Why women are stupid, The Myth of "The Nice Guy"

[MaskedManJRK]

After trying that "Nice Guy" thing, I think it's more likely that a girl will have "A Man," which is essentially a blend of the two.

Also, working out will probably help. Like Lighthouse said above me, women are a lot like men that they'll go for the hot ones. You never see a fat, slobby ******* with a beautiful girl, do you?

 

[PyroChamber]

You never see a fat, slobby ******* with a beautiful girl, do you?

You'd be surprised. Sometimes overweight guys have to use humor to get women since being overweight to most people isn't considered a good thing.

 

[Logan's Runt]

This thread is fail.

 

[Whirlysplat]

This thread is fail.

I love the internet lingo...... When people post fail and nothing else, it usually means a nerve has been touched. Tell me about your pain Logan's runt.

 

[Logan's Runt]

I love the internet lingo...... When people post fail and nothing else, it usually means a nerve has been touched. Tell me about your pain Logan's runt.

Drak touched me 'there.'

 

[bullets]

Nice guys are boring . I think that's what it is. How much fun can you have constantly worrying and afraid to take risks.

 

[Whirlysplat]

Nice guys are boring . I think that's what it is. How much fun can you have constantly worrying and afraid to take risks.

Are you "nice" bullets?

 

[bullets]

Are you "nice" bullets?

I've been called bad boy but I don't see it like that . I do alot of what I want most of the time . I'm not an a'hole to girls but i say things some people wouldn't , That is just me joking though.

 

[The Guard]

I'm curious as to what kind of women you're pursuing and how you are doing it that they swoon over the first man who comes along who isn't you.

Girls want bad boys, and boys want bad girls. Tis the way of the world. People are generally idiots. And when both of them make stupid choices, and end up getting burt. I find this particular aspect of humanity hilarious. And very sad.

Yes, "nice guys" tend to finish last. But always, but as a general rule. But do you really want a girl who wants to be treated like crap and is willing to settle for the first attractive moron who comes along? Sure, she may be fun to sleep with once or twice, but then the massive insecurities pop up...

 

[Ghostvirus]

This is going to sound f-ed up, but what I have found, is that all a woman really wants is a man who listens. Honestly listen, not listen just to get laid. They can tell.

 

[PyroChamber]

This is going to sound f-ed up, but what I have found, is that all a woman really wants is a man who listens. Honestly listen, not listen just to get laid. They can tell.

I listen, but then they'll get deep into their problems and this maybe harsh but I don't think I can date a woman who has more problems than me.

 

[MaskedManJRK]

You'd be surprised. Sometimes overweight guys have to use humor to get women since being overweight to most people isn't considered a good thing.

Which is why I said "fat ass-hole."

 

[Ghostvirus]

I listen, but then they'll get deep into their problems and this maybe harsh but I don't think I can date a woman who has more problems than me.

Good luck with that. Everyone has problems. You can't escape that.

 

[Eggyman]

There's no hard and fast rule with this, I don't think. It's not just black and white. Some people just click better than others. Some people look for the wrong kind of person. Some people do it intentionally because they want what that certain kind has to offer. Some people do it without knowing. Some people think too much about it.

Some guys are naturally nice, and some guys put it on so they can take a woman by surprise before screwing her physically and mentally.

I think the nice guy thing is all about balance. Don't start feeling sorry for yourself if you're a nice guy -- embrace it, it's a good thing. Just don't be a doormat and there should be no problem. That's the only thing you should worry about.

:Balance:

 

[ScottyBBadd]

On the same token, why are some guys attracted to bad girls?

I just am.

 

[turtlefocker]

If you are in an abusive relationship it's your fault for dating him

 

[psychocheeseman]

Sorry Whirlysplat your post sounded like a big winge about how girls don't notice your "inner confidence" because you're such a nice guy.

Girls do want nice guys. its just that those traits aren't usually the first things that girls are attracted too when they are becoming attracted to someone.

I think you might be confusing nice with shy. When it comes to falling for someone, you have to see them first. That's why so many jocks have so much success, they're noticed, whilst the shy nice guys are sitting in the corner wondering why girls like jerks.

Nice guys don't always finish last. If you're a nice guy you should be proud and have more "genuine" confidence than any jock who acts all cocky in public to get himself noticed.

posting a thread like this just makes you sound bitter and resentful. Women are beautiful creatures, they come in all shapes and sizes, very few would be as bad as you think... but they do all have boobies!

 

[Mac_Hine]

Guys are first attracted to looks while girls are attracted to status. And status doesn't really mean monetary (though it does help) but more of inner status ie. healthy self-esteem, confidence and humor.

 

[Drakon]

Drak touched me 'there.'

Don't frown. You liked every minute of it.

 

[ComicChick]

After trying that "Nice Guy" thing, I think it's more likely that a girl will have "A Man," which is essentially a blend of the two.

Also, working out will probably help. Like Lighthouse said above me, women are a lot like men that they'll go for the hot ones. You never see a fat, slobby ******* with a beautiful girl, do you?

music videos, tv, etc

Simpsons, Family Guy (cartoons, but still)
King of Queens, Still Standing lol

 

[Daisy]

It's been my observation and experience that most guys who do the 'nice guy rant' aren't actually 'nice guys'. They THINK they are 'nice guys', but they're actually passive aggressive and highly-manipulative (the 'nice guy rant' is just one of many manipulations).

Why should a girl bother with all that drama and bull****, when with a straight-forward *******, she at least knows exactly what to expect?

 

[Mac_Hine]

It's been my observation and experience that most guys who do the 'nice guy rant' aren't actually 'nice guys'. They THINK they are 'nice guys', but they're actually passive aggressive and highly-manipulative (the 'nice guy rant' is just one of many manipulations).

Why should a girl bother with all that drama and bull****, when with a straight-forward *******, she at least knows exactly what to expect?

I agree. I'm a dude and I see some guys who do the "nice guy" thing and they think that by sucking up to women and buying them things will make girls like them which in reality is very manipulative like you said. And they are angry at women too because they just don't "get it". They complain and complain instead of working on themselves and learning how to talk to women.

 

[ComicChick]

It's been my observation and experience that most guys who do the 'nice guy rant' aren't actually 'nice guys'. They THINK they are 'nice guys', but they're actually passive aggressive and highly-manipulative (the 'nice guy rant' is just one of many manipulations).

i also find it kinda amusing when said "nice guys" seem to think all girls want "bad boys". I can honestly say I don't. I don't want a mysterious, dangerous guy. I want someone I can trust who I can count on.

To geekify it all up, (since we're on a comic book board after all ); in a thread oh so long ago (deleted during the purge i think) someone asked if you could have any X character as a significant other, who would it be.

Most of the girls picked Gambit. They can have him. Give me Bobby Drake any day

 

[PyroChamber]

They complain and complain instead of working on themselves and learning how to talk to women.

Is there really a way a man can learn how to talk to women?

 

[CieloAzul]

Well they've got to start years ahead. After googoo, gahgah, mama, and dada it's kind of downhill from there.

It's not like guys need a decoder or anything....
Then we'd have to figure out a new way to drive guys crazy. Which I guess is pretty easy for the "nice guys." They'll believe anything.