Tell your biological clock you'll get there when you're ready. Plus there's artificial insemination or adoption.i confess i am kinda scared that i might never have children
Tell your biological clock you'll get there when you're ready. Plus there's artificial insemination or adoption.
That’s itMy guess is bc the current dating world is a cesspool and there aren’t enough reliable decent men to marry let alone procreate with.
I hear you on that. My current health is rather good when it comes to hereditary illnesses, but I'm not sure I want to risk it.I confess I never wanted kids because 1- I have wonky medical history and 2- this isn't really the kind of world to raise a kid in, I get the feeling it's all going to get much worse before it gets better. Which is why my current gf is nearly perfect, no possibility of accidental procreation, score!
Happy birthday, I guess.My clock is winding down. I just turned 34. My parents had me at 39 so I know there is time but Gunny hit it on the head
Whilst I can understand your perspective here, it's not a very positive one to have!I confess I never wanted kids because 1- I have wonky medical history and 2- this isn't really the kind of world to raise a kid in, I get the feeling it's all going to get much worse before it gets better. Which is why my current gf is nearly perfect, no possibility of accidental procreation, score!
I can relate to this. My parents had me in their early 20's, I'm now 32, and the idea of starting a family would likely be within a three year window (simply because I'd need to first meet someone, feel they're right for me and the family life, and then have a child) so I'd be looking at me being 35/36, which doesn't seem old in itself, but the number of people I know around my age who already have children makes it seem out of the norm.My clock is winding down. I just turned 34. My parents had me at 39 so I know there is time but Gunny hit it on the head.
i've thought about it, but that idea doesn't really appeal to me. i don't know when it happened, but somewhere in the back of CC's subconscious, she had this little thought that she actually did want to create and start a family after all, after over a decade of being adamantly against it. it sucks lol.
A white fence? No. It’ll get dirty too quick. Paint it brown, or black.I'm about your age so I get the feeling but I'm still "cool about it", since I want option B, the guy and the kids. Maybe a dog, the house and the white fence. Yeah, the whole combo but since I still haven't found what I'm looking for I'm patiently waiting.
Yeah, I get it! The thought of being a single mum is not appealing at all but it all depends on the "why" do you want it.
1). Do you just want to be a mum? or 2). you want the guy AND the kids.
I ask myself that, every time I get anxious about it. So that way I make myself remember what the heck I really want.
I'm about your age so I get the feeling but I'm still "cool about it", since I want option B, the guy and the kids. Maybe a dog, the house and the white fence. Yeah, the whole combo but since I still haven't found what I'm looking for I'm patiently waiting.
After that excuse they gave you they were supposed to pay you 4 days ago.I’ve had a new job since Sept 3. I haven’t been paid yet. I’m told that they are on a biweekly pay schedule but they had me on probation for the first week. That was their justification for delaying pay. I supposedly get paid tomorrow. My wife, father in law, and father have told me that if they don’t hand over a check first thing in the morning, to say that I’ll come back at the end of the day to get it.
Part of me loves the job. I work in an auction house and I get to deal with historic items. Part of me hates it because I’m constantly being pulled in three directions at once, and management is chaotic and unorganized. I’ve looked at employee reviews and they have said the same thing. Part of me knows I should quit but I have no backup job. I didn’t know, but they are legally required to show money after 16 days of work. It’s been 27.
I want to create a new recycling program for the city sanitation to streamline it and to create new jobs for our community. I also want to help create an affordable rehabilitation center for recovering addicts and invest in safe injection zones. I want to create greater punishment for dealers and drug distributors. Lastly, I want to add bike trails and walking paths throughout our community to allow more environmentally friendly travel. I've been constantly told that a car is required to go around town or to have a job.What’s your platform?
I want to create a new recycling program for the city sanitation to streamline it and to create new jobs for our community. I also want to help create an affordable rehabilitation center for recovering addicts and invest in safe injection zones. I want to create greater punishment for dealers and drug distributors. Lastly, I want to add bike trails and walking paths throughout our community to allow more environmentally friendly travel. I've been constantly told that a car is required to go around town or to have a job.
Mostly younger voters around 18-30 seem to like the idea of the safe injection zone. Our community has been dealing with drugs for quite some time. Our local sherriff and police department have been cracking down on both users and dealers. But their efforts have produced little results. I figure give these people tools to better themselves to become productive members of society. The safe zones are a stretch I agree. I think it would be the next step of the affordable rehabilitation center idea. I would have to ease into it.Given how you have described your parents and the area you reside in previously I have to ask if you have found any constituency that would support the clean injection angle on a local level?
I think out of all the positions you outlined that's the one that could hurt you the most election wise. Are there enough people where you live that would support that? Would it be too easy to paint that as "too liberal" or "immoral"?
Put your own sense of morality aside, as well as what you believe are the practical benefits of this policy, which I think are many, but do you have a reasonable faith in those voting that it won't be used as a cudgel against you by more conservative voices where you live?
Again, going off your past statements about where you live it sounds like you would have a lot on your plate just trying to move the needle on getting support and funding for the recycling, rehabilitation and eco-friendly transportation ideas. A program for addicts to inject drugs safely might be a bridge too far for some.
I also ask, on your other initiatives, have you looked into how those can be implimented with say, help and input from further up the food chain in government at the state or Federal level? Also whoohing local businesses and getting their input would help.
I mean, you admire Warren, no? The motto is "She's got a plan for that!" Well your platform would require at first glance some heavy planning, needing, I assume, an approach to zoning issues, the local and likely state authorities that cover roads, road safety and transportation, the government entities involved in public sanitation, as well as any private sanitation companies, add in the local, state and perhaps public health institutions and law enforcement.
That's just off the top of my head. Have you researched all that? Do your proposals take any of those factors and agencies into account? I could see needing to have answers to all that at the ready in a campaign, and that's just for your platform.
If you take the plunge, good luck.