Don't Hate The Hater, Hate The Hate! - - - - - Part 17

[wiegeabo]

That's why it's a trap

 

[BATZARRO WWD]

I hate it when people confuse "Do/don't this this for these repercussions" with "don't judge people by saying that action is wrong"

Let's assume Mr. 'A' wants to buy milk to let it get old and rotted then drink it, he made it clear he wants to drink rotten milk. Mr. 'B' tells Mr. 'A' about the health hazards in this action, then comes Mr. 'C' and tells Mr. 'B': "You have no right to judge another person"

Please people, don't confuse the two, I really hate it when people do that, I bet every person told that in similar situations hates it too

Not regarding Spidey's case or nothing, but this reminds me that I hate the way judging has been redefined and overmaligned. I'll explain:

A Jackass performer got drunk, and drove his sportscar off a cliff and into a ravine, killing himself and a passanger. And people actually came out saying don't judge. People actually said that "it could happen to you", even though there are plenty of people who have the good sense not to get wasted and get into a car crash.

I think we're confusing "judging" with "having an opinion" and "reaching a conclusion based on available evidence". Sometimes a person's behavior CAN be a good indicator of a person's personality.

You can't use "don't judge" to get out of basic social responsibility. You can't say "nobody's perfect" to excuse flagrant flaws instead of fixing them. Even in the famous parable that people get that from, it does end with "but don't do it again"

 

[Duran Man]

I hate cats.

 

[Matt Mortem]

I hate that a party I was at last night was almost completely destroyed because of one drunk girl who was arguing a beer pong rule that didn't even apply to the game she had just lost. It was a 45 minute argument with everyone in the apartment. Things came to a screeching halt. She finally got so "upset" that she grabbed her boyfriend and they left. My guess is at some point in the night, had she not got pissed over beer pong, she would have found something else to cause a scene over to leave just the same.

 

[PyroChamber]

I hate that a party I was at last night was almost completely destroyed because of one drunk girl who was arguing a beer pong rule that didn't even apply to the game she had just lost. It was a 45 minute argument with everyone in the apartment. Things came to a screeching halt. She finally got so "upset" that she grabbed her boyfriend and they left. My guess is at some point in the night, had she not got pissed over beer pong, she would have found something else to cause a scene over to leave just the same.

I bet he was embarrassed as hell.

 

[Matt Mortem]

I bet he was embarrassed as hell.

He was more annoyed than anything. He was so extremely drunk that not much was phasing this guy. They left and everything was groovy, but for that chunk of time it was a bit of an ordeal.

 

[Anita18]

That's what you figured.

Doesn't mean it for everyone else.

I was doing an online fitting questionnaire for jeans, and I was actually that I had "full thighs."

Then again I've been a skinny stick all my life, and I've worked hard for my awesome thigh muscles.

Eh. She put herself out there by asking. I never saw full figured as a compliment, but she shouldn't be mad at his answer if she asks how he looks.

As a woman myself....if a woman asks a straight man how she looks in an outfit, she already knows the answer herself, and it's never positive. The answer the guy gives is always "amazing" because a man wouldn't know how to give constructive criticism anyway, unless he was a gay guy really into fashion.

But I'm not friends with women who are self-conscious enough to do that.

 

[Hawkingbird]

I hate everything at the moment...

 

[RetrogradeOrbit]

As a woman myself....if a woman asks a straight man how she looks in an outfit, she already knows the answer herself, and it's never positive. The answer the guy gives is always "amazing" because a man wouldn't know how to give constructive criticism anyway, unless he was a gay guy really into fashion.

I have never given my true opinion when asked this question! For two reasons.
1) As you say, she already knows the answer
2) I'm too honest about these things and would never say "you look great" if I did not honestly think that.

What I normally say back is, "What do you think?"
To be honest, I think any answer is going to be wrong...

On that vein.... I love this as an example of how not to tell a woman how she looks...

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[PyroChamber]

I hate how electric bills seem to go up in the summertime.

 

[wiegeabo]

cause you're using your air conditioner

 

[PyroChamber]

cause you're using your air conditioner

I don't have an air conditioner, hell I only have one small fan.

 

[wiegeabo]

then it's because everyone else is using their air conditioner, so rates go up.

 

[Matt Mortem]

Yeah the difference between my winter electric bill and my summer electric bill averages about $100. $30 for electricity in the winter is rad, $130 in the summer.....not so much

 

[PyroChamber]

Yeah the difference between my winter electric bill and my summer electric bill averages about $100. $30 for electricity in the winter is rad, $130 in the summer.....not so much

One of the reasons why I love winter more than summer.

 

[Mace Dolex]

I hate how the employees at Hot Topic and/or Spencer's Gifts are in your face the moment I walk into the place and telling me about their sales when it's clearly in plain view as I walk in.

I'm just there browsing dude, I'm not there to buy edible panties or blow up dolls.

 

[Matt Mortem]

One of the reasons why I love winter more than summer.

Yeah I'm a winter guy too. Summer can **** off. Ironic that I picked a city where Summer is 10 months out of the year to live in.

 

[Piper Maru]

I prefer autumn, personally.

 

[PyroChamber]

I prefer autumn, personally.

Winter, autumn, either one is better than summer IMO.

 

[James]

I hate how the employees at Hot Topic and/or Spencer's Gifts are in your face the moment I walk into the place and telling me about their sales when it's clearly in plain view as I walk in.

I'm just there browsing dude, I'm not there to buy edible panties or blow up dolls.

This is why I'll never go into a Lulu Lemon ever again. I'm not even there to browse, just tagging a long with someone else -and get accosted by three staff in less than five minutes. I'll just wait outside, thanks.

 

[Mace Dolex]

I hate how the show TMZ overdoes it with the shaky camera and cannot stay on one person still for less than a minute, whether it's focusing on the black guy with dreadlocks, the blonde surfer looking dork or the curly haired Jewish guy in the back, it's just all over the place.

Have the camera more on the cute blonde girl, the brunette with dimples and the brunette with glasses.

And oh yeah TMZ why don't you post some of their name once in a while?

 

[Duke]

I hate the insane prices of some Marvel Masterworks I have my eyes on at Ebay.

 

[wiegeabo]

I hate how the show TMZ overdoes it with the shaky camera and cannot stay on one person still for less than a minute, whether it's focusing on the black guy with dreadlocks, the blonde surfer looking dork or the curly haired Jewish guy in the back, it's just all over the place.

Have the camera more on the cute blonde girl, the brunette with dimples and the brunette with glasses.

And oh yeah TMZ why don't you post some of their name once in a while?

I hate the people keep garbage like TMZ on the air.

 

[Matt Mortem]

I hate that I had my first legitimate nightmare in about 15 years last night.

 

[SpideyVille]

I hate how my sister in law is starting to complain about my work performance, even telling my brother in secret that she thinks I'm a slacker. I've been there for a whole month now and I've picked up everything I've been taught really fast, so much to the point where I'm doing work that isn't even due until another few weeks and I'm pretty much bored and looking for any excuse to get out of my office. I'm still learning new things everyday, but now my SIL thinks I need to pick up the slack since she's feeling overwhelmed and stressed. Ironically though, she took the day off on Monday and expected me and her co-workers to do stuff for her, but we couldn't because our boss gave us a different assignment to work on.