Yeah, that's right, except for the part where Thor never did anything of the kind. He activated a new power source in Cincinnati and deactivated the nuclear power plant that was supplying energy beforehand. That's all. If the people of Cincinnati decided they didn't want to use Thor's power plant, they could've reactivated the nuclear plant right next door to it anytime they liked. It's not like he destroyed it and
forced them to use his power source. He simply offered them a safer functioning alternative to nuclear power, with no implication whatsoever that he intended to lord it over them or make them totally reliant on it. If he wanted that, why would he have given Tony a piece of the crystal from that power plant to reverse-engineer and duplicate for the entire world? He simply wanted to give mankind a blueprint for more efficient power and get them started on the path towards that goal.
Whether Tony inferred that Thor was somehow laying the groundwork for enslaving the world to his will from that has more to do with Tony's frame of mind than anything else. In fact, that was probably the
most innocuous thing he did in that period of helping the world. Feeding the hungry and such was a double-edged sword because, although it helped the needy right then, it made them less self-reliant. With the power source, he helped the people in the moment
and offered them the ability to help themselves in the future. Thor made no hostile overtures whatsoever in that scenario.
I agree, that was definitely Tony-esque. Of course, Thor was mystically stripped of his humanity at the time. What's Tony's excuse again?