has a guy ever interrupted your date to talk to the chick?

[JLBats]

Why do you make everything a ****ing political statement?

Vickie doesn't love me!! I BLAME THE REPUBLICANS!

 

[kainedamo]

*shrugs* I'm just stating my opinion

 

[JLBats]

*shrugs* I'm just stating my opinion

Yeah. Stop doing that.

 

[jaguarr]

"Sorry, I'm not interested" is the civil way in which to tell someone to "F**k off". Rudeness is not always necessary. Especially since most guys who are uncouth enough to buy a woman a drink and chat her up while her date, boyfriend or husband are with her are already figuring that they could take that other man in a fight and probably would invite any sort of gesture that might open up that possiblity to reality. Being obnoxious and crass right out of the gate would probably just escalate the situation. Better to first see if they'll just go away quietly before taking it to that level.

jag

 

[kainedamo]

I do have a habit of taking things too seriously sometimes. I guess I dunno when's appropriate to charge in there with my "this is how things should be" attitude, and when to just shrug and take it easy.

 

[Logan Howlett]

Ya happened to me once, I sat there and laughed at the guy. It was some underdeveloped ice smoking ****** who for some reason thought he was fabio! He tried to pick my girl up right in front of me and I just burst out laughing, turned to her and she burst out laughing, and then she shoved her toung down my thoaght, looked at the guy and said "Do I have to paint a bigger picture?"

 

[terry78]

Basically the metaphorical equivalent of kicking sand in your face. You have to be either really arrogant or really tipsy to pull something off like that though.

 

[Jplaya2023]

I think I saw this the other day, in the back of "Ebonics for Dummies".

1/10 your jokes are old

 

[Ronny Shade]

If a girl is talking to other men, she doesn't deserve me.

I'd leave.

 

[araxna]

^good point

 

[Jplaya2023]

If a girl is talking to other men, she doesn't deserve me.

I'd leave.

Exactly, nikkas on this site trying to act like a superhero talking about fighting dude not even knowing if he's carrying or not, just for some chick.

 

[Daisy]

Well... all she says is "Sorry I'm not interested", and after that point she leaves it up to her date to deal with.

If a guy is so rude and ignorant as to invade on you and your date, someone needs to tell that guy where to go. Whoever gets in there first, doesn't matter who. Tell that ******* to **** off, nevermind "Sorry I'm not interested".

First of all, I rarely curse. It makes it far more effective when I do.

Second, I don't like making scenes or bringing on trouble where it needn't be, so I don't tend to be unnecessarily confrontational.

Third, a guy not respecting me politely telling him I'm not interested gives me an indication that he probably doesn't really respect women in general (heck, the whole approaching me when I'm with someone else suggests that he doesn't exactly have a very 'enlightened' view of women), therefore, he may be more likely to respond to the guy I'm with saying: "Excuse me, perhaps you didn't hear her. She said she's not interested."

Finally, a guy approaching a woman who is with another guy, in my mind, isn't really about the woman. It's a 'chest-beating', 'proove-my-manliness' kind of thing. In my experience, it's generally better not to get in the middle of those.

 

[Helghast]

so im watching blind date and this guy is on a date with this chick and out of nowhere some other dude buys her a drink and actually comes over to the table they we're at and introduced himself. if that was me, i would've punched him in the face.

have this happened to anyone? what would you have done?

Yeah, something like that happened to me. He swooped in with a chair and sat on it like a dumbass (arms resting on the back of the chair). He hit on her for a while and I was thinking of something funny to say, then for ****s and giggles she said, "My friend thinks you're hot." And it turned out to be me. It took a while for me to catch on that she's trying to present me as gay and wanting the guy, then we had shennanigans with the ****er and he ended up trying to jam my genitals into his mouth. Scariest. Night. Ever.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

First of all, I rarely curse. It makes it far more effective when I do.

Second, I don't like making scenes or bringing on trouble where it needn't be, so I don't tend to be unnecessarily confrontational.

Third, a guy not respecting me politely telling him I'm not interested gives me an indication that he probably doesn't really respect women in general (heck, the whole approaching me when I'm with someone else suggests that he doesn't exactly have a very 'enlightened' view of women), therefore, he may be more likely to respond to the guy I'm with saying: "Excuse me, perhaps you didn't hear her. She said she's not interested."

Finally, a guy approaching a woman who is with another guy, in my mind, isn't really about the woman. It's a 'chest-beating', 'proove-my-manliness' kind of thing. In my experience, it's generally better not to get in the middle of those.

question for ya, if a guy is on a date(first), and a woman approaches him and gives him her number, is it appropriate for the guy to keep it(not knowing if the date with the girl is going well to continue a second date) or would you rather have him throw the number away?

 

[JLBats]

1/10 your jokes are old

Your personality belongs in an Egyptian tomb, Jigglypuff

 

[Daisy]

question for ya, if a guy is on a date(first), and a woman approaches him and gives him her number, is it appropriate for the guy to keep it(not knowing if the date with the girl is going well to continue a second date) or would you rather have him throw the number away?

I can guarantee if I guy accepts (much less keeps) a phone number from girl #2 (the one who approaches him), he won't be going out on a second date with girl #1 (the one he's on the date with).

Does that answer your question or do I need to spell it out further?

Also, just FYI - in the same way that a guy hitting on a girl who's with another guy generally isn't so much about the girl... a girl giving her number to a guy who's on a date with another girl... isn't really so much about the guy... it's kind of the female equivalent of the 'chest-beating' thing.

 

[araxna]

speaking on behalf of females here..if a woman does that..just ignore her..she wouldn't deserve any attention from yer side..

 

[Ronny Shade]

question for ya, if a guy is on a date(first), and a woman approaches him and gives him her number, is it appropriate for the guy to keep it(not knowing if the date with the girl is going well to continue a second date) or would you rather have him throw the number away?

Have a backup agent posing as a waiter so you can throw the number away and have your friend get it back for you

 

[Helghast]

I can guarantee if I guy accepts (much less keeps) a phone number from girl #2 (the one who approaches him), he won't be going out on a second date with girl #1 (the one he's on the date with).

Does that answer your question or do I need to spell it out further?

True. That's why I trained with a magician on how to make things "disappear" into a garbage can, but not really and you instead put the object in your pocket.

 

[Daisy]

Have a backup agent posing as a waiter so you can throw the number away and have your friend get it back for you

Don't you think you should actually have a date with a woman before you start dispensing advice?

 

[War Lord]

speaking on behalf of females here..if a woman does that..just ignore her..she wouldn't deserve any attention from yer side..

But she could be better looking than the one you're out with.

 

[jaguarr]

... it's kind of the female equivalent of the 'chest-beating' thing.

God that sounds sexy.

jag

 

[Daisy]

True. That's why I trained with a magician on how to make things "disappear" into a garbage can, but not really and you instead put the object in your pocket.

You still have to get past that tricky part of not accepting the number in the first place.

 

[Carter]

I got c-blocked so bad last night.
I'm still pissed.

 

[Daisy]

God that sounds sexy.

jag

Well, we just do it open-handed is all.