SuperMike335!!
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Okay, well then the substance:
You talk about not letting a girl get to you, and all of that, but quite frankly if you are with a girl that long and have developed that strong of a relationship, what she did should get to you.
Where I agree with you is that he shouldn't be going out of his way to go and insult her, because that just lowers you to her level of wrongdoing, but to just pretend like she never existed, and to show no emotions about her whatsoever is not healthy. You're just bottling **** up inside, and if you're going to be so void of expressing any emotions what so ever, then I don't see how one like that could ever had a successful intimate relationship when your half of it is completely built on not expressing emotion about her whether she do wrong or right, and going off of advice you've given in here before, never being the one to open up to her, and playing little games to make her become the vulnerable one to you constantly.
Slow down there Hoss.
Nobody ever said not having or expressing emotions, but you need to be constructive. Not destructive in a way that makes you look desperate because of an emotional tantrum. - THAT is the mistake so many guys make.
Its not about not have emotions, or even never showing them, its about how you handle them, and about self-control.