I played a BroShep but have zero problems with a FemShep. I really don't care what choices they make for a TV show as long as they make choices that make sense within the narrative, and I think this binary paragon/renegade aspect should be canned for the show. Shep should just react to situations as they are written to be.
I finally picked up and finished Andromeda and it wasn't bad, just felt like a big missed opportunity, but I do like how they handled the "morality aspect".
So I don't care if ME fans get alienated over a gender or who lives between Ashley and Kaidan, I just hope it makes sense for the character they establish Shepard to be. It's like watching someone else's playthrough and getting mad, makes no sense.