Fail to see what it is that people find so 'cringeworthy' about the Flash pilot.
Whatever people might be feeling, The Flash pilot gave the network its highest-rated premiere in six years. It also out-delivered the premiere of Arrow by thirteen percent. So its a ratings hit, and moving forward it will be interesting to see how the series retains its audience, much like Gotham.
It's not really "big" or shocking that the Flash got higher ratings than AoS.
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