SpideyVille
Walking out the Desert
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Yeah, after a couple of my friends broke up last summer because the girl found out that the guy cheated on her, I kept in close touch with both of them as a mediator. I never took any sides and I tried to help them both deal with the pain while trying to move on to being happy again. But after a few months, I gave the girl a piece of my mind because I was angry with how she started hanging with the wrong crowd and was listening to a bunch of lies about him that I knew weren't true because I was with him a lot and he kept no secrets from me.Apologies are more to clear my guilt about things. Even if the other person is being a bonehead, someone has to be the adult and clear the air. Even if they don't accept, it's on them because at least I tried.
The argument didn't end well and after a couple of days, he found out and told me to apologize, which I did because I knew some of the things I said were harsh. But she told me "Don't apologize because I know you don't mean it!" I was like, at least I tried, and I moved on and didn't bother with them anymore. But what really got me angry was that the guy was trying to get me to apologize again to her. But like you said, I swallowed my pride and apologized but she wouldn't accept, so at that point, it's no longer my problem.





