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I'm pretty sure all women innately know they've got the power. But the good ones don't misuse it.
Didn't mean to confuse. What I meant was that a lot of the women who let men treat them like crap don't realize how much power they have. They don't have to settle for being treated like that. I honestly don't think all women know they have this power.
Yep some of these guys who treat women like crap are actually very insecure people themselves and the thought of losing their trim will bring them to their knees.
"Brian...do women like to be treated like crap"?
Ahh... so that's what it is!Because they put out, duh.
The female version of "bad boy".What exactly is considered a "bad girl" anyway?
*Gasp!*So, if the women turned a 'nice guy" into an a'hole wouldn't that make him more attractive?![]()
You know, since all girls dig a'holes.
Either those people enjoy getting hurt over and over again or they are like what you described, "stupid". I guess maybe sometimes it's better to be with someone, even if they hurt you repeatedly, rather than being alone. I don't get it but people are strange.I'm curious as to what kind of women you're pursuing and how you are doing it that they swoon over the first man who comes along who isn't you.
Girls want bad boys, and boys want bad girls. Tis the way of the world. People are generally idiots. And when both of them make stupid choices, and end up getting burt. I find this particular aspect of humanity hilarious. And very sad.
Yes, "nice guys" tend to finish last. But always, but as a general rule. But do you really want a girl who wants to be treated like crap and is willing to settle for the first attractive moron who comes along? Sure, she may be fun to sleep with once or twice, but then the massive insecurities pop up...
It's not just that. I have quite a few male friends who are good listeners and good looking and yet I am not attracted to them as anything more than friends.This is going to sound f-ed up, but what I have found, is that all a woman really wants is a man who listens. Honestly listen, not listen just to get laid. They can tell.
Good post.There's no hard and fast rule with this, I don't think. It's not just black and white. Some people just click better than others. Some people look for the wrong kind of person. Some people do it intentionally because they want what that certain kind has to offer. Some people do it without knowing. Some people think too much about it.
Some guys are naturally nice, and some guys put it on so they can take a woman by surprise before screwing her physically and mentally.
I think the nice guy thing is all about balance. Don't start feeling sorry for yourself if you're a nice guy -- embrace it, it's a good thing. Just don't be a doormat and there should be no problem. That's the only thing you should worry about.
:Balance:
Why? Do you find nice girls boring?I just am.
There are those type of 'nice guys' but there are guys out there who are genuinely nice, but most of the time I found them to be already taken.It's been my observation and experience that most guys who do the 'nice guy rant' aren't actually 'nice guys'. They THINK they are 'nice guys', but they're actually passive aggressive and highly-manipulative (the 'nice guy rant' is just one of many manipulations).
Why should a girl bother with all that drama and bull****, when with a straight-forward *******, she at least knows exactly what to expect?
No.What girls want
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It's not that funny.
jag
How long did you expect me to wait?There are those type of 'nice guys' but there are guys out there who are genuinely nice, but most of the time I found them to be already taken.
Cause everyone knows crazy girls are the best in bed.
Your amusement is annoying.
jag
What about the nice women?
Any guys want a girl who is really nice and respectful etc...