has a guy ever interrupted your date to talk to the chick?

[War Lord]

You could have read every book on dating but there are somethings in life you can only learn by doing. Pun intended.

There's a pun in there somewhere?

I didn't notice.

 

[webhead731]

I haven't had a date yet but it would suck if it happened.

 

[Sensi]

yes it has happened. i just smiled politely and said no thank you i have one already. then i smiled a flirty smile at my date and continued a nice night.. i feel if you are with a date you are WITH a date (at least for that night)...yup

 

[Iceman]

I think a lot of you are misinterpreting the woman. It sounds like she was on a date with this guy (1) and guy (2) takes it upon himself to buy her a drink and then walk over to their table. Up to then she really didn't do anything wrong though her accepting the drink is debatable. GAH would need to finish the rest of that story before everyone states that the girl is a b'tch or guy (1) should have taken control of the situation.

I agree that the girl hasn't yet done anything wrong but the guy buying the drink is out of order if he can see a guy and girl obviously together and buys the drink before asking. The guy on the blind date has the right to say something ie take control of the situation.

 

[sinewave]

Being cool means to never having to need to be cool.

No, being cool means having your office in the rest room of a diner and making jukeboxes work by punching them.

 

[War Lord]

No, being cool means having your office in the rest room of a diner and making jukeboxes work by punching them.

And knowing what to do with the word, "Geronimo".

 

[Daisy]

so im watching blind date and this guy is on a date with this chick and out of nowhere some other dude buys her a drink and actually comes over to the table they we're at and introduced himself. if that was me, i would've punched him in the face.

have this happened to anyone? what would you have done?

I've been hit on by other guys when I'm on a date. Some guys are just like that... they figure if they don't know the guy (I would guess there are even a select few where even this doesn't matter) it's fair game.

I just say, "Sorry, not interested." or something of that nature. If the guy persists, I let the guy I'm with take care of it.

 

[Erzengel]

I start jumping on my chair making monkey noises and start flinging my food at the guy, causing a huge scene.

 

[Jplaya2023]

so im watching blind date and this guy is on a date with this chick and out of nowhere some other dude buys her a drink and actually comes over to the table they we're at and introduced himself. if that was me, i would've punched him in the face.

have this happened to anyone? what would you have done?

Dawg dont hate the playa, hate the game. Be mad at the chick for letting that nikka game her up like that and buying her drinks, but never get mad at the dude under no circumstance unless he laying hands on her and she get upset. You wanting to hurt the dude is idiotic and shows your anger. You gotta play that shyt smooth man.

 

[terry78]

Hasn't this happened in every single teen comedy from the 1980's?

I think the other guy only makes an attempt if he assumes the guy she's with won't do anything to him, like he appears to be a ***** or something of that nature. You will never see a big, frat boy looking dude with a girl ever have another guy attempt something, unless he's bigger himself.

 

[Dorian Gray]

No..... my current g/f freaks out and gets angry with guys who show the slightest interest in her and that pretty much scares them off....I don't have to do a thing.

Its funnier to watch.

......at times I don't know if its devotion or crazy (she is a tad uptight, wound and a jealous type)

 

[sinewave]

Dawg dont hate the playa, hate the game. Be mad at the chick for letting that nikka game her up like that and buying her drinks, but never get mad at the dude under no circumstance unless he laying hands on her and she get upset. You wanting to hurt the dude is idiotic and shows your anger. You gotta play that shyt smooth man.

For some reason, I picture a 90-pound, 14 year old white kid typing this and it cracks me up like nobody's business.

 

[JLBats]

Dawg dont hate the playa, hate the game. Be mad at the chick for letting that nikka game her up like that and buying her drinks, but never get mad at the dude under no circumstance unless he laying hands on her and she get upset. You wanting to hurt the dude is idiotic and shows your anger. You gotta play that shyt smooth man.

I think I saw this the other day, in the back of "Ebonics for Dummies".

 

[sinewave]

I think I saw this the other day, in the back of "Ebonics for Dummies".

is it in the "don'ts" section?

 

[JLBats]

is it in the "don'ts" section?

Yes.

I'm always amused by the "Complete Idiot's Guide to-" and "for Dummies" series of books. I once saw "Sexual Position for Dummies" and "The Complete Idiot's Guide to Islam".

 

[sinewave]

Yes.

I'm always amused by the "Complete Idiot's Guide to-" and "for Dummies" series of books. I once saw "Sexual Position for Dummies" and "The Complete Idiot's Guide to Islam".

I'm waiting for my "Idiot's Guide to Idiots" to arrive in the mail as I type.

 

[Super_Ludacris]

Jplaya has a point. A girl could just refuse advances from the next man but she obviously must have the goldigger mentality and the other guy's pimp hand must be way strong for him to just snatch the dude's girl like that like it's nothing. It's funny to see, but it sounds ****ed up at the same time.

 

[Tsunulia]

I start jumping on my chair making monkey noises and start flinging my food at the guy, causing a huge scene.

Sounds like the monkey needs a spank.

 

[kainedamo]

I've been hit on by other guys when I'm on a date. Some guys are just like that... they figure if they don't know the guy (I would guess there are even a select few where even this doesn't matter) it's fair game.

I just say, "Sorry, not interested." or something of that nature. If the guy persists, I let the guy I'm with take care of it.

Shouldn't you be standing up for yourself a bit more? In your position, i'd say something along the lines of "can't you see I'm with someone you moron? Go to hell you ****ing sleazebag".

 

[Erzengel]

Jplaya has a point. A girl could just refuse advances from the next man but she obviously must have the goldigger mentality and the other guy's pimp hand must be way strong for him to just snatch the dude's girl like that like it's nothing. It's funny to see, but it sounds ****ed up at the same time.

It could be several different scenarios.

A drink arrives at the table.
Girl: I didn't order this.
Waiter: It was ordered by the gentleman over there.
Girl stares at date befuddled.
Other guy comes over and starts talking.

A girl could be so astonished recieving the drink she may not have time to send it back or think of anything to say before the guy comes over. Of course I would have taken the drink for myself cause I don't like wasting alcohol.

 

[JLBats]

Shouldn't you be standing up for yourself a bit more? In your position, i'd say something along the lines of "can't you see I'm with someone you moron? Go to hell you ****ing sleazebag".

You feminazi.

 

[kainedamo]

Lol, Daisy's attitude is slightly reverse feminism you have to admit.

 

[jaguarr]

Lol, Daisy's attitude is slightly reverse feminism you have to admit.

Why? Because she handles such situations with a modicum of class and decorum and approaches the problem from a partnership perspective with her date? I don't really see reverse feminism at play. I see a balanced approach to dealing with this sort of situation that unites her with her date against the infringing male. Reverse feminism would be if she said nothing at all and left it completely up to her date to contend with.

jag

 

[JLBats]

Lol, Daisy's attitude is slightly reverse feminism you have to admit.

As it should be. The women cook. The men deal with the perverts. Haven't you read Gender Relations for Dummies?

 

[kainedamo]

Well... all she says is "Sorry I'm not interested", and after that point she leaves it up to her date to deal with.

If a guy is so rude and ignorant as to invade on you and your date, someone needs to tell that guy where to go. Whoever gets in there first, doesn't matter who. Tell that ******* to **** off, nevermind "Sorry I'm not interested".