few months from now titled: "I finally got to see a girl naked but forgot where to stick my penis in!"

 

[Matt]

Didn't you learn from the first time? Now we are going to have threads about you stalking Daisy for months.

 

[Erzengel]

And that position is taken.

 

[Tangled Web]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Munch_(BDSM)

What the ****?

Kaine? If she's that kind of girl you should have been more agressive.

 

[Sloth7d]

Really you ought to get numbers before you start asking people out, even if you have been talking with them for a while. Asking them out right away like you did just puts a world of pressure on them.

The number is the okay to take things one step further...but only one step. This dating thing is a process.

Well, he probably thought he could get some action right away. I mean with the whole munch set up going on.

 

[Erzengel]

Kaine if you are interested in this type of fetish, you might want think if the girls you meet there would be interested in someone who's relatively inexperienced in this type of activity.

 

[Mr. Smash'n Bash]

haha this whole conversation is hilarious.

 

[Sloth7d]

Kaine if you are interested in this type of fetish, you might want think if the girls you meet there would be interested in someone who's relatively inexperienced in this type of activity.

Ironic, I would think they would jump at the chance to make an inexperienced their love slave and torcher him for hours on end.

 

[Erzengel]

Well he's admitted that he's more a dom. And I doubt the subs would want to have to teach.

 

[Sloth7d]

True.

 

[Tangled Web]

You being at this things tells me something:

you are so tired of failing at love that you would put yourself in this kind of situation.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

Well, he probably thought he could get some action right away. I mean with the whole munch set up going on.

Perhaps...but he isn't that great at reading signs. At the very least that would be playing it safe.

 

[Tangled Web]

Kaine, if you're that desperate you should just do adult friend finder or something. Find a "**** buddy" go to a bar, hit up older women and get on with it. It sounds like you want sex really bad.

 

[Machx72]

Can I get her SN?