How so, if I may ask? I wish she was given more importance on Arrow and worked her way up to be one of Olivers equal on the team, like Diggle and Felicity, and Sara in season 2. Sadly, she never broke past the Roy or Thea level of importance on the team, which is a shame IMO. I agree that it would have been nice to see her be more playful. I, personally, found that Cisco scene to be cringe-inducing though.
I wouldn't want her being more playful to be done like that, but in a different way. I think that is what Black Canary fans want though, for other people to be in awe of her, as well as for her to be constantly calling out Oliver and for him to be saying stuff like he isn't good enough for her. I am glad they did not do that, as it would get tiring, although sadly they have that happen with Felicity instead.