Superman doesn't need many lines to get his point across. Lines like that humanizes him. I guess the difference is I am willing to accept that someone can emotionally break Superman. I will admit though that I started to care more about Superman because of the last 2 movies, the fact he is confused about what he is supposed to be, makes him feel more relatable to me. And when he does makes a decision amidst all the confusion to save the world provides a more emotional impact.
Lines like that humanise him as a sad, pathetic representation of the feeble, pessimistic self-pitying aspect of humanity.
Snyder is projecting his own world view onto Superman. He's turning Superman into his emotional, philosophical autobiography.
The vast majority of the world are not resonating to this. It's good that you do, but for the DCEU to survive, it needs to resonate with the majority, not the minority.
To me, he didn't make decision to save the world, he wanted to save Lois. Because of that self pitying self absorbed character, built up over 2movies, I saw a man who didn't sacrifice himself for the world but martyred himself in the ultimate act of self pity-an attention seeking suicide in front of his family (Lois).
A lesson he learned from Jonathon in MoS.
I saw a man tired of being constantly let down by the world (reinforced in the movie by lines from Lois in the tub, Martha and especially ghost-dad (really? They're ripping off Hamlet now?)), that takes himself out in a petulant "so there!" act, designed to make the world feel bad and finally appreciate him when he's gone. Except we know he isn't at the very end.
What I saw was the most self indulgent fantasy of a sad, suicide-faking victim of deep depression.
There is nothing heroic in martyrdom.
This portrayal is the absolute antithesis of the Death of Superman. There, he was the only thing left to oppose Doomsday. It was the definition of noble sacrifice
He did it bare handed as well, which would have been much better cinematically than the recreation of the climax of 1981's Excalibur that we actually got.
A healthy, heroic psyche focused on outcomes instead of self indulgence would have simply given the spear to Wonder Woman.
As almost everyone has noted.
There were any number of ways to have concluded that battle to make Superman look like a noble self-sacrificing hero instead of a dull witted child badly in need of an extended stay at Open Sky.
The fact that we got it presented to us in the way that we did speaks volumes about why this movie failed to resonate and why the DCEU is in terrible danger of imploding before it even gets started.
We'll have to wait for JL to see if it can be saved from here.