Well damn. You got a link to this story? That's really sad and crazy.
Don't let people fool you into thinking other countries don't have problems with racism either. The UK, France, Japan, and countless other countries deal with these things yet some act as if it's ONLY some big issue in America.
In many of the countries of lights and darks even of the same ethnicity, it's "preferred" to be of a lighter shade.
Every now and then, I'll watch a Bollywood movie if it's subtitled or in English. A vast majority of the actors I see in their movies have light skin. The beauty queens who come out of India typically have light skin, too. I put 2+2 together and realized there must be a skin tone bias in that country. Then one day I saw a commercial online for an Indian skin-lightening that portrayed a beautiful olive-skinned woman being scorned by love until she used the cream and went up a few shades. I have a few friends who grew up in the Philippines, and I've heard about some skin color bias there as well. It's sad, really.
I think black people in the US are the only people I've ever heard of who encourage people with darker skin tones to be proud of their looks. And even that's not consistent. We'll complain about Beyonce's skin being too light after magazine cover touch-ups, then turn around and crack a joke about Wesley Snipes being blacker than midnight.
It is sad that this still goes on between the light and the dark skinned people. Hell between anyone for that matter. I'm pretty dark but my mom is hella light. One of my brothers is light like my mom and people never believed we were brothers. Same dad too.
Haha, most of you have seen pictures of me before, and a black dude that is light skinned with freckles, the comment I get the most is, "you must be mixed" or "are you part white/mexican/native american", etc. Both of my parents are black, but my grandmother is the one that had the white father. But they would say it like, "you're so lucky to look like that and not like the rest of them."
The ****???
I've always hated getting those "You're not like most black people" compliments. It almost always comes from people who don't think they're racist, and they never catch just how stupid that sounds. Do they really think all black people are the stereotypes they see on TV?
Personally, I blame BET.
Those are suppose to be compliments....LoL, it is silly. Everyone is unique and individual, you can't group how someone is as a person because of their race.
it's one of those unintentional backhanded compliments like "you speak so well".
The skin bias thing is just weird. My mother is light skinned, and she used to get hated on by my aunt and some other members of our family for it. It was more of a jealousy thing because my grandmother was light skinned too, and some people hated her for it and felt "morally superior" and all sorts of crap. Then on the other hand, my cousin, the gay one that hates every demographic you could think of, called dark skinned people like my aunt and her kids monsters because of how dark their skin is. This is coming from the guy who hates: white people, all kinds of Latinos, Asian people, black people, straight people, gay people, bisexual people, old people, young people, people from Texas, people not from Texas, and dark skinned people. I've literally heard him hate on all the types of people I just listed. lol At first it was just sad and shocking, but now it's just sad and funny.
My daddy on the other hand is a little dark skinned, and in his family it was "implied" that he and my aunt weren't too special because of it. It was one of those things to where being lighter mattered on his mother's side. It wasn't as bad as my mama's side, but it was one of those silent things that was in the air.
Your cousin is gay and black....but hates everyone including gay and black people?
The skin bias thing is just weird. My mother is light skinned, and she used to get hated on by my aunt and some other members of our family for it. It was more of a jealousy thing because my grandmother was light skinned too, and some people hated her for it and felt "morally superior" and all sorts of crap. Then on the other hand, my cousin, the gay one that hates every demographic you could think of, called dark skinned people like my aunt and her kids monsters because of how dark their skin is. This is coming from the guy who hates: white people, all kinds of Latinos, Asian people, black people, straight people, gay people, bisexual people, old people, young people, people from Texas, people not from Texas, and dark skinned people. I've literally heard him hate on all the types of people I just listed. lol At first it was just sad and shocking, but now it's just sad and funny.
Yes. He's a miserable old man that hates everyone and everything.
Yeah he's kinda like Uncle Ruckus, except the stereotypical flaming gay. His head kinda looks like Ruckus' though. lol