My arrogance? Apologies. I assumed that when you used the word "heroism", you meant "heroism", not "My own personal version of heroism that conflicts with the actual definition of said word".
Pretty much. You're forgiven.
So... you wanted me to use the
textbook definition of the word then? The one you said doesn't have to be shown on screen for me to recognize it? Nice! Now I get where this is going!

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If we use the word "hero" and I mean it, it can mean several things as a word. Christ, it can mean a sandwich for God's sake. One of those possible definitions is someone described for their noble attributes. This Peter caught bad guys largely for himself, created a super monster out of his own recklessness and cleaned up his own mess. It's not really heroic to me, it's simply cleaning up your own mess once your realize the gravity of the situation. It's
awesome, but not heroic. Sure he made up for it, but he helped cause it. I know that, he knows that, which is why he is pushed so adamantly to find and stop The Lizard. "I have to stop him [...] I helped create him." He doesn't know
exactly why he will continue to do is super-heroics after The Lizard or finding Ben's killer. Sure he wants to help people, he's a good kid--he's just not a hero. Much in the same way that Peter wasn't heroic for hunting Ben's killer in the comics. Despite the fact that confronting a known killer is no doubt courageous, and arguably a
heroic action due to the courage on display, he is not a
heroic person for it because the intention is clouded. He caused the horrible event and then made up for it. It's a step forward, it's not the moment he becomes a hero. He becomes a hero when he makes his promise to Stacy/listens to Ben's voicemail and finally understands his purpose. No longer is it an obligation of guilt, but an obligation derived from his good nature.
As I said before, sure he saves some people... and it's heroic. A heroic deed does not make the individual heroic. Just as an aggressive deed does not make someone hostile in their nature. If Pete goes out to a strip club with Harry when they hit 18, is he a depraved pervert? Herp-da-derp. This entire movie is about
becoming a hero not
being a hero. It's a learning experience. Which is why many people are so actively engaged with the plot; he's
growing. When he saves the child, he is actively discovering himself, he is coming to a revelation, he has not experienced the revelation as of yet. He's learning, he has not learned.
You're arguing that he is courageous, brave, and does the right things. I'm arguing that he is not a heroic individual
yet. This plot highly mirrors the ancient Greek/Roman stories of the past following the same "Hero's Journey" that tons of stories have followed before it. While many comic movies cut the chase and end the hero's journey mid-plot making the protagonist heroic from the get-go, this one takes an entire story as it's own hero's journey resulting with Peter becoming a heroic individual at the end.
Either way with this, go on, quote it, flaunt your feathers. I'm done before you get
too nasty, this isn't a real debate and I can tell where it's going as I am sure most you have quoted have realized that your train of logic is a linear unwavering line. Heroic is a quality, you're right. One that can describe an action or someone's inherent personality. You insist the former constitutes the latter, I argue that the latter can only be achieved when inner growth has been achieved.
I suppose this is all more for the people lurking on us than it is for you, so I hope you've all enjoyed it SHH readers!
Probably cause you enjoyed all of it.
As is your right to do so
Right. It seems like many people are misconstruing the purpose of this thread, which isn't to debate or fight with people over what you didn't like... it's to vent it here so you don't have to muck up everybody else's good time by harping on the smallest complaints possible.
It's like, a complaint magnet and that's awesome. It keeps all the needless fan gripes to a minimum and keeps people like me (who didn't like it all that much) outside of everybody else's celebration so I don't have to rain all over their parade and sour the mood.