Watched it last night. I liked it well enough. I know some people have issue with the way its moved away from the original series, but I disagree. The spirit is still there. Kirk and Krall's dialogue screamed of one of Bill Shatner's speeches from the original. Yes, its been modernized. Get over it Trekkies. The spirit remains (and that is a helluva lot more than some fandoms can say, i.e. Superman/DC comics fans).
As for the gay Sulu thing...I dunno, I agree with George Takei in the sense that it was a "whisper." You blink, you miss it. There was no reason to do it, but conversely, there was no reason not to do it. In a way, it felt patronizing, sort of like screaming "HEY EVERYONE! LOOK HOW PROGRESSIVE WE'RE BEING!" We didn't see Chekov's family or Uhura's or Scotty or Bones. So why even show Sulu's? They literally turned Sulu gay simply for the sake of turning Sulu gay. I can see why Takei would take issue with that, especially if he knows it contradicts with his friend Roddenberry's vision of the character. And he is quite right that the issue of LGBT characters in film has been hhandlesandled much more "profoundly" by others. But, as I said, there's no reason really not to do it either. They did it, its not a big deal either way.