I feel like such an Idiot!

[amazingfantasy15]

This was my quote like 2 days after you first slept with her.

JAL honestly, while it's great to have fun and what not, you don't seem to "grasp" the concept of responsibility. Sex is a responsibility and I hate to sound like an after school special, if you think you are responsible enough to have sex, you should be responsible enough to think about STDs (you don't know how may guys this girl has banged) or the fact that condoms are not 100% proof.

And before you freak out on me, saying I'm making you paranoid. Most of us here who have had sex, have had a instance where we probably did something stupid while drunk like did bareback sex with a girl or slept with a girl of disreputable taste. But yeah if you are having sex, it's something you have to think about, and if this girl tells you she's on birth control make her get tested.

I don't see how he's not being responsible though, he wore a condom, he's going to the doctor with her. Sure, he's freaking out, but I think anyone on this board who isn't married and trying to have kids would be freaked out at this point. He did what comes naturally to couples in a relationship, had sex and through a stroke of bad luck is in the middle of a pregnancy scare. He's doing the mature thing though, he hasn't dumped her or anything, he's going to the doctor with her. What else is he supposed to do? I think everyone here wears a condom during sex and feels safe, sure there's a tiny chance it won't be safe, but I don't think that stops anyone.

 

[Erzengel]

I think when I originally stated that in was just a general comment on sex and responsibility. Almost a precautionary warning to JAL just about sex in general.

And yes this was a possible outcome of him having sex and that he should be prepared for it. And while yes he is freaking out, I never said he wasn't being responsible about it, whether it be condoms or not supporting her until they find out for sure.

My whole point was sex in general is a responsibility.

 

[The Apatow Crew]

I don't see how he's not being responsible though, he wore a condom, he's going to the doctor with her. Sure, he's freaking out, but I think anyone on this board who isn't married and trying to have kids would be freaked out at this point. He did what comes naturally to couples in a relationship, had sex and through a stroke of bad luck is in the middle of a pregnancy scare. He's doing the mature thing though, he hasn't dumped her or anything, he's going to the doctor with her. What else is he supposed to do? I think everyone here wears a condom during sex and feels safe, sure there's a tiny chance it won't be safe, but I don't think that stops anyone.

I guess they want a complete credit history of the persons background and a complete list of people she banged and who they banged and who thy banged and so on and so on. lol.

But yeah, i am doing all the things you mentioned.

I mean was i suppose to be like no thank you i don't wanna have sex with you tonight until i get a complete check of your history and some blood work please before anything else happen.

 

[Erzengel]

I know a girl who's allergic to latex so she can't use condoms. So every guy she's intimate with has to get checked out.

There are millions of Americans out there walking around with a STD.

I'm not saying you didn't do everything right but there's nothing wrong with asking someone to get tested.

 

[jaguarr]

I know a girl who's allergic to latex so she can't use condoms. So every guy she's intimate with has to get checked out.

They make latex-free condoms, so you're friend just likes to bareback.

jag

 

[The Apatow Crew]

Yeah, cause that's the first thing that pops into a virgins head, when tempted by sex.

 

[Erzengel]

They make latex-free condoms, so you're friend just likes to bareback.

jag

She was allergic to everything under the sun it seems and she was a crazy, which I'm guessing made the sex fun, but in the long run wasn't worth it.

 

[Erzengel]

Yeah, cause that's the first thing that pops into a virgins head, when tempted by sex.

You'd be surprised how many of us just had the thought, well as long as I pull out.

 

[DV8]

Dude, it's epic. So far we have JAL:
1)meeting girl at work
2)being awkward around girl
3)asking girl out
4)losing virginity to girl
5)hearing girl is late on her period.

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I missed all that . . . did he post the details on the Relationship advice thread?? **grabs popcorn**

 

[jaguarr]

She was allergic to everything under the sun it seems and she was a crazy, which I'm guessing made the sex fun, but in the long run wasn't worth it.

jag

 

[The Apatow Crew]

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I missed all that . . . did he post the details on the Relationship advice thread?? **grabs popcorn**

Good I have be of serios of entertainment to you.

An d no i have not said anything much really.

 

[Ronny Shade]

They make latex-free condoms, so you're friend just likes to bareback.

jag

I'm friend, too

 

[jaguarr]

I'm friend, too

I'll....make sure Erzengel is aware...

jag

 

[The Apatow Crew]

Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.

 

[The Squirrel]

We need a detailed re-cap in JAL's own words.

 

[The Apatow Crew]

We need a detailed re-cap in JAL's own words.

Of what events that is? I really didn't give a play by play of the events.

 

[Ronny Shade]

I'll....make sure Erzengel is aware...

jag

It was a grammar thing. I think you're coming down with a bit of JAL.

 

[jaguarr]

It was a grammar thing. I think you're coming down with a bit of JAL.

jag

 

[The Apatow Crew]

It was a grammar thing. I think you're coming down with a bit of JAL.

 

[Eggyman]

Frankenbaby.

 

[The Apatow Crew]

lol

that your handy work?

 

[Eggyman]

Hmm. 'lol' and the eyeroll are a funny combination. It actually looks more like your handiwork. Man-up. heh

 

[JLBats]

Well, I guess JAL is gone forever now

 

[The Apatow Crew]

Hmm. 'lol' and the eyeroll are a funny combination. It actually looks more like your handiwork. Man-up. heh

Yeah, cause for some odd reason the middle of the face is just pink. thats strange.

 

[DV8]

so . . . . JAL (Judd Apatow's Lover) . . . uhhhh, can we like, get you to post of pic of the piece of work you lost your boyhood to??